inferiority complex

is it true that guys feel inferior towards girls who comes from a well-off family? and that feeling makes it a lot difficult for them to approach the said girls. aww shucks. its not necessary, you know, to feel that way... unfortunately, this is what's happening in typical Malay society.

who cares about how much money you have in your bank account?
we just care about the way you spend it, wisely or lavishly.

who cares what vehicle you're using?
we just want to see if you took the effort to make sure we feel comfortable on it.

who cares what fashion label you're wearing?
heck, we're more attracted to men wearing simple clean white jubah, or baju melayu with sampin and songkok. or for me, just wearing plain checkered sarung with tshirt. hahaha.

who cares about the way you look?
as long as you can give us much attention, and be there when we need you the most. and be funny,too.

who cares. who cares.

so do not despair, oh men. do not feel like you're unworthy just because you don't have what she have. you just need some charm, and a lot of willpower. a woman's heart is like a flower. sturdy enough to withstand raindrops, but blooms lustrously in the presence of warm sun shining upon it. yes, we need a man who can warmly shine us with their charisma and thoughtfulness.

don't prepare thousands of ringgit as maskahwin, or diamond rings, or fancy hantaran, if you're just gonna be in debt afterwards. yang penting, suami isteri dan anak cukup makan, boleh beli baju baru 2 kali setahun, lepas yuran sekolah, dan kereta selesa *okay kalau ada anak harus ada kereta. atleast a wira(contoh je), please. u don't want to burden or endanger you family's lives kan? it's just too dangerous to ride pillion. lain la kalau nak dating pusing taman waktu petang, bawak pun 20km/j. haha. yang itu tak apa* LOL

just be yourself. be honest with yourself first, then you'll find an honest woman that suits you and loves you for who you are, not what you own. renung-renungkan, dan selamat beramal~