We received a comment the other day from fellow blogger
I.M. Vayne. Curious about this new visitor, we checked out his profile and found his blog,
RV-Dreamers :) :) :). This shiny new blog had us rolling on the floor laughing. We happily added this tongue-in-cheek journal to our blogroll. We look forward to reading more about I.M. and Nilda’s mostly mobile adventures.
What we love most about this blog, besides its disdain for smiley face emoticons, is how it pokes fun at the notion that fulltime RVing is like living a dream. And, speaking as a couple of tried and true fulltime RVers, sure it is.
Except for when it’s not!
Truth is. We are, first and foremost, living. There are those dream-like days that are filled with amazing adventures. There are days that are calm and quiet. There are days where it seems nothing goes right. And, there are days when everything goes our way.
That’s life, right?
We love this lifestyle. Right now, it fits perfectly with who we are and what we’re up to. And, we’re not “giddy teenager in love” with it. We’re more like “25 years of marriage in love” with it. And, while we love the lifestyle, we’re the first to say it’s not right for everybody. Heck, it’s not right for most people. We’ll even go out on a limb and say it’s not right for a lot of people who dream of doing it one day.
Seriously. Any way you look at it, selling a perfectly good house and most of your stuff, leaving your job, family and friends and packing yourself into a 300-square foot fiberglass box on wheels is a crazy idea!
But, that’s the thing about dreams. Once you have your heart set on one it’s hard to see things any other way. You’ll go out of your way to find information that supports your dream. And, there are folks out here in fulltiming land that will happily serve up a great big helping of dream candy on a stick. Some will ask you for money, because it turns out they need to make a living on the road and can’t find any other way to do it besides seducing folks into this dreamy lifestyle.
Everyone means well, probably. But, just as it’s easy to think your hometown, neighborhood, school or place of employment is the best thing ever and everyone else should be there, it’s easy to sing the praises of this amazing lifestyle and forget that’s it not for everybody.
With all this singing and dream candy, some myths have developed. The purpose of this “special report” is to spend the next few days taking a realistic look at these common misconceptions. Our intention is to inform and inspire folks who are dreaming about life as fulltimers to pause and take a good hard look.
The MythsFulltime RVing is...... a cheap way to live.
... the ticket to an early retirement.
... the only way to go.
... a carefree way of life.
... your exit strategy.We hope you’ll stick around this week as we analyze the fulltime RVing dream. It should be interesting to see what our new commenter I.M. Vayne will have to say!
(Meanwhile, I.M., we're wondering: Do we know you???)