STOP O V E R

People in our life seem like vehicles that passing by, vanishing and leaving. When lucky you can have them stop to provide colors and smiles even if at the end the truth is they just really stop over. 

There are things that can just easily go unexplained. It’s the easiest way to avoid taxing amount of hurt and pain that the situation can bring forth. Sometimes it’s not “goodbye,” but “good luck,” not “I don’t love you anymore”, but “I love you that’s why I am doing this.”

Its been awhile since the last time I’ve thought of writing about this. I know I have the right perspective but somehow the courage is not there if I found out at the end that I made the wrong decision. Well thank you for the fast traversing time, now I can finally write it with no regrets at all, only good memories.

I don’t know if everybody would understand what I am writing here but I believe someone in the universe will do. I bet.

People leave not because they stop to care, maybe if given the time to explain everything I would have made my point. I just thought that during that time explaining things is not the best thing to do nor it would make things lighter and better.

When people left us and we don’t know the reasons, we start looking for reasons but no one can verify them and can confirm them even ourselves but only those who left. We are apprehensive, confused and our world seemed totally fucked up.

There is a fine line between friendship and love, a fine line between friendship and romance and super fine line between romance and companionship.

I wish it could have been more about friendship and companionship, I believe it would be better that way.

People come and go. They leave marks to our lives. They leave us with special lessons and though they are gone they will never be forgotten. Someday they might pass by and stop over again but it might not be the same again.

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Living life the EASIER W A Y

 

As we grow up, we learn that even the one person that wasn't supposed to ever let us down, probably will. We have to face the fact that people change and often they become the persons they said they will never be. You'll have your heart broken and you'll break others' hearts. You'll fight with your best friend or maybe even fall in love with them, and you'll cry because time is flying by. So take too many pictures, laugh too much, forgive freely, and love like you've never been hurt. Life comes with no guarantees, no time outs, no second chances. you just have to live life to the fullest, tell someone what they mean to you and tell someone off, speak out, dance in the pouring rain, hold someone's hand, comfort a friend, fall asleep watching the sun comes up, stay up late, be a flirt, and smile until your face hurts. Don't be afraid to take chances or fall in love and most of all, live in the moment because every second you spend angry or upset is a second of happiness you can never get back.

 

Life is really short. Eat, pray, love and most of all make love. Be young everyday.

feeding FRIENDSHIP and LOVE

Yesterday, me, Dimchee and some friends and cousins went to Eastwood. It has been months now since we last saw each other. We used to spend time together going to coffee shops, joy riding, bowling, eating, singalong and doing things that the usual group of friends does in the city. But not seeing each other for couple of months now doesn’t give us the tinge of disfamiliarity. We talk nonstop and laugh with each other.

We dined at Dampa, t’was actually my third time here from an unknown time now but as far as I can remember I enjoy everything about this restaurant, the sea food galore where you will buy all your favorite sea creatures fresh from a small market, pay them and choose among diverse recipes on how you want the sea foods to be cooked. T’was fast, in just a few minutes we’ve got Buttered Shrimp, Calamares and Sweet and Sour Spicy Crabs and of course our favorite Chow Pan Rice.

We ate, we laughed, we talked and we teased each other. Dimchee talked a lot about showbiz and teased almost every one of us. He even made a little reminiscing about their childhood, because Rich and Tin almost grew up with him together, he is much younger though. There will never be a dull moment with him and that’s why we love him. We talked about Tin getting married at the end of this year, we even teased her if she’s really ready for that transition and we know she is. I must know because I am their wedding planner lol.

Rich shared to us some confidential facts she just found out about her life. This really concerned her but the good thing is she’s taking it in a positive way. And we understand her, and I really pray the she gets to deal with it and she’ll be able to work it out properly I could say she will pass it especially with Dyok by her side.

After the talks and laughs we decided to walk along Eastwood, took photos and just enjoy the rest of the place. T’was a lot of fun. The sea creatures where we all get fully loaded; the teasing, sharing and laughing. The night was short but inconceivably it became an avenue to feed our old friendship and love.

Rich, I understand what you feel, I am glad that finally you've known the truth and this is the only thing that will set you free. I look up to you because in spite of what you've found out about yourself, you never fret, indeed you learned to love more of what you've become and remain grateful for the love you felt from your outgrown parents, really you are born out of their kind hearts. If knowing your biological parents will make you complete, then go. Love and trust more. Dyok I know and I can see how you love Rich, for me you really are a man of love and braveness. May your love for each other victor the hardest tests of this life.

Tin, you are a sister to me. I can almost tell everything to you because I really trust you. Let's forget the bad things and move forward again to create good memories. I really thank you for everything. Finally, another milestone will come to your life with your soon to be husband Aga, may God grant you enough courage and enough love so you can do all things together. Chee, thank you for the friendship, my brother, my confidante.