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Monday, December 23, 2024

99 Christmas Songs to Include on Your Playlist

It's that time of year again. The Christmas holidays. Where we gather around friends and family and exchange gifts, good memories, good food and more. To make it even more festive, there is usually a Christmas-related playlist playing somewhere. According to MSN.com writer Martha Sorren, here are 99 songs that you can include in your play list. You don't have to add all of them or any of them; they are simply examples of Christmas-related songs. And there are even covers of these songs by artists you would never expect to hear

I'm adding a few I found on the local library music download site that I like. I'll add them on to the appropriate category. They're not part of the site from the link provided above, but I feel like they would be easily likeable

Christmas classics

-These songs are usually done by classic artists, from the 1940s-1960s. They are the official marker of the Christmas holidays

"The Christmas Song" - Nat King Cole

"It's The Most Wonderful Time of the Year" - Andy Williams

"Happy Holidays" - Andy Williams

"Have Yourself a Merry Little Christmas" - Judy Garland, Meet Me in St. Louis

"I'll Be Home for Christmas" - Bing Crosby

"Sleigh Ride" - The Ronettes

"White Christmas" - Bing Crosby

"A Holly Jolly Christmas" - Burl Ives

Christmas Party

-Your holiday celebrations will have an extra dash of festive with these upbeat Christmas songs

"Feliz Navidad" - Jose Feliciano

"Run Run Rudolph" - Chuck Berry

"Rockin' Around the Christmas Tree" - Brenda Lee

"Jingle Bell Rock" - Bobby Helms

"Little Saint Nick" - The Beach Boys"

"Santa Claus is Comin' to Town" - Bruce Springsteen

"Christmas All Over Again" - Tom Petty and the Heartbreakers

"Christmas (Baby Please Come Home)" - U2

"Step Into Christmas" - Elton John

"Wonderful Christmastime" - Paul McCartney

"What Christmas Means to Me" - Stevie Wonder

Caroling

-A tradition for some is go and gather a group of your friends and go door to door, entertaining the locals with beautiful holiday songs being sung

"Silent Night" - The Carpenters

"O Christmas Tree" - Aretha Franklin

"God Rest Ye Merry Gentlemen" - Pentatonix

"Deck the Halls" - Nat King Cole

"Joy to the World" - Whitney Houston

"Hark the Herald Angels Sing" - Amy Grant

"We Wish You a Merry Christmas" - John Denver and The Muppets

"Jingle Bells" - Ella Fitzgerald

"O Holy Night" - Carrie Underwood

Karaoke

-Some people do karaoke at Christmas parties. Here are some of the popular choices to sing

"All I Want for Christmas is You" - Mariah Carey

"Christmas in Hollis" - Run D.M.C.

"The Little Drummer Boy" - Bing Crosby

"Have Yourself a Merry Little Christmas" - Frank Sinatra

"Baby, It's Cold Outside" - Marilyn Maxwell and Dean Martin

"Last Christmas" - Wham!

"Santa Baby" - Eartha Kitt

"I'll Be Home" - Meghan Trainor

"Happy Xmas (War is Over)" - John Lennon

Kid friendly

-There's nothing that warms the heart more or causes more laughs than seeing kids at Christmas. The reactions to seeing their gifts can either warm the heart or cause you to laugh so hard you're crying. Here are some kid-friendly songs that are appropriate for all ages

"Rudolph the Red Nosed Reindeer" - Burl Ives

"Dominick the Donkey (The Italian Christmas Donkey)" - Lou Monte

"Here Comes Santa Claus" - Gene Autry

"The Chipmunk Song" - Alvin & The Chipmunks

"Frosty the Snowman" - Perry Como

"You're a Mean One, Mr. Grinch" - Thurl Ravenscroft

"The Twelve Days of Christmas" - Ray Conniff

"I Saw Mommy Kissing Santa Claus" - The Jackson 5

"All I Want for Christmas is My Two Front Teeth" - Alvin & The Chipmunks

"I Want a Hippopotamus for Christmas" - Gayla Peevey

"Silver Bells" - Alvin & The Chipmunks

"Blue Christmas" - Porky Pig (If you're familiar with the Looney Tunes cartoons, and know who Porky Pig is, you'll know he stutters. And listening to him sing the classic "Blue Christmas" is hysterical. What makes it funnier is hearing the people in the background laughing. I'm usually crying from laughing so hard when I listen to it)

