and the beat goes on

a lot on my mind, but not enough for a full post on any one topic.

so bullet points it is!

• I need to start getting ideas and plans for my masters capstone – I think I have a great idea, now to see if it fits.  this is a lot of work! and it’s not going to be happening until next year at this time.  It does give me some encouragement that the end is in sight. kind of.
• One of my very best friends ever is moving to Florida (probably as I type this) with her husband.  It is a great opportunity for them, which is so wonderful. I am going to miss her like crazy. But, there is a new vacation spot :)
• With above mentioned best friend moving, it brings back a lot of hurt and sadness over the ending of another friendship. (read here).  The three of us were “the triangle” and now we are 3 separate lines. (2 lines together don’t make much, a right angle maybe?) Sometimes I really hate how life plays out.  I said my peace on the subject but moving past it has been much harder than I expected, despite the ridiculously deep hurt that went on.  ::heavy sigh::
• the hubs and I hope to go out of town for our anniversary. where is the question right now!
• I am looking forward to finishing our taxes…. they are always such a huge pain in my ass.  I just wish the rest of the documents I need would show up already.  Wasn’t there a January 31 deadline on this stuff?!! Maybe I need to show these companies a calendar.
• It has snowed a lot.  I hate it a lot. But, no use in complaining. It didn’t make the snow melt any faster last winter…
• I am LOVING my project 365.  I almost cried the other day when i thought I forgot to take a picture. 
• my boss is a micromanager and it is incredibly frustrating to someone who likes to use her brain.  I like my job, but I could leave in a second for something more challenging. Hopefully in a year or so that won’t be a problem.
• Just getting into “couponing” as part of my frugal living approach to life these days.  This blog is freaking AH-MAZING for anyone who uses or wants to use coupons.
• My husband is working on a pregame music mix project for friends of ours and he is fantastic!  I wish I could link you to his work.  If anyone is in need of a music mix, dj or any other music work – he is SO your man.

just for fun

so after much deliberation.... the month of march has been determined to be a month of having sex just for fun.... all month!!!

here are a few reasons why:

• the stress level in our house is THRU THE ROOF for a million different reasons (will get there in a minute)
• i am supposed to O the day of a test, not the week of spring break which is after the test of course... perfect timing huh?
• it's our anniversary next week
• a need for some change.....

so the stress issue - things have gotten a little rough around the edges for a few reasons, sort of suddenly. all revolving around the almighty fucking dollar. i don't work - can not work - and hate it, but damn, there aren't enough hours in the day. Husband has 3 jobs - 2 of them should really be considered "side" jobs, but his "main" job he is a subcontractor that works at different car dealerships repairing alloy rims when they are messed up (curbed/scuffed etc) - outside. The beautiful weather we have been having has really done wonders for this normally ok business the past 4-5 weeks let me tell you...... which in turn has done wonders for our checkbook..... so, stress level has gone up about 98337 notches unexpectedly. While husband works on fixing this problem (by getting a new job....) - sex for fun it is.

I am confident things will work out (what else can i be?) and in the mean time - I will just be supportive. It's not like he doesn't work... he just doesn't work enough. it makes feel like a bitch and a half always bringing it up but, he's finally on board with the "oh shit, this is really a problem - must fix it" attitude. oh ya... and IRS is going to be knocking on our door here in a few wks b/c of said subcontracing job --- we owe them some cash... so, increase that stress level a few more notches. there is some work coming in this week for sure - helps a lot to know that - so i can let out some of the breath i have been holding....

so just keep a little extra good thought in your head that he gets a better job sooner than later, k thanks!