Showing posts with label Me. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Me. Show all posts

Monday, September 23, 2024

Cheers To Another Year!


In the photo above, I'm celebrating my first birthday.  Today I celebrate my 57th.

Oh, how time flies!  




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2023: Sorry, no post on this day.
2022: Sorry, no post on this day.
2021: Sorry, no post on this day.
2020: Sorry, no post on this day.
2019: Sorry, no post on this day.
2018: Me, Augustus, And Kublai Khan
2017: The Ultimate F Word - Fifty
2016: Cheers To 49!
2015: Loving Snow For Over Four Decade
2014: Hey, Hey, Hey! It's My Birthday!!
2013: Once, An Angel
2012: Halfway To Ninety
2011: Aging In Soft Light 
2010: Why The Crying? 
2009: From Swings To Eighteen Wheels 
2008: Fishing Expedition 
2007: Eggs Of Wisdom Apparently Start Hatching At Forty 
2006: The Birthday Wagon Train Takes Off Today 
2005: 38 Special

Wednesday, September 04, 2024

Two Generations Of Hands

 

This photo was taken about eight years ago.  The top hand is my mother's, the bottom one is mine. She is 25 years older than me.

I noticed three things in this photo.

1.  I think I like an oval-shaped nail better than my lifelong square nails.

2.  This was before my pinky and ring finger got all jacked up with arthritis.  My fingers started to noticeably change after I turned fifty.

3.  I have an idea of what my 75-year-old hands might look like.

And at 82, my mother's hands are still working so that's a good thing, too. 


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2023: Sorry, no post on this day.
2022: Sorry, no post on this day.
2021: Sorry, no post on this day.
2020: Sorry, no post on this day.
2019: Sorry, no post on this day.
2018: Exploring The American Southwest
2017: 
Celebrate Like A Cat
2016: Cargnegiea Gigantea
2015: Celebrating Labor Day By Not Laboring
2014: A Taco Garage Worth Pulling Into
2013: Who?
2012: You Can’t Ask For A More Convenient Setup
2011: The Thoughts In My Mind About This Guy, Are Criminal
2010: The Queen Of High Society
2009: An Icy Glare For The Heat Miser
2008: Jazz Funeral On Decatur
2007: Keeping The Homeland Secure One Dog At A Time
2006: Reputation Is Everything
2005: ”_________________”

Tuesday, July 23, 2024

A Mammoth Proposal

Seven years ago today, the best man I've ever met asked me to be his wife.  He proposed at the top of Mammoth Mountain in Mammoth Lakes, California. 

Our first date was twenty years ago on July 21, 2004.  Twenty years! 

And I knew after our first date that I wanted to marry him. 

And then I did.

It only took him thirteen years to pop the question, but better late than never!

I got my man!


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2023: Sorry, no post on this day.
2022: Sorry, no post on this day.
2021: Sorry, no post on this day.
2020: The Day Began With A Burst
2019: Sorry, no post on this day.
2020: Delicioso Since 1969
2021: Monsoon Afternoon
2020: The Day Began With A Burst
2019: Sorry, no post on this day
2018: Sin In The Distance
2017: Often, The Trees Speak To Us
2016: How I'm Feeling Lately
2015: Ed Goes With The Flow
2014: Big Coin Was A Big Hit
2013: Painting The Serengeti
2012: Why Fig Newtons Will Always Be On My Shopping List
2011: Losing The Wallet At Your Convenience
2010: Bridge Over Troubled Roadway
2009: If Only The Streets Were Truly Paved With Gold
2008: She Reigns Supreme
2007: A Match Made In Heaven
2006: Proof
2005: Caped Crusaders

Sunday, July 14, 2024

Eye See You

 