Updated Christmas

-The classic songs we know and love have been covered by other artists. Sometimes the covers are better than the original. Sometimes the originals are better than the covers. It's up to you to decide which version you like best. And if your local library has a music download site through them, that's a great way of finding versions of the Christmas songs you love, done by other artists

"Santa Claus is Comin' to Town" - Michael Buble

"We Need a Little Christmas" - Glee Cast

"You're a Mean One, Mr. Grinch" - Tyler, The Creator

"Mary, Did You Know?" - Pentatonix

"Please Come Home for Christmas" - The Eagles

"O Holy Night" - Josh Groban

"Baby, It's Cold Outside" - Leon Redbone and Zooey Deschanel

"All I Want for Christmas is You" - Dolly Parton

"Happy Xmas (War is Over)" - Miley Cyrus and Mark Ronson

"Grown-Up Christmas List" - Barbara Streisand

"What Christmas Means to Me" - John Legend

"O Holy Night" - Rob Halford

"Mary, Did You Know?" - Lionheart

"Last Christmas" - Glee Cast

"Mele Kalikimaka" - Josh Tatofi (I think this is especially beautiful, given that it's played on an ukelele, a popular instrument in Hawaii and the song is Hawaiian)

"Last Christmas" - Taylor Swift

Christmas Pop

-There are pop songs centered around the holidays. Their light, upbeat mood will have you dancing in no time

"Santa Tell Me" - Ariana Grande

"Mistletoe" - Justin Bieber

"Santa Claus Lane" - Hilary Duff

"Merry Christmas, Happy Holidays" - N*Sync

"My Only Wish (This Year)" - Britney Spears

"Christmas Tree Farm" - Taylor Swift

"You Make It Feel Like Christmas" - Gwen Stefani and Blake Shelton

"Candy Cane Lane" - Sia

"A Nonsense Christmas" - Sabrina Carpenter

"Underneath the Tree" - Kelly Clarkson

"My Kind of Present" - Meghan Trainor

Instrumental

-Some prefer the classical music touch to the holidays

"Charlie Brown Christmas Album" - Vince Guaraldi Trio (This is also known as the Charlie Brown theme song)

"Christmas Canon" - Trans-Siberian Orchestra

"Somewhere in My Memory" - John Williams, Home Alone soundtrack

"Tchaikovsky - The Nutcracker: March" - Berlin Philharmonic and Sir Simon Rattle

"Stille Nacht (Silent Night)" - Manheim Steamroller

"Gumption" - Hans Zimmer, The Holiday soundtrack

"Cry" - Hans Zimmer, The Holiday soundtrack

"Hark! The Herald Angels Sing" - Michael Chertock

"Main Title" - John Debney, Elf soundtrack

"Carol of the Bells" - The Tabernacle Choir

"Joy to the World" - Boston Pops Orchestra and John Williams

Winter

-Some people like the winter season because of Christmas and all the decorations for the holidays. Some people don't like winter because it means cold weather, snow, icy roads and so on

"Let It Snow! Let It Snow! Let It Snow!" - Dean Martin

"Winter Wonderland" - Bing Crosby

"Let It Go" - Idina Menzel

"White Winter Hymnal" - Fleet Foxes

"Evermore" - Taylor Swift and Bon Iver

"California Dreamin'" - The Mamas and the Papas

"Winter Song" - Sarah Bareilles and Ingrid Masterson

"Winter Song" - The Head and the Heart

"Winter Time" - Steven Miller

New Christmas Songs

-While the classics will never go out of style, there are some that debuted in 2024 that are starting to pick up some followers

