Wednesday, August 27, 2008

A Day of Firsts


Elias had his first day of school on Monday. His first of many.

It was the first day that two of my boys were in school at the same time.

Haven's first day ever without Elias for an extended period of time.

The first day that Elias wouldn't be there to help me with Simeon.

My first day sending a child to school. The first day packing a lunch for Elias. And, the first day letting Elias out of the nest after almost 6 years.

I'm pleased to report that Elias' first day of school went well. The first thing he said to me was, "Mom, there are so many rules". I asked him what all the rules were and he told me that he didn't remember. Oh no, we're in trouble. No really, Elias is a sweet kid and I know he is going to do great. I asked him if he made any friends and he said he had, but that he didn't know their names. In fact, after his third day of school he still refers to a particular boy as the boy with the black shirt. I just love seeing my little man taking everything in.

I feel I must report on the first day of school for the rest of us. Well, without Elias teasing her Haven was as quiet as a church mouse. It was cleaning day at the Counihan house. Thankfully Simeon took a 3 hour nap and Haven was seriously stoked that I let her clean the toilet. Does it get much better than that? I have to say that it was a nice first day to begin the rest of my life, or at least for several years to come.

Now that we have finished the 3rd day of school I can tell that Haven is not excited to be without Elias anymore. After being home for 10 minutes she says that she wants to go get Elias. She even socializes differently with other kids without her big bro there. I know it's only a matter of time before she defines who she is without Elias.

On a sentimental note I just have to say that I love being a mom. Sometimes I want to pull my hair out of course. However, my kids are my greatest adventure. I love my husband and the support he gives me in being at home with our children. Financially I know it's hard, but our family is the most important thing. Heavenly Father has blessed us for that.

10 comments:

The Teagan Times said...

Cute! I'm with you. Our first day was Monday too. Yesterday (Wednesday) Jade was not herself. Brother had been gone too long. Luckily it was a half day for us. I love keeping up with what you guys are doing through your blog. Take care.

Jason, Alyson, Kaci, Brynley & Ashlynn said...

Hey there!! I can't believe that Elias is already in school...crazy how time flys! Your family is just so beautiful, we miss you guys!!

Cyndi said...

that just brought tears to my eyes. is'nt life crazy? it makes me the most sad to think of little Haven missing her big brother! i wish we could be there so we could play all day!:(

Romney Family said...

Well~it sounds like Elias is doing great with going to school. HOw fun for him. Owen was the same as Haven~he asks if we can go get her because he is bored!!!

Unknown said...

That is me in 1 year. I can't even think about it or I'll cry. Happy anniversary you guys! I love you both--Congratulations!

Raquel Ruggles said...

You have the cutest little munchkins, and you make me miss your sister. You and the fam are so cute and I am so grateful that Rocia has people like you in her life.

Jon and Kari-Lynn Tarleton said...

Ok the first parts of your pictures about having to say goodbye and hoping for the best for your little man almost made me cry. I'll blame it on the pregnancy but I'm sure that was hard to do. Being a mother is so wonderful but it is so emotional at the same time. Your kids are adorable.

Nathan and Annie Miller said...

Wow, I remember teaching Elias in nursery when we were first married! It doesn't seem like it's been that long, but I guess it has! It makes me sad because Aida is about the age he was, and I just can't fathom her ever being a kindergartner!

Rocia said...

i am obsessed with elias...

Brittany said...

Hey Counihans! How exciting, I can't believe Elias is that old!