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2023: Sorry, no post on this day.
2022: Sorry, no post on this day.
2021: Sorry, no post on this day.
2020: Sorry, no post on this day.
2019: Sorry, no post on this day.
2018: Happy Hipsta
2017: Shift Change
2016: A Chair Is Still A Chair
2015: Summer Calls For Cukes!
2014: Nature's Bounty Fills My Fridge
2013: Bags, Boxes, And Bikes
2012: Wrappers Delight
2011: Breaking The Spell
2010: It Never Ends
2009: 275 Square Miles Of Brilliance
2008: Four Standards, One Newbie
2007: Semantics
2006: 36 Hours Of Hell On Earth
2005: 11:11:11

Tuesday, May 07, 2019

Hiatus

View from our front yard of the sun setting on the Santa Catalina mountains.
Today marks the 14th anniversary of the start of this blog.  On May 7, 2005, The Daily Rant went live.  The posting during the first few weeks was sporadic, but by June 20th, we were daily!  

I love writing this blog.  I found it to be a great tool to keep my friends and family informed about where I am and what I'm up to.  Over the years I've shared photos of places I've visited and written about things that happened on the road.  My perspective was unique - my vantage point was the cab of an 18-wheeler.

I'm proud of what I've done here.

I have been hired for several writing assignments as a result of my writing here.  I sold photos that were published in magazines and books.  My most coveted assignment was the one for The Guardian in 2013.  Not only did that run online, but it also ran in the print version, and my friend Linda in Manchester, England, was kind enough to send me the weekly copies of the actual newspaper.  Someday I'll frame them and hang them in my office.

Ed's knowledge of trucking coupled with my experience and perspective in the industry was used to secure several paying assignments.  We were both hired as consultants on a secret project (had to sign NDAs and everything!) two scientists were working on to improve a certain aspect of truck performance.  I was contracted to write an article for the Go Daddy Garage Blog about questions to ask before starting a trucking company.  And I was also contracted by an online employment firm to be an SME (Subject Matter Expert) to help develop an assessment for truck drivers.  These are just a few examples. 

Some days gathering content for the blog is challenging and I've written about this before.  During times when we were home, or on dedicated runs, it was difficult to come up with things to write about.  We were trucking, but we weren't doing much traveling to write about.  I've filled in with stories about my family, photos of my mother's cat, recipes and whatnot.  And of course, I write about our vacations and travels out of the country.  I may not be trucking during that time, but it's the trucking that made the traveling possible.  It's not just trucking life, it's our life in general.

Well, our life, in general, has experienced a bit of a hiccup.  And due to that hiccup, I need to take a break from blogging.  Don't be alarmed!  Ed and I are just dealing with a few things related to the truck and the business that will likely keep us off the road until November.  I can't talk about it right now but as soon as I can, I will.  Don't worry about us!

Because we won't be traveling, keeping up with a daily blog will be impossible - there's just not that much to write about when we're home and there are only so many pictures of cactus to post.  So I'll be taking a hiatus and suspending the daily writing until we get back on the road.  

This makes me very sad.  I've put a lot into keeping this blog going daily.  Even when it wasn't the best content, I maintained the daily aspect.  As I said, I'm proud of what I've done here.  I'm proud of keeping it up for so long.  I'm thrilled that I have readers from all over the world and I've been so lucky to have met some of those people in real life. 

People like Mick and Ali, people like Linda from Manchester, people like Irene from Queens, NY, 
people like Gary Goulette, people like Bob and Linda Caffee, people like George and Wendy Parker and people like Marlaina and MacG to just name a few.  Hell, Marlaina and MacG have become such good friends that not only do they spend holidays with us and our family, but we also vacationed with them in Europe for a month last year!  And we still love them!  

So although I'm sad about having to take this break, I'm going to use this time to explore the ideas I've had about changing my blog format.  I'd like to redesign it, figure out exactly how I want to proceed, and figure out whether keeping up with posting daily is even something I want to do.  

I do have an Instagram account and will use that to do a little micro-blogging, with pictures and little snippets about what's going on, so please follow me there.  Be forewarned - there will likely be photos of cactus, mundane daily activity photos, and updates on where we eat.  Maaaybe we'll go for a weekend away and post about that but don't hold your breath.