"Do They Know It's Christmas?" - Band Aid (40th Anniversary Edition)

"Officially Christmas" - Dan + Shay

"Holiday Road" - Kesha

"You for Christmas" - Kelly Clarkson

"Santa for Someone" - Jennifer Hudson

"Wrap Me Up" - Jimmy Fallon and Meghan Trainor

"Glow" - Little Big Town

"Blue Christmas" - Jeff Goldblum and Veronica Swift

"Maybe This Christmas" - The Philly Specials, Jason Kelce and Stevie Nicks

Thursday, December 12, 2024

25 British Phrases to Learn Prior to Going to the UK

It's an obvious fact that the way people in Britain speak is slightly different than the way those in the US speak. There's British English and US English. According to MSN.com writer Victoria Omololu, there are 25 British phrases she believes you need to know prior to planning a trip "across the pond".

A lot of the words and phrases will be similar to a previous post. I also had to remove #5 only because I don't want to risk trouble using a possible swear word. So it comes out to 24 instead of 25. Better to not take chances

1. Cheers

-Used when saying "goodbye", toasting to something or "thank you." It's a term often heard in the UK. You can say it when raising a glass down at the pub, when someone pays for something or when someone holds the door for you

2. Fancy a cuppa?

-Translating into "would you like a cup of tea?", tea is a big part of the culture of Britain. Asking this interesting question is a good way to be social. You might hear this from a variety of people, from people at work to someone you just met. This is a friendly way of showing that someone wants to chat and spend time with you

3. Knackered

-This means you are extremely tired or exhausted. It can be after a long night out or a hard day at work. It's a casual expression of fatigue and exhaustion

4. Quid

-This is a reference to the money used in England. This is the slang term for the British pond sterling. One quid equals one pound. Instead of saying "it costs ten pounds", someone might say "it costs ten quid". This kind of information is helpful when dealing with money or prices in England

5. Gobsmacked

-When someone is incredibly surprised or shocked, they are gobsmacked. It's a unique way of expressing astonishment at something, especially when the results are unexpected

6. Chuffed

-It means you're happy about something. It's a positive term to express absolute happiness or pride. It is often used to express excitement or share good news

7. Slag off

-When you criticize someone / something, or speak badly about someone / something, you are "slagging off". This is a negative way of speaking. Used in informal settings, this is how you know someone / something is being criticized

8. Dodgy

-This is a term used to describe something that is not right, suspicious, potentially dangerous. It would be a common occurrence to describe a neighborhood as "dodgy" if it was unsafe. It can also mean things that are dishonest and poor quality

9. Gutted

-When you're devastated with the outcome of something, you are gutted. It's deep disappointment and or sadness. This implies real emotional impact, a way of saying that it's more than just a little sadness or disappointment

10. Leg it

-When you run away quickly or make a quick escape, you "leg it". This is a phrase used to describe the need to make a quick getaway, fleeing or leaving in a hurry

11. Knees up

-Meaning a lively party or celebration. It suggests there is a fun, festive mood in the air, when people are dancing and having an all around good time

12. Blimey

-This is a word to show surprise or astonishment. It's the British equivalent of "oh my goodness" or "wow." This term adds a bit of extra surprise into the conversation and it's a uniquely British way of showing shock, awe, amazement in unexpected situations

13. Peckish

-When someone says they are slightly hungry, they might say they're peckish. It's a gentler, kinder way of expressing that you're starving. This term is best used to describe a time when you would like to eat without sounding too hungry or demanding to eat now

14. Bob's your uncle

-This is the British equivalent of "Well, there you go", "here you go", "Presto." It's a way of saying something is simple and is used at the end of a sentence. It's a fun, quirky way of indicating that something is easy, straightforward and able to be accomplished

