my values don't balance
When it comes to dealing with people, I'm always at a loss.
For one, I like to eliminate conflict and wasted time. I rather eat my own words than say a few more. Sometimes, I don't like to iron out issues if they aren't that important and just finish the job asap.
I realise this tactic doesn't always work. Rather, it isn't that effective now.
How am I supposed to treat people without being a hypocrite? I can't possibly talk to them and ignore them at the same time, can I?
I guess that's when the theory about guys having minds like boxes come into play. I'm not a guy but I get the concept, especially when it comes to work and relationships.
Never, never, never, never, ever let emotions/relationships affect work.
I pretty much understood that when I was a leader but now, rules are different and it's a cruel world out there. Haha. And there's pretty much a long list of kinds of people I hate, of which I sincerely hate. But it's such people that are aplenty.
But well, it's times like this that I actually value work more than reaching out to such people. I've come to realise that I cannot change everyone, nor am I a saviour to everyone who needs help. Somethings have to be done and somethings have to be avoided.
I'm thinking things should be more in place after this rambling. I shouldn't be taking things too personally, especially colleagues? =/
shouzhen lived 23:02
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