That said, I will be back here posting periodic updates so please check in once in a while.  If you'd like to receive those updates via email, go to the sidebar on the right side of this page where it says "Subscribe To Me!" and enter your email address.  You'll get new posts as soon as I publish them.

I'd like to thank you for your continued readership and appreciate all the emails and messages you've all sent over the years.  If you'd like to contact me personally, I can be reached at salenalettera@gmail.com.

I'll see you all soon!



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2018: Hangin' With This Chick For Thirteen Years
2017: Twelve Years Of Flitting Around
2016: The Magnificent Eleven
2015: My Baby Is Ten Years Old
2014: A Contented Living
2013: Eight Takes The Cake
2012: Seven Years And Still Ranting
2011: Don’t Worry, Daily Rant. I’m On Your Six
2010: So This Is What Niche Feels Like
2009: The Sum Of Its Parts
2008: Look At Me, I’m Three!!
2007: A Trucking Style Birthday Celebration
2006: A Perfectly Uninteresting Event
2005: The Day The Blog Began

Tuesday, April 02, 2019

Inside TDR!

I was doing a little Googling recently and came across an interview I did with TruckDrivingJobs.com in 2016.  I thought I'd repost it here just in case you missed it.  

Read on!


Inside Salena Lettera's Daily Rant

by Jake Tully - Published: 8/30/2016
4.4 3 votes

Salena Lettera is one of the preeminent bloggers in the trucking industry. Her blog, The Daily Rant, has been a staple for readers following Lettera as she chronicles her life on the road and out of the cab. Lettera holds the distinction of having the longest-running daily trucking blog written by a woman, and is easily one of the most important figures in the realm of woman truckers. Along with her boyfriend, Ed Godfrey, Salena has made runs all around the country and shared her experiences with the world.


The Daily Rant is a fun, personal, and honest blog concerning the trucking lifestyle as well as the life one inhabits outside of their work. Lettera is as much an accomplished writer and photographer (See her Flickr page here) as she is an accomplished trucker. Truck Driving Jobs got the incredible opportunity to speak to Lettera about her work and creative process, and how she manages an online presence while maintaining a career in what may sometimes be an unforgiving industry. 

TDJ: What inspired you to turn to blogging as an outlet for documenting your life on and off the road?

SL: When I first went on the road in November 2004, my friends and family wanted to know where I was and what I was doing, so I created a “newsletter” in the form of a Word Document.I regularly emailed it to everyone who was interested. I called it The Daily Rant, mostly because I was “ranting” about things on the road, including pictures and stories about where we’d been and what I was seeing. Then, in early 2005, I discovered Blogger and decided to create my own blog. Instead of sending out newsletters, I directed everyone to my new blog instead. What started as a way of sharing my new life with those closest to me turned into sharing my new lifestyle with the world. When I started getting emails and comments from people across the globe, I was amazed. Now when I see far-flung places showing up in my stats, I’m pleased that people around the world are still reading!

TDJ: There are a rising number of trucking blogs out there, but you’ve made your blog distinctive with some incredible photography of the road itself as well as some of the places you visit on your routes. Had you always planned to do some sort of photo documentation to accompany the blog?
SL: I didn’t really have a plan for the photography part, I just wanted to document what I was doing and share it with people close to me. Prior to starting my blog, my best friend and I developed an interest in taking pictures and some of those photos wound up on the blog to illustrate the blog posts I was writing. As my photography skill improved, I started using more pictures. Now I try to include as many photos as I can. I enjoy reading blogs that include photos in posts, especially travel blogs, so I thought people might enjoy seeing some of the places I was seeing in my daily travels. If what my readers say is true, it turns out I was right!

