Showing posts with label princess. Show all posts
Showing posts with label princess. Show all posts

August 4 - Happy Birthday to Meghan, Duchess of Sussex

Posted on August 4, 2020

There was this TV show called Suits. I really liked the first season - so much so that I watched for eight additional seasons - most of which were a mixed bag of fun and meh.

One of my favorite parts of the show was watching the hyper-competent and lovely paralegal (who eventually became a law student and then a lawyer) named Rachel Zane.

And Rachel was played by an actor named Meghan Markle. Who just happens to be today's famous birthday.

When the news dropped that Markle was going to marry Britain's Prince Harry, I immediately thought two things: "Well, my favorite part of Suits will be leaving," and "I hope they don't kill Rachel off!" Indeed, the show kindly allowed the Rachel character to marry the Mike character and then take off for new career opportunities across the continent. So, phew!

While Rachel-the-fictional-character was getting married and then leaving for Seattle, Washington, Meghan-the-actor was heading to Britain for a royal wedding!



Becoming a royal (and a mom!) had some glamour but also some bumps, and in 2020 Meghan and Harry announced they would be stepping back from being senior members of the royal family in order to live in North America part time. I gather that there was some racist harassment and bullying towards Meghan from some sectors of British press!

Depressing, huh?

Doria Ragland (Meghan's mom) was
a social worker and yoga instructor.
Meghan, who was born in Los Angeles, California, on this date in 1981, is biracial, with a white father and a black mother, and she once shared that that made it hard to get acting jobs. She could try out for almost every role, but she wasn't "black enough" to land black roles nor "white enough" to land white ones! 

All her life Meghan has been an outspoken feminist, and she has had speaking engagements in which she discussed gender equality and drew attention to modern-day slavery. In her charity work, she always uses her role to support women's rights and social justice. 





In addition to being an actor, pre-royal Meghan worked as a calligrapher and bookbinder. She also founded and wrote a lifestyle website called The Tig. She made around $80,000 a year on social media, reaching 3 million followers on Instagram, 800,000 on Facebook, and 350,000 on Twitter. But all that ended, like her acting career, when she became a royal. She took down the website in April, 2017, and she deleted all of her social media accounts.

But she does get new things. Like her very own coat of arms and royal monogram! And titles: Meghan is now a princess of the United Kingdom, Her Royal Highness The Duchess of Sussex, Countess of Dumbarton, and Baroness of Kilkeel. 








Birthday of sharpshooter Lillian Frances Smith

November 18 – National Princess Day

Posted on November 18, 2018



The creators of the 1994 animated feature The Swan Princess say that every girl should be treated like a princess, at least one day a year, and so they went on to create National Princess Day.

I'm not positive how I feel about this: 

First, how about every boy - doesn't every boy deserve to treated like a prince one day a year? And yet you're not likely to ever see a National Prince Day.

Second, royalty can be a fun feature of modern life, sort of an glitzy feature that some nations have. But anything in which certain bloodlines and marriage to those certain bloodlines are the only way to achieve status is also a bit...problematic?

Third, the princess tropes in movies and TV can either empower girls or can teach them to be passive rather than active. Old-time princess stories seemed to encourage girls to put all their efforts into finding a man that uplifts and defines them, rather than into developing their own gifts and interests. Luckily, modern princess stories have much more messaging about girls and women being fully human - strong but also flawed, perhaps as likely to save a boy / man as to be saved, active and ambitious and courageous.



Given the more empowered princesses available in the real world and in fiction, maybe I can get on board with National Princess Day!

Just don't make "treat her like a princess" code for "do everything for her," "her every wish is your command," or other similar silliness.

Here are some of my favorite princess things:

Book for little kids: 

The Paper Bag Princess, by Robert Munsch.








 Disney princesses:

Despite the fact that Frozen is just a bit TOO popular, I do love the empowerment of accepting one's own self, of sticking up for one's sister, of not letting "Mr. Right" NOT being "Mr. Right" get one down. Which means I love Anna and Elsa. 

I also adore Merida of Brave and Moana! And Tiana! And Mulan!


But the newest Disney princess, Shuri, princess of Wakanda, from the movie Black Panther, may be the best of all time!


Book for pre-teens: 


The Princess Diaries, by Meg Cabot. I am not sure I'm gaga about all the books (or have read all the books), but I really enjoyed the first of the series, at least!



Real-life princess: 


Meghan Markle doesn't have the title "Princess" - she's Duchess of Sussex, instead - but she's married to a prince, so I'm going to choose her as my fave. I like that she has brought a breath of California and diversity to the British royal family! Plus, I love her feminist pre-royal-wedding posts and speeches!



Non-Disney fictional princesses: 

Of course Wonder Woman (Princess Diana of Themyscira)! I also like Danielle in Ever After and Princess Eilonwy from The Chronicles of Prydain. And did you know that Pippi Longstocking is a princess???


But nobody rules non-Disney princesshood as much as Princess Leia!!  


Non-princess "princess" in fiction: 

I adore-adore-adore the book (but not most of the movies adapted from the book) A Little Princess, by Frances Hodgson Burnett. 


This 1986 mini-series did a great job
of capturing the wonderfulness of the book.