2.25.2009

An Innie, No Longer an Outie...

Well we are home and we made it through a VERY long day. Braden was NPO (couldn't eat or drink) after 6 am for his 2pm surgery. So I woke him at 5:30, gave him water and a granola bar and let him sleep more. The morning went good. He was distracted with shopping by his Noni.

We got to BCH at Noon and got checked in. By 12:30 we were in our PreOp room. Braden did so good with me until it came time to change into the gown and socks. Pretty sure I was going to have a black eye today, but thankfully I don't. Let's just say I am forever grateful to a ChildLife worker "Miss Jessica" for distracting the smack down I got by offering to bring in a Wii if he changed. So we waited and waited. And of course the one thing they tell you to bring is a 'friend' from home, but do I remember? No. Daddy to the rescue. He stopped and got B a new Webkinz. Which I have to give him props for- B has accumulated over 20 of those dang things and Rusty picked one he doesn't already have. I was QUITE impressed!


Well by 1:30 we decided to give Braden something to calm his nerves. But we had to wait for the Anesthesiologist to come and give the order. By 2 we were told they were behind and it would be 3:30 before they started his case. Finally about 4 his OR nurse came in and did the final prep. 
He was such a trooper. He was getting really hungry and the wait  was annoying. We played Go Fish, War, did puzzles, I SPy, played Connect 4. Plus the Wii, and his DS and the I Phone came in handy.  They told us once they gave him the Versed that he would probably fall asleep, so when the Doc came back into to check on him he laughed that we were sitting up playing cards. His exact words were "He's no cheap date, huh?"  Pretty funny. 
When it was time to go back he cried for his Daddy which made it easier on me. The Anesthesiologist ended up carrying him down the hall. Less than an hour later the surgeon came to talk to us. It had gone well. The stitches are internal and will dissolve in a few months. They also removed a mole on his leg that looked suspicious to them. 



We were in the PACU (post anesthesia care unit) for over an hour while he woke up and tried to get some fluids down.  Last night was rough, he was in a lot of pain. This morning too. He is finally able to walk on his own-they gave him an epidural so he couldn't feel his feet for 8 hours post op! Now the fun begins- I have to think of ways to keep this kid from running, riding bikes or scooters ect for THREE WEEKS! EEK! I have invested in some new Lego's, board games and I pray he cooperates! Thanks for all the love and support!



2.23.2009

Unwanted Flashbacks...

Tommorrow, Tuesday, Braden is having a surgery to fix an umbilical hernia that he has had since birth. It is  a very routine surgery that we have been putting off for, well forever.  It should take less than an hour in the OR and the surgeon said the actual repair only takes him about fifteen minutes.  But there is always that little nudger in the back of my mind- what about his heart? The cardiologist of course cleared him for the surgery - although he listed him as a 'mild risk'. Mild risk? Don't tell me that! I know he is just super cautious with Braden, which I love, but doesn't he know I can't take Zanax when I am pregnant?! So we went to this little preop teaching class they have at Banner Desert. They show the kids a movie, let them walk to the OR, see the post op area, ride in a wheel chair and then they show them all the stuff that will be used on them.  So Braden left that class with a scrub hat, a surgery coloring book, a surgical mask and then they have them pick a mask. It's the ones that they will breathe in while they fall asleep in surgery. It's pretty cute, they put scented goo in there so it smells good (Braden chose bubblegum, not my fav.) All in all he did really well. When they demonstrated some things that would happen she asked Braden to recall what they had called it. First they 'gave the arm a big hug'--Braden's answer, "You're taking my blood pressure" Second they 'checked out the heart' Braden's answer "You are getting my O2 sats" and Third they 'checked how hot you are' and Braden says, "Oh you are just taking my temperature, I do this all the time."  It was so funny.  So why is it, through the whole thing I am playing a slide show in my head. When I see him put the mask to his face I flashed back to the PCH PICU, the first time Braden was in heart failure, and required oxygen and got his feeding tube.
Then as they showed us where we would say bye and they would go with the nurses to the OR, I was remembering that I have not just done this once, but three times. The first time was easiest, since I was exhausted beyond all belief and my good doc's game me a anti anxiety medicine. The second time I was a basket case, since it was for his first open heart and I knew the surgery was going to be 10 hours or more and really risky. The third time I think I was in 'get it done' mode. Plus Braden was on really good drugs  that made him loopy and hilarious to watch- he even said "OOOOOoh" when the OR doors all swung open.And while I am glad we won't be sitting in this waiting room again for hours and hours and hours. I am even more glad that afterward we get to take him right home, instead of having to worry about all this for 3 weeks after...

Keep us in your prayers and wish us luck! I will post an update with pictures tomorrow!

2.20.2009

No More Hand-me-downs...

Having two boys both born in the same month (and throw in a nephew -born in the same season just a year before Berk) I have had good use of the clothes my kids have.  After Braden outgrew things I shipped them up to Draven and then we get them back in time for Berk to wear. We had a pretty good thing going I thought. Quite a lot of BANG for our bucks, ya know?