TDJ: Where do you find time to write? Are you posting often from your sleeper? Do you prefer to write when you’re home in order to collect your thoughts or do you like the idea of blogging while still in the atmosphere of driving?
SL: I make time to write whenever and wherever I can. I always blog on my computer, not my iPhone or iPad like some people do.I’m more comfortable sitting at the keyboard and writing. Sometimes the blog posts are swirling around in my head while I’m driving and I type them out when I get a chance, sometimes I have ideas I think will make a good post and I take down little reminder notes to myself, and sometimes things just come to me when I sit down in front of the computer. It’s a lot easier to have things to write about when we’re traveling to a lot of different places or sightseeing when we’ve got some extended downtime. Since I like to write on the computer, and not my iPhone or iPad, I’m either in the sleeper sitting at the table, or on my laptop up in the cab while Ed is driving. When we’re busy, or doing a lot of team driving - which means sleeping/eating/driving with little time for anything else – I will catch up when I get home. I try to stay current, but sometimes I’m a few days behind and wind up publishing several posts at once.

TDJ: How do you keep yourself motivated to update and write so continuously?
SL: It’s like playing golf – a personal challenge. Since I have a blog titled The Daily Rant, I feel the need to keep up the daily part. Some days I curse the moment I chose that name because often I feel pressed to create content, or I have writer’s block and can’t think of a thing to say! Ultimately, though, I enjoy it and I know people are reading. I don’t get a lot of comments on the blog posts themselves, but I do get emails on occasion and I can see how much traffic my site gets, so I know the readers are out there! When I’m home, like I am now on this local run we’re doing, it becomes a little more difficult to keep up with the daily posts because I do less exploring and there’s not much excitement. I’m trying to shift my blog focus a little bit right now by doing more photos or link posts because we’re not doing any cross-country trucking at the moment.

TDJ: In addition to your own blog, you’ve written for magazines like The Long Haul and Highway Health. Do you consider yourself somewhat of an expert in the fields of trucker health and financial matters?
SL: I don’t consider myself an expert in any field, but I do have over 10 years of experience doing this job so I feel as if I can impart some wisdom and offer some advice. I am not a health advocate by any means – you’d have to use brute force to pry a chocolate croissant from my hand - but I was raised on food cooked from scratch and cook for myself and Ed the same way I learned growing up. We eat very well in the truck when I cook, but we do hit the fast food places more than we probably should when we’re pressed for time. I do think it’s possible to eat better on the road by making an effort to make better choices, but that’s easier said than done. As for financial matters, that’s Ed’s specialty. I’ve learned a lot from him in regard to the financial side of the trucking business. Watching what Ed has done and asking him a lot of questions has increased my knowledge and allowed me to write about how to manage money, how to make the best choices when spending money on your truck and for your business, and even how to make a profit in an industry that tries very hard to keep a driver from doing so. Without Ed’s guidance and input, I wouldn’t have been able to write those pieces.
TDJ: There are many drivers on teams face some difficulties with their partner - how do you and your boyfriend, Ed, make team driving work?
SL: Surprisingly, Ed and I get along quite well. We’re polar opposites – I’m a New Yorker, he’s a Texan – so I’m not really sure how it works, but it does. We do share a small space on a daily basis, so there are disagreements and sometimes all-out arguments, but ultimately we come back to a place where we’re both comfortable. People always ask what it’s like being together so much, all of the time. I tell them to sit in a walk-in-closet for three days with their significant other. That’s what it’s like. We eat, sleep, shower, read, talk on the phone, and watch TV within three feet of each other more than 300 days a year. I always give Ed the credit for this arrangement working. He’s easygoing and has a very even temperament and is really the one who deserves the credit for making living in small quarters bearable.

