To make the very best of any situation, you must first acknowledge and accept the reality of what it is. That provides you with a valuable starting point from which you can move in any direction you choose.
To deny or to fight against what has already happened will merely waste your energy and resources. To wish that things had been different, or to pretend that they are, will do you no good.
Instead, visualize what can be in all the richness and detail that you can imagine. Then find a step you can take right now that will lead you in that direction.
Losers argue about what has happened and who is at fault, and put their energy into resentment for what is.
Winners choose the life they wish to create, and find a way to move toward it from any situation.
7 comments:
if I just knew which direction I wanted to go....
I want to be a winner! :D Thanks for visiting my alternate blog & checking out our list! :D We're really energized to make more progress on it!
this is really good for me right now
thank you
:-)
Clever, those winners!
Ok, I'm going to do some visualising.
OH BOY, Mel...there's SO many different "tidbits" of fabulous "good stuff" in this post!
For me, it's that's first step that I find the most challenging...
To acknowledge and then ACCEPT the reality of what IS. And not fight against it.
Also, NOT allowing my energy to STAY in that spot and getting involved in the drama of it all. Because if I do...then I can't allow myself to move forward. I end up STAYING there!?!!?
(and madder than hell)
It's good to be reminded of this, dear lady.
Thank you!
Hmm, reality. I may try that one.
Lol...yeah but I define my own reality...
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