Some people reallllllly overindulge what they think love is or should be. It's no surprise that these same people are usually in a perpetual string of failed relationships. It's as if they feel like they are entitled to be loved. But who wants to love a selfish person like that anyway? I heard one person once quote this to me by memory:
It's a nice optimistic quote and is true for people who are actually capable of feeling love and are capable of returning it back equally. However, the same people who think they believe this are not patient or kind and tend to be envious of the love that everyone else has. They do brag about minor accomplishments and are relentlessly proud of useless accomplishments. They tend to be rude, selfish and attention starved, and are actually quite easily angered. They really do keep track of wrongs and rights and delight in putting people down for their own self-esteem. They don't always relish in telling the truth if it makes themselves appear interesting. They only protect people if it suits them, they trust very little and often do not actually persevere over the most minor of obstacles. And love, in fact, does fail. Our divorce rates prove it. I find that people who quote this are not any of the above things that love entails, hence the reason why no one tends to love them for long amounts of time, if at all.
All the while, this same lovesick, attention-starved dumbass usually has to frequently reassure themselves of how great and beautiful they think they are and how they deserve the best. Ironically, they don't get the best nor do they deserve it. I don't have one person to pin this on but multiple people who do this EXACT same crap. Some might argue it makes them feel better and gets them through. But what's the point? No one loves a selfish person, and if they do, it's not for long. I'm not exactly a love expert but putting yourself on this magnificent psychological throne of greatness will always guarantee your loneliness. Nothing will live up to the standards that you think love is. No one will be perfect. No one will love someone so self-consumed and greedy.
All I can say to all the disappointed women out there is, shape up, be a better person, or enjoy all the years you have to look forward to of watching your uterus turn to a dried up raisin. Love isn't like the movies. Maybe it's time to start looking at what's wrong with you instead of what you think is wrong with everyone else.
I had to rant about this. I'm so tired of having to interact with people like this, or indirectly interact with people like this via Facebook.
On the up side, I feel better now that I've ranted.
Thank you, blog.
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