15. Cheeky

-This term describes something or someone who is playfully mischievous, rude or irreverent, but it comes off as charming or amusing. A boy who's always joking around would be a "cheeky lad." It can also be used for actions. Such as "I'm going for a cheeky pint", which means you are having a drink when it's probably best if you don't do it. Overally, this word adds a bit of playfulness to a conversation

16. Skint

-Absolutely flat broke, without money. When you are skint, you are flat broke with no money or lack of money. It's a casual way of expressing that someone is suffering financial woes. It's a less formal way of saying you're hurting financially

17. Faff

-When you waste time doing unproductive things or just be inefficient, you are "faffing about." It can be used when someone is procrastinating or taking too long to do something. This can best be used to describe moments when you are others are not being as efficient as you should

18. Minging

-This term can describe something that is disgusting, unattractive or unpleasant. It can include smells, food, appearances. It is a strong way of expressing disgust or distaste and is used in casual conversations

19. Chinway

-An informal chat or conversation is a "chinway". Similar to a "chinwag", but written as one word. This term refers to a casual conversation with an overall enjoyable nature. It's a warm, friendly way of suggesting to spend time with people

20. Naff

-Tacky, unfashionable, poor quality. It's a gentle way of saying that something is uncool without being harsh. It shows disapproval or distaste without being offensive. It's used when talking about style or taste in something

21. Gobby

-Talkative. When someone is very talkative, they are "gobby", because "gob" is a slang term for the mouth. When someone is "gobby", they are talkative, in a loud or rude way. It's a term used to describe a person who dominates the conversation or speaks with out thinking, also known as speaking with out a filter. It's not a compliment, so use it wisely

22. Snog

-Kissing. In England, when two people kiss, they are snogging. It's a playful term for kissing. It's used in casual conversations amongst friends

23. Narked

-Annoyed, irritated. When someone is "narked", they are annoyed or irritated. It expresses frustration or anger without the use of strong, colorful language. This can describe every day moments of frustration or anger without sounding too aggressive

24. Chuffed to bits

-Extremely pleased, extremely delighted. Similar to the term "chuffed", when someone is "chuffed to bits", they are extremely pleased, delighted, happy. This can be used to express happiness over good news. It suggests strong joy and is a warm, friendly way to share good news or excitement

Tuesday, December 10, 2024

11 Phrases / Terms to Avoid Using in England

It's an obviously known fact that there are two types of English: British English and American English. There are similar words and phrases, but with different meanings in both countries. According to MSN.com page Insider Lifestyle, by someone named Kerwin, here are 11 phrases / terms to avoid using in England, especially if you don't want a look of confusion or a funny look

-For some reason, MSN.com always has articles that catch my eye or interest

-My question is this: first and foremost, who is asking these questions or assuming these things?!?!?!?!?!? I would NEVER ask or use any of these terms or phrases with someone from England. I would try and be as respectful as possible when conversing with them. Because, if anything, I would find it endlessly fascinating to converse with someone from another country. To learn what makes them unique. Learn their likes and dislikes.

-A great example. While on vacation (holiday) in the Dominican Republic one year with my family, we started talking with these three ladies from England. They were super sweet and somehow we got onto the topic of Top Gear UK. These ladies were surprised to hear that we, being from the US, actually preferred the British Top Gear over the US one. They all told us that they were actually from right around the same regions as the guys on that show. One woman was from a village two miles down the road from where Jeremy Clarkson lives. Another said she was from Bristol, where James May is from and the other said she was from Birmingham, where Richard Hammond is from. We all went from one topic to another and it was so fascinating to learn about these ladies and their unique lives and learn what makes them unique

-On the one about the feeling right at home in England from having ancestors from there, I would, first and foremost, never be of that mindset. It's probably a very common thing that a lot of people have ancestors from England. I do. I found that out when I did the DNA test Ancestry.com is always advertising. As a result, I found out I have British in my heritage. Pretty cool. I got a tattoo to commemorate that. It's a skin rip tattoo showing the English Flag (Union Jack) underneath. I thought it was really cool to find out I have that in my heritage

