Friday, January 4, 2013

cara melayan anak.

oh makcik, anda belum berkahwin, bagaimana pula anda sudah berfikir cara melayan anak? tsk tsk tsk. matilah

i'm so ready to be a mum. yes. all i want is to have a family on my own. i know its going to be hard, and full of problems. yet, i'm not afraid, cos the love and happiness that I'll have will suffice and make me forget the hardships.

nowadays many parents are treating their child with too much love. haha. if the child wants this/that, then he/she'll get it. no way. don't do that all the time. the child would end up being a stubborn and spoilt human being. lol

i think its all about discipline and tolerance. and parents have to be the best example. yesterday someone gave tazkirah saying that, only if the root is strong, will the plant be flourishing. and the opposite goes to a root that is already ruined (refer surah Ibrahim ayat 24-26). we have to teach moral values from the beginning. don't force them, just nurture it.

#morethanayearago

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