We made it home safely today at about 1:15pm. We got all the way to Virginia and back (2,520 miles round trip) with two parents, four little kids (actually plus one in the womb), stopping every 90-120 minutes. Ross drove every mile of the journey. He's awesome. While he drove I kept people happy distributing snacks/treats/putting on DVDs, passing out toys/boys/stuffed animals (it's hard to turn around in the passenger seat for two travel days when you are 6 months pregnant), and when everyone was happy (or when I had done all I could to help) I would sew a plastic canvas project in the day or read at night. When it gets dark before 6pm and you drive several more hours there is lots of time in the dark. I'm glad Ross suggested I read. Using Ross's Smartphone I read and finished the November Ensign, read the December Ensign (which we never got in the mail) and jumped ahead started the President Snow manual and read/finished the
January Ensign.
(BIG Sidenote: My brother Darren has an article in the January issue featured on page 10 entitled "Meaningful Teaching at Home" which I highly recommend. They are an awesome family! We wish we lived closer because my kids miss those cousins. Another favorite article, a few pages past, is one entitled "Whole Enough" written by a sister we knew in our first BYU married student ward. Ross was the Reyes' home teacher and we have kids about the same age. Many times when things are tough and I'm struggling with something I think of Michele and think, "At least I have two hands. What if I only had one? If Michele can do this with one hand, I can do it with two.").
We had a lot of fun celebrating the holiday with Ross's family. It was so good to see everyone and visit. We also looked at our storage of stuff up in the attic and brought back the play teepee, the single stroller, a few Christmas gifts, four big bags of girl clothes from Gina, and a few books. I looked through all my scrapbooks and said goodbye to them again. I'm not sure the next time we will make it out to Virginia again, especially because we are moving to California in August, so it was nice we were able to visit during this Christmas break.
We left Powhatan at about 3pm on Friday and saw snow on the Appalachian Mountains along the way. We stayed that night in Knoxville, Tennessee. All day long we drove through Tennessee and a few mild snow storms. The kids were excited every time they saw snow, which is rare in Texas, but happened on Christmas Day here. How do I know that? All thanks to Facebook Friends in Texas. We had dinner at Taco Bell on Saturday night in Malvern, Arkansas. (Not sure why, but Allen and Abby collected new plastic silverware at every food stop.) The kids' energy was hard to control and the power kept going out completely. It was kind of freaky to have everything go so dark and try to find Jane, who was near you leg a minute ago, and keep her by you. Abby popped her head out of the bathroom door. She didn't like being in the bathroom alone in the pitch black. That was a weird town and a weird situation. Most people smile or comment positively about our family. Not there. We got stared at, kids were snickered at and the power kept going off and on. We wanted to get out of that weird town in Arkansas. We stayed that night near the border of Texas in Texarkana, Arkansas. Luckily, every place we stayed the night (Ross would randomly pick a place) had a free breakfast. This morning I enjoyed a yummy waffle before we made it to the Texarkana Ward in Texas.
It was a small, old building but I thought it was cool it had a nativity scene out in front on the lawn. We could tell the ward was smaller so our family seemed to stand out. As I sat there I wondered if we would happen to know anyone. Then I noticed a young dad with three small kids sitting a few rows ahead of us. The dad looked familiar and the more I looked at him I recognized him from somewhere. Then I started thinking back.... of all the places we've lived... and when I saw his wife up leading the music and then doing a piano solo for a musical number I thought it must have been the BYU band.
After the meeting we had about 3 different people welcome us to the ward. They were very friendly. We told them we were passing through on our way to Dallas and thought we'd stop for church along the way, especially because they were conveniently located off I-30. I was going to ask that young dad but he hurried past with his kids. Before we got in the car we all made a trip to the restroom again. I saw the chorister in the hall and asked if her husband was in the BYU band. "No. I went to BYU though." I was really confused and it was bugging me because he looked familiar. I left the building and went back to help someone else and noticed her in the hall again. We talked a few more minutes and we made the connection between not just her husband and me, but Ross and her. So her husband went to Layton High, graduated a year ahead of me, and played Oboe in the band. And she grew up in the Richmond area where Ross is from and her parents are now in Ross's dad's ward. Small world. I never imagined I could make a double connection with a couple in Texarkana.
After we got home I made sure the kids all had a quiet time while Ross brought our bags in from the car. Jane and Emma fell asleep (I did for a short time on their floor) and then I started making dinner. Abby wanted to help me and requested we have Fettuccine Alfredo. (Luckily I had all the ingredients). Allen spent time playing on the Friend magazine website in the background while we cooked.
Then we ate dinner and laughed remembering the Wawa gas station we passed in Powhatan and how Jane calls water "wawa" and every time we passed it and someone said the store name, she'd request I pour her some water. After tonight's dinner, dessert (we had 5 days of Hershey kisses/PB cups to eat off our advent calendar), and baths, Ross and I were ready for kids to go to bed and it was only 6pm. Then Ross had the idea of going to see lights in Farmers Branch that we never got to the rest of the month. He looked up two addresses and we got back in the car. (Yes, crazy I know. We just spent 2.5 days in the car and we all happily got back in the car for a Christmas light adventure. Luckily it was a short drive).
First, we saw a neighborhood light show. It was awesome!! It included 8 houses with yard filled with different light displays and you would tune into a radio station and everything was choreographed to the Christmas music you heard. We went two years ago and it included about 3 or 4 houses. It was much bigger and cooler this year. Definitely worth the 20 minute drive. Next we went to the city park light display that you drive though. Ross even rolled down the windows (it was 45 degrees, brrr!) so we could hear the music playing as we drove through the park and looked at the different light displays. At the end of the park we were given 4 candy canes which we stuck in the glove box, especially because all kids had already been bathed with their teeth brushed before we got in the car.
Now everyone is sleeping. Ross and I are enjoying a little bit of peace as we sort out mail and catch-up on other things. Ross goes to work in the morning and the kids and I will unpack and play here at home. Unfortunately, my new crown that was put on a molar after Thanksgiving popped off two days ago while I was chewing a hard Tootsie Roll. I stuck it in a Ziploc bag and put it with my all my medicine -- pump supplies, sensor supplies, chargers, inserters, insulin, test strips, three different kinds of pills, contacts -- I'm a mini drug store. I'll have to go back to the dentist to have it glued back on. The kids have no school all week though so I may wait a week when the older two go back to school. It's ironic that a mother of four children has tooth problems at both Thanksgiving and Christmas and school is out which means more kids for a babysitter to watch.