Showing posts with label Esolen. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Esolen. Show all posts

Monday, March 4, 2013

The joys of hospitality

View of Orote Peninsula from overlook
As I mentioned a couple posts back, we had a visit from family.  All the cleaning paid off in a delightful visit over two weeks with my brother-in-law, sister-in-law, and their two girls. They came to escape New England’s arctic weather, as well as to catch up on cousin bonding time. Both goals were achieved.  Although I had a list of potential excursions planned, we spent most of the time at the beach, soaking up sunshine in between snorkels and dives, or sitting around the table with a cup of coffee or a glass of wine, depending on the hour, soaking up good conversation while the kids played happily.  

The cousins’ visit reminded us of how blessed we are to have family with whom we love spending time.  They were easy guests – they cook and clean – and the kids get along well together. We might have heard some whining, but no angry voices. Cousins are one of God's best inventions. (Remembering this Anthony Esolen essay from Touchstone.) 

Instead of going to all of our weekly events and practices, we took time off to make delicious meals and to sit around on the front porch while the kids ripsticked into the sunset. We did share some of our regularly scheduled activities, but scaled back to savour our time with the cousins. We also fit in outings to the waterpark, the jungle river “cruise,” and Cocos Island “resort.”  Don’t let the names of these places fill your mind with glamorous destinations: the waterpark is a few slides at a hotel, the cruise is on an old flatbottomed boat, and the resort is a few concrete buildings on a small island just off the coast of Guam where you can rent jet-skis and ride banana boats, although the kids mostly wanted to play in the pool.
Ferry to Cocos Island
Kawai! Posing with tourists.
And their trip also gave us a chance to do a few things we hadn’t done: paddleboard to Turtle Rock, do a boat dive to the Seabee junkyard, eat at a couple of recommended restaurants.


Playing in the ditch

We were glad of overcast skies this day because our fairskinned
relatives of the north were beginning to blister.



Pictoglyphs at Gadao's cave. They seemed fresh to me, but apparently
are Spanish era - a few hundred years.

The famous watering hole, Jeff's Pirates Cove

Examining Noah's ark plants growing into limestone at a recreated village

Learning to make fire with ironwood and coconut fiber

The boonie pup did not come home with us.

Seaside dining

Attended a couple rugby games. That's my kid in yellow getting hoisted to catch.

And watched more than one soccer game.



Celebrated another Eagle ceremony

Two of them
As cub scouts

And had a birthday party for a Pokemon fan. Good thing they are so easy to draw.
Big John with Kika at Ft. Soledad
Visiting these places with a tourist’s eyes again opened my heart to melancholy as our own departure date nears. Since our company left, I’ve been wandering around the house in a daze, intending to attack projects that have been neglected, but instead I browse through the internet catching up on news or flip through the stack of mail I’ve ignored, numbly adding to my to-do list.  (To procrastinate more, I’m sharing some photos of their visit.)  On the list of things to do three months out is to set our pack-out date, to let housing know we’re leaving, to fill out the forms for early release from school (no big deal since DOD schools may have days cut because of sequestration). Still haven’t decided about school in California. Still haven’t decided whether to live on base or out in town.
Waterpark fun
Also on my to-do list: a number of hikes, a couple more dives, more paddle boarding, more sunsets, more evening walks, more days on the beach.

Also: take leave of our neighbors, our jobs, the chapel community, the scout troop, home schooling friends.

Moving on again.

Oh no, now I’m getting sad. I’m supposed to be reflecting on our great weeks with family. They kept reminding us how wonderful this place is. The kids, especially the older boys, are so happy here with their friends and activities.  The ocean is so beautiful.  Sunsets are breathtaking.  Life is so easy here.
View of Inarajan hills
Sunset over the rugby field.
Meanwhile, the girls have come up with an itunes playlist they call “Home songs.”  It started with the Olympic gymnastics theme song by Phillip Phillips, but they added “The House that Built Me” by Miranda Lambert and “Temporary Home” by Carrie Underwood.  (Also "This Land is Your Land” and a reggae version of “Take Me Home, Country Roads” and Tim Hawkins’ “Homeschool Family.”) I have to admit these songs make me feel a bit maudlin.

It’s all temporary. We're all just passing through on our way home. It's a beautiful journey.
Sunset over the neighbor's house.
Reading is one form of escape. Running for your life is another.
-Lemony Snicket