TDJ: There’s a growing movement for advocating and endorsing women in trucking. Have you seen any growth in this direction or received any positive feedback in taking part in the movement?
SL: When I was in trucking school, my teacher, who had over 40 years in the field, said women made better drivers than men. I don’t know of any studies that prove that, but all the women drivers I know are very serious, very conscientious, and very good at what they do. The American Trucking Association shows women entering the industry in record numbers but they still only make up 5.8% of the industry. That percentage has increased from when I started driving and I do tend to notice more women on the road.I have also seen an increase in women actually being recognized and singled out in the industry. Since I started driving, I’ve seen organizations for women drivers formed, companies seeking women’s advice on everything from interior cab design to product availability at truck stops, and even a trucking “beauty contest” for women drivers (although I’m not sure that was the best idea that’s come down the pike.) I think it’s a great field for women, but I don’t think many consider it as a career or even something they're physically able to do. Women think they can’t drive a vehicle as big as a semi, but whenever I’m asked, I always tell them it’s just like driving a big car. It really is that easy. It’s also empowering, satisfying, and an exciting way to make a good living. More women should give it a try!

TDJ: What do you think is one of the biggest challenges we are currently facing in the trucking industry?

SL: Lack of driver training is a big problem. From the most important aspect of safety to some of the less important elements like trucking etiquette, drivers are often not educated about the industry they’re entering. In my opinion, this lack of preparedness starts during the trucking school training period. New drivers don’t get what they need and don’t seek out the information once on the road. This is a serious job that comes with a lot of responsibility. You’re responsible for the safety of yourself and others around you and you need to be very aware of how your actions can affect others. New drivers don’t have insight to some of the simpler things - like how to navigate a truck stop (no speeding through the parking lot) how long they should linger on the fuel island or common courtesy toward other drivers and the motoring public – and they don’t fully understand some of the more important things like regulations or how to work with and among other drivers. They’re not held to any standards. And many come out here without the tools they need to be successful.I’d like to see the training periods extended, I’d like to see true veteran drivers (ones with 30 years’ experience, not one year of experience) training the new drivers out on the road, and I’d like to see continuous education for drivers – required classes during their first years on the road. Experience and skill level should count for something and should be recognized in some manner.

TDJ: What advice might you impart on someone who is considering a career in trucking?
SL: Do a lot of research. Talk to drivers. Research the companies you’re thinking of working for. Have a little bit of savings before you start to get you through any mishaps. And if you’re going to become an owner-operator, learn as much as you can about operating costs, regulations, basic maintenance, load securing, etc. Use the internet and interview drivers in truck stops to find out which schools are good, which companies are good, where people are having trouble. There’s a lot of information you can obtain before getting out on the road. Find a mentor if you can. Don’t be afraid to talk to old-timers. Write to bloggers in the industry and ask questions. Do your homework. It’s a great career and offers a good opportunity to make money. And in my opinion, it’s fun!



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2018: Simply Obsessed
2017: Downtown
2016: Post-Procedure Recovery
2015: A Wiley Coyote
2014: Quick Draw McGraw
2013: Multi-Level Fun And Games
2012: Sign Of Spring
2011: ¡Buen Provecho!
2010: My Heart Melts For That Glorious Melting Pot
2009: E Pluribus Unum
2008: The Dance In Their Heads, Hands And Feet
2007: The Love Buffet
2006: Whadya Think This Is, The Waldorf?
2005: Sorry, no post on this day. The blog didn’t start until May 2005!

Wednesday, March 27, 2019

That's What I've Been Trying To Tell You!!


Created by Shannon Downey of badasscrossstitch.

Many times in my life I've been told, in response to a whole host of situations, "Well, maybe you're intimidating."

This has been happening since my teens.  I was the one who spoke up, who "intimidated".  I was the one who talked back, who "intimidated".  I was the one who had ideas or suggestions or changes.  I "intimidated". 

I wasn't a wallflower.  I wasn't girlie.  I wasn't quiet and meek and sweet.  I was, at times, intimidating.  That's what they said, some people.

And since my teens, I've always scoffed and said to the person blaming me for intimidation, "Uh, maybe they're intimidated."

