I find this situation very uncomfortable...I have this 30 year old supervisor on one of my clinic shifts.
From the beginning he has been difficult, and then I noticed something; He liked the young girls.
That wouldn't of bothered me except that he was actually incredibly rude to me and I was treated different than the one younger girl on the shift.
Look...I don't look for those type of things, because I'm secure in who I am. But this problem finally came to a head when a younger member of my shift, a male, gave me his opinion that it was quite obvious that this punk of a supervisor was thinking from between his legs, and that it was clear that he liked younger girls.
I have sucked it up for 13 long weeks, and then I got to thinking, why should I have to deal with this YoHos preference for the girlies?
So I sent this letter....
Dear XXXX
I was trying to see it through the semester, but I'm finding the situation to be dreadful and I am just really uncomfortable with XXXXXX.
Sine the beginning of the semester I have been having troubles, and I thought it was just me....and its been getting worse and worse. So much so that an assistant made mention to me last Monday night that it was pretty obvious that Eric had something against me.
I have some ideas of what that can be, and I mentioned it to you. He seems to like the young girls and has that kind of reputation...
Two of my 30 something patients said that he creped them out..in so many words.
There have been many instances where XXX has raised his voice at me in front of others including a patient.
I really don't want to make this into a big deal, I would like to know if I could finish my shifts with Pat XXX?
Eric runs a disorganized shift without structure and is a scatter brain. I am sure that others find this to be acceptable, but I'm finding it awful, I've never seen anything this bad at the XXX clinic, and quite frankly its a little shocking that he has this position without any obvious experience.
How is he qualified to be a teacher? Who has he taught before?
Anyway, could you let me know if we could find a short term solution...I would really really really really appreciate it.
Thanks for your time and consideration.
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Holly Mead
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Sunday, March 30, 2008
An Uncomfortable Situation
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It ALWAYS sucks to have to do something like that. But you have every right to do it!
Oh no, that is a horrible position to be put in. I had a similar situation once, except I was one of the young girls, and there were about 6 others as well, and in the end it was pure sexual harrassment. I was just too young to know it was wrong and not flattering.
Hopefully, they'll not only reassign you, but get him out of there. What a liability!
Guys like him make my uber-alpha-female come out, and I'd like to smack him around a while.
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