Until about 3 months ago- when 'pants season' started for Braden. Suddenly jeans only are lasting about 3 weeks.  I started seeing all these little holes in the knees of his jeans. So I did the thrifty thing and ironed on patches. Those lasted about another 3 weeks and now we are getting holes in the patches covering the holes!  Seriously what is my kid doing at school? It is ALWAYS the left knee- always.  For some reason his khaki pants are exempt from this thrashing, thank goodness!  So I have hit the point where my kids will no longer be getting hand-me-down jeans pants. Mostly cause they have all been cut into nice jean shorts. 

My theory is that denim just isn't what is once was or something, cause I was the youngest of six and I know I got loads of hand-me-downs, so why did those last and these didn't?!? Anyway, just needed to vent. And now  I am going to go wait for the UPS guy- he's bringing me some new maternity clothes (yeah) and a few new pairs of jeans for Braden to thrash...oh the joys of motherhood.

2.15.2009

Happy Birthday Rusty!!!


Happy 30th Birthday to Rusty!


Hope you have the best day! Are we really getting this old?!?

2.07.2009

This and That...

Thanks for all the well wishes! I am still realizing this whole thing is really happening. This pregnancy has been very different from my last two.  First off I was able to get pregnant with out all the extra medical help and waiting that I needed for Braden & Berk.  Second, and most fantastically, I have not been sick. Now this is not to say that I have not been puky and tired and in general felt just gross. But for the most part I have felt really good. I could hardly look at the ultrasound at my appointment for fear that it was all a big mix up.  If you were around me when I was pregnant with Braden, but more so with Berk then you know how sick I get. I get ill. I lost nearly 20 pounds in my first trimester with Braden and I puked everyday till I was 7 months. With Berk I was even more sick, but somehow managed to still gain weight. I still don't know how, since I swear my diet for 6 months was red Poweraide and crackers. With Berkley I was so sick so early, I missed that trip to Hawaii! I puked everyday until I had him - all day really.

So with this baby I had the thought, "Oh, this is how people have ten kids" I totally got it. I keep telling Rusty that when I say I am having a bad day it is on a different scale than the others. Most the time I cant even complain because I am so grateful that I can go into my kitchen, eat anything I want and rarely see it again. Having bad seasonal allergies has been kinda nice since my super smelling power is null.  A few firsts this pregnancy include restaurant dining, movie going and traveling in a car without incident! Big deals for me!

As I leave my first trimester behind I am excited to finally have a little energy back. I am dismayed that the whole "you show really early with your third" is actually true!  I am already bustin out the Belly Bands so I can get my jeans on and I am searching the Internet for a few more swimming suits. I really do plan on living in the pool this summer. I just wish if the weather was going to be this hot that the pool could warm up too!

Finally, this week marks two important things for us. 
1. It is the 6 year anniversary of Braden's first Open Heart Surgery 
2. It is Congenital Heart Defect Awareness Week

One of the 'perks' to having a heartbaby is the extra testing I have to have with each subsequent baby. Next week I go in the the perinatologist for the first of a couple tests I will have there and then in about 6 weeks I will head back to the pediatric cardiologist for a fetal echo. These tests are pretty cool and easy to do. And always nice to know that the heart looks good. I am grateful as always that Braden had such an incredible outcome to his heart story. If anyone missed it, there are links on the side to his Heart Journey and other CHD sites.

Fingers crossed, I would really love this baby to be a girl- but I also feel like I would be fine with all boys. Being the only Princess in the house has it's perks! 

2.02.2009

This Summer...

Sitting outside in the 'heat' of February has got me thinking about this Summer. Is it really 80* already? Am I really sending Brae to school with out a jacket, in shorts and with a water bottle- already? So what, our winter lasted about three whole weeks? I even bought a cute new jacket at Forever, but I only got to wear it at the cabin! Berk has no complaints about the great weather. He would live in the backyard if I would let him. And after school if I am not sitting in the drive way watching the boys play, then certainly I am in the back breaking up fights on the tramp.

Sure we still have a few 'cold' days but from the looks of the trees that are already blooming Spring is on its way. The only down side to that is that allergy season has already started for me. I feel like crud, my boys feel like crud and being outside in the breezy weather doesn't help at all.

Last night we sat planning our trips this summer- Snowbird, Powell, Colorado. This summer is going to be jam packed! I am so excited. We missed our annual trip to our condo in the Utah  mountains last year because we were headed to Europe, so I am glad to get back there. And I just found out we are going to see Wicked in July! I've seen it before but Rusty hasn't. Our seats are 5th row Center- who could ask for more? Yeah! 

Then I think about the end of the summer, Braden will be starting 1st grade and will be gone all day, and Berk will start preschool. When did my boys get so big?  I can hardly believe Braden is almost 6 1/2! Oh the changes this summer will bring...

Mainly things will change because...
We're pregnant! Baby #3 headed our way in August! 
(Love the Alien Baby Look)
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