I felt strongly about my position, even at a young age.  I was confident.  I was bold.  I was assertive.  Why should I have to worry that I'm intimidating?  It's not my problem if someone feels intimidated.  It's their problem.

And now, finally, in 2019, it takes someone with 87,000 followers on a cross-stitching Instagram account to validate what I've been saying for more than 30 years. 

It's about time.  




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2018: 
Water Where The West Begins

2017: You're Welcome
2016: Shopping Trip
2015: Straight Up Show Truck
2014: One Line Sums Up The Entire Show
2013: Howz About Them Howitzers?
2012: I’ll Hobble On My Walker To Visit
2011: In The Still Of The Night
2010: The Final Count
2009: Eddie My Little Ex-Marine Friday
2008: Delayed By Lipgloss During A Period Of Elevated Security: A Travel Debacle Ensues
2007: A Picture Is Worth A Thousand Words
2006: Your Cat Is In My Garden
2005: Sorry, no post on this day. The blog didn’t start until May 2005!

Wednesday, October 10, 2018

Stepping Outside Of The Comfort Zone

If you know anything about Simon Cowell, of American Idol fame, you'll know that he was rarely seen in anything other than a black t-shirt.  Sometimes - gasp! - a v-neck t-shirt.

I have Simon Cowell's closet.  Everything in it is black.

I've been drawn to black since I was young.  I remember cutting up a black sweatshirt in Madonna days.  Also in the eighties, I owned a black mesh t-shirt that I wore over tank tops and bathing suits.  I had a black bathing suit.  I loved black tights.  I bought (almost exclusively) black purses.  I was probably the only person who liked my waitressing uniform - black shoes, pants, and vest.  Black eyeliner was always my first choice.  And any kind of accessory - wallets, scarves, gloves, notepads, etc. - were almost always black.

So this week while I was going through my clothes for our trip, stacking them on the bed, all I saw was a sea of black.  I mentioned this in a previous post, but it's been in my head more than normal so I decided to try to bring some color in.  I went shopping, again, and picked out a few items that are pure, solid, color.  See photo above.


I did slip in one floral top with a black base color, but that should still count.  It's a print.  And the blue fabric item on the top of the pile is pajama bottoms.  Oddly, I have very colorful pajamas/lounge pants/hang-around-the-house clothes.  Don't know what that's all about.

I will have plenty of black to choose from but I'm hoping I have the courage to throw in a few of the colored pieces to punch it up a little.  If I can't fully commit to an outfit to wear out in public, I will transfer the colorful stuff to my pajama collection.  


I wear more of those anyway, and my stash can always use updating.



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2017: Fall, Falling, Fallen
2016: Twisted Monday
2015: The Bitchy Beast Of Strijen
2014: Montana Moments
2013: Scanning Comes To A Mouth Near You
2012: Go Ahead, Judge Me
2011: Con Los Años Que Me Quedan 

2010: Ten. Ten. Ten. A Perfect Score! 
2009: Lighting The Testosterone Torch 
2008: Eddie Helps The Economy Friday 
2007: Talk About A Thorn In Your Side 
2006: My Sentiments Exactly 
2005: Mason? Dixon? Line? BELOW It.

Sunday, September 23, 2018

Me, Augustus, And Kublai Khan

When we're on the road for our birthdays, we usually stop and have dinner at a nice place.  But this week we're on our way to pick up a load so we just had dinner on the go.  I didn't think I was going to have any cake.

But when we stopped for the night in Illinois, Ed left to go into the truck stop and wound up walking across the street to the grocery store, coming back with a carrot cake.  He knocked on the back door of the sleeper and when I opened it, he was standing there with candles blazing!

On the Google page for your birthday, they illustrate the word with a clickable link that takes you to the page showing events, birthdays, deaths, etc. for that day.


Look at all the people who share my birthday:

Seems I'm in good company.

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2017: 
The Ultimate F Word - Fifty

2016: Cheers To 49!
2015: Loving Snow For Over Four Decades