1. Soccer

-For the love of all that is absolutely holy, when in England, refer to the sport that people from the US call soccer football. In England and other parts of Europe, it's football. The people who play it are "footballers". If you want to make connections, brush up on the local teams, go to a pub and watch a football on the televisions that are bound to be there. Showing that you know at least a little something about the local teams will open a world of possibilities, including making new friends and learning about a new culture. It also shows you respect the local culture, putting you in the good graces of the locals. Calling football "soccer" will earn you some funny looks and have the locals immediately asking if you're from the US and earn you some kind corrections

2. "What's with the weather?"

-It might seem like a stereotype, but the British weather forecast seems to be a popular area of discussion. Complaining about the weather like an outsider would is compared to criticizing a member of someone's family-only they can do that. If you want to talk weather with a local, do it with a nod and smile and you'll fit right in. Or speak of it in a friendly, complimentary, kind way. See if talking about it kindly works as well

3. "Fanny pack"

-In the US, "fanny pack" is a bag worn around the waist to keep items in. It's a stereotypical item used by tourists on vacation. In the UK, however, this term has a completely different meaning. In fact, it's quite embarrassing, as it refers to a certain part of the anatomy. If you want to describe this particular accessory in the UK, the proper phrase is "bum bag". It might sound strange, but if you use it, you won't get any funny looks. The key is to talk like the locals

4. "I love your accent"

-It's not surprising that a lot of people find British accents to be attractive or interesting. But it can come off as patronizing or even annoying. It's like complimenting someone on their handwriting - nice, but not something they can control. Instead, just focus on getting to know that person or talking to them. Don't focus on their accent

5. "Are you an Aussie?"

-First things first, NEVER do this. Mixing up the English, Australian and New Zealand accents are a big DO NOT DO EVER!! Despite the fact that these countries do speak English, there are subtle ways of telling whether someone is from England, Australia or New Zealand. Their accents are unique, some might be broader on vowels than others, some use specific terms and there's a sense of national pride attached. To keep it positive, let the person tell you what country they call home if it comes up in conversation



6. "Do you know the Queen?"

-This is a forehead slap moment. Never ask someone from England if they know the Queen. Assuming someone from England knows the Queen or current monarch is like asking someone from the US if they know the President personally. While the Royal Family is an interesting topic for discussion, avoid asking this to avoid sounding like a tourist

She was such a good person. Did a lot of good for others. So inspiring

7. "My ancestors were British, so I feel right at home."

-Many people have British ancestry, but this statement might come off differently than what you intended or thought. It might come off as trying to hard to fit in. It's like claiming you're a native local after a short time in Paris because you had a relative who was French. Let the connections come in their own time over conversations. Those kinds of free-flowing, natural conversations make for stronger connections

8. "Why do you drive on the wrong side of the road?"

-To many people from Britain, they drive on the correct side, and it's everyone else who is driving on the wrong side of the road. Questioning this tradition is incredibly disrespectful. It's like asking people why they celebrate certain holidays. Just don't ask it. Accept it as a unique part of the culture, adapt to it and even enjoy the uniqueness of it

9. "You must love tea"

-While tea is a popular drink in England, not everyone is a fan of it. Making assumptions to someone based on their preferences for a drink can be considered highly irritating. It can also be considered offensive or stereotypical, assuming that someone from England will automatically like tea. It's like assuming that all people from the US like coffee and drink it from the time they get up in the morning until they go to bed at night. Simply appreciate the culture for all the uniqueness it offers

10. "Do you celebrate the Fourth of July?"

-First and foremost, who is asking these questions?!?!?!?

-If you are looking to bond with someone from the UK over holidays, the Fourth of July question is the LAST question you want to ask. If you paid attention in history class in school, you'll do good to remember the Fourth of July marks the day that the people of the US separated from British rule-not the thing you want to bring up with someone from England. Instead, ask them about unique holidays they celebrate, like Guy