A dear friend of mine from Tulsa emailed me a part of a talk given by Henry B. Eyring. It hit me like a ton of bricks and was just what I needed to hear. As soon as I read it, I was overwhelmed with gratitude for the amazing men that the Lord has called to lead and guide His Latter Day Saints.
For me, as a Latter Day Saint woman, young mother, and part-time working mother, I have way TOO MANY demands on my time. I have TOO MANY things that I feel I need to get done, but TOO LITTLE hours in a day to get them all done. I am a goal oriented person, (my husband likes to call me the task master) I am a list maker, and I like to check them off when I have completed something of that list. But a lot of times even I have a very hard time crossing those things off my list. This really frustrates me!
How do I find a good balance between church callings, kids, husband, work, house, and still manage to have a little time for myself? Who better to look to for advice than a man of who is called of God to do so?
If you are in need of a little balance in your life, please read these uplifting words of Henry B. Eyring:
I realize that there are some, perhaps many, for whom my urging to capture leisure time cuts like a knife. You feel overwhelmed by the lack of time. . . Rather than finding ways to capture leisure time for learning, you are trying to decide what to leave undone. There is another way to look at your problem of crowded time. You can see it as an opportunity to test your faith. The Lord loves you and watches over you. He is all-powerful, and He promised you this: "But seek ye first the kingdom of God, and his righteousness; and all these things shall be added unto you" (Matt. 6:33). That is a true promise. When we put God’s purposes first, He will give us miracles. If we pray to know what He would have us do next, He will multiply the effects of what we do in such a way that time seems to be expanded. He may do it in different ways for each individual, but I know from long experience that He is faithful to His word. . . . I cannot promise academic success or perfect families. Nor can I tell you the way in which He will honor His promise of adding blessings upon you. But I can promise you that if you will go to Him in prayer and ask what He would have you do next, promising that you will put His kingdom first, He will answer your prayer and He will keep His promise to add upon your head blessings, enough and to spare. Those apparent prison walls of "not enough time" will begin to recede, even as you are called to do more. (Ensign, Oct. 2002, 20-21)