My marriage is my favorite miracle.
{My life has seen many...miracles, not marriages.}
It should have never happened.
But a loving Father in Heaven knew we needed to be together.
Wheels were set in motion before I was even born.
Almost three years ago, I talked to him on the phone for the first time.
He was sweet, charming and funny. I'd like to think I was too.
He asked for my number. We started talking. Every day.
{From 1,000 miles away...}
In January, I drove and picked him up in Salt Lake. That smile. His smile.
I was so nervous, I made Janelle come with me. She sat in the front.
I looked at him in my rear view mirror probably more than I should have.
We talked. And laughed. And talked. Then we had to say goodbye.
He had lots of plans for his short weekend in Utah.
It had been only a few hours, and I missed him.
I bumped into him at church and I was so grateful for that extra moment.
Then he surprised me and came over.
There were lots of people at my apartment, but I didn't care.
We sat on the floor and talked some more. We shared our favorite scriptures.
There was a light in his eyes I hadn't seen before.
Then we had to say goodbye again.
I wrote in my journal...
{Which is another miracle, because I am the worst journal writer ever.}
"Bryan is so happy, honest and lifts everyone around him.
I can see my life with him more than anyone else I've ever met."
We started talking even more-- if that was possible.
He came for spring break.
We went to my best friend's wedding. He was outgoing, friendly and handsome.
I felt so lucky to have him there with me.
We held hands.
I fell asleep on his shoulder.
We went on our first official date.
We cheered on Jimmer. {And rooted for Arizona in a room full of Duke fans.}
He told me he was coming to Utah for the summer.
I tried to act cool, but I wanted to scream with excitement.
We had to say goodbye again.
The next few months went by slowly, full of anxiety, excitement and anticipation.
Finally, the day came. He came.
He was thrown into the mecca that is BYU and I got nervous.
But he took me out on dates.
Things were going so well.
He kissed me in the mountains. My mountains.
The next day, I was his girlfriend. And I knew this was a last first.
A few weeks later, in the mountains...
I told him I loved him.
He loved me too.
We spent time with my family in Park City.
We spent time with his family in Oregon.
We played in the Utah summer sun.
But he went to UW. And I went to BYU.
The end of the summer came faster than either of us wanted.
Neither of us wanted to give up on it.
He was sure, and I was scared.
But love is such a funny thing.
I think we both already knew.
1,000 miles is far.
9 months is long.
We visited as much as we could.
It was so hard.
But he was so completely worth it.
As hard as it was, I loved every minute of it.
It meant that he was in my life.
We shared New Year's in Utah.
I completely knew.
He was the one.
Again, we had to say goodbye.
That was probably the hardest goodbye.
It's hard to say goodbye to the man you know you are going to marry.
(To this day, I still have a love/hate relationship with airports...)
February.
Seattle is one of the most romantic cities in the world.
{In my limited opinion.}
He talked to my dad.
I had no idea.
The rain stopped just in time to make the city misty.
To say he surprised me would be an understatement.
To say I was in shock would be an understatement.
At first, I didn't believe him.
Then I wholeheartedly agreed to be his forever.
We cried.
We laughed.
And I laughed some more.
We celebrated with wonderful friends and family.
We planned.
In separate cities.
For 6 months.
He transferred to BYU.
He changed his whole life to be with me.
But all of this was planned.
Planned by someone who knew much better than we did.
Everything was ready.
We were ready.
On July 19, 2012:
Stewart Bryan Briggs
and
Casey Marie King
were sealed for time and all eternity...
In the Utah Draper LDS Temple.
It was miraculous. Our whole story is one big miracle. One I am grateful for every single day.
But the miracle didn't stop on that Thursday morning.
We honeymooned.
We explored Bryan's mission in Brazil.
We got our first apartment.
We started school.
Together.
We went to football games.
We made dinner.
We learned.
We did homework.
We made mistakes.
We did laundry.
We watched movies.
We laughed.
We cried.
Together.
We planned for life.
We planned for the summer.
We went on road trips.
He got an internship.
We moved to San Francisco.
We will move back to Provo.
We will go to Alaska.
I will graduate in December.
He will graduate in April.
We will move again.
Together.
I cannot believe that I have been married to Bryan for a year now. It is honestly the best thing that has ever happened in my life. Every day {good and bad} I am so grateful that I have Bryan here with me. He is the most incredible person I have ever met in my life. And believe me, I have met some pretty incredible people. He takes care of our little family. He is going to be a great father. I have so many things I could say about my wonderful husband, and I have done a lot of thinking about what I should put on our family blog for our anniversary. I kept coming back to the same idea...
LDS doctrine teaches that we existed before this Earth life, and we will exist after this life. We have a loving Father in Heaven who wants us to be so happy. He knew that I would be a better person with Bryan in my life. He knew that Bryan would make me so happy. I didn't meet Bryan by chance or coincidence. Events were set in motion long before Bry and I were born... events that allowed us to meet, fall in love and get married in the temple. There were people placed in our lives that guided us to make certain decisions at precise moments in our lives, decisions that at the time may have seemed inconsequential, but proved to be pivotal pieces of a grander scheme. I wish I could take credit for our wonderful love story, but I can't. Don't get me wrong, Bry and I chose to be where we are now. We chose each other -- we had to make certain decisions to get here, but our lives were so beautifully guided by someone who knows us better than we could have ever known ourselves.
The story doesn't stop with getting married. Or an anniversary. The Lord still has things already in motion for our little family. There are trials we are going to experience. Happiness we are going to share. But that's the beautiful thing about it. It didn't start with our marriage, and it won't end when we die. It started many, many years ago and will continue for the rest of eternity.
That's the best miracle of all: I get to be with Bryan literally forever.
And I thank my Father in Heaven for that limitless blessing.
Bryan- I love you sweetheart. This year has been the greatest of my life. I am so happy that Maggie handed the phone to you that one day in September. Thank you for being so patient, strong and loving.
I know we have a long way to go, but I am so grateful I get to spend the rest of my life working on it with you.
You are the best. I love you so much.
PS: I have had lots of friends and family ask me about the temple. I love answering questions, I really do. Please feel free to leave comments, email me, caseyking365(at)gmail(dot)com or go to Mormon.org to find out more. There are a lot of misconceptions out there and I know that it can be difficult to simply find out basic information. The LDS church just released this new video that explains why Mormons have temples, what they look like, what we learn and how we worship in the temple. It answers a lot of basic questions and shows what the inside of our temples looks like. I hope that that we all (LDS or otherwise) can have a deeper appreciation for the sanctity of these beautiful, sacred buildings.