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Lepak Luar Lepas Kahwin: Kupasan Khas

Amboi, Kupasan Khas wok lu! Anyway, semenjak dua menjak ni isu laki suka lepak dengan member jadi isu hangat sekejap. Terutama bila FB influencers (yg ni term aku kasi sendiri kepada gang2 FB yang asal depa tulis je ribu-ribu shares dapat) tulis pasal hal ini. Nak pulak ramai yang setuju dan ramai yang tak. Pendapat aku? Hm..Aku tak setuju.  Mesti engkorang rasa aku acah-acah nak jadi "Cool Girl" Amy Dunne kan , konon sporting padahal dalam hati terbakar? Hahaha. Dah agak dah. Tapi bagi aku, keperluan lepak luar ni berkadar terus kepada jenis lelaki tersebut. Jenis intorvert dan extrovert? Ya. Macam yang korang tau (kalau tak tau google lah sendiri, dah banyak orang bincang hal ni kot) extrovert ni kena "recharge" semula dengan social situation. Maknanya kalau kerja pumpangpumpang penat gila siap OT kena tembak dengan boss lagi, last thing dalam fikiran ialah "kena pi lepak ni, kat mana eh?" Sebab diorang dah drained, dah habis emosi, dan l

We Believe in Love, but in a Different View.

I was actually lying down on my bed, not knowing what to do, besides thinking about love, love, and love – not implying that I am in a relationship or things like that. I just feel the urge to write something, in which most of you could probably relate. I noticed, living here on the other side of the world ( not really far, to be exact, it’s just an immigration tap away like duhh ) people do not really think about love / marriage as much as when I was back in Malaysia. Let’s just call this people as workaholic / career-minded people. And this ‘mindset’ changed me, it gave me a whole new perspective, I must say. Some might say it’s a matter of conservative or provocative thinking, but honestly it’s beyond that. First of all, let me start off by putting this disclaimer – I am not promoting which country has the best mentality, and this is just a personal point of view. Plus, I am not stereotyping / overgeneralizing every one of you because I know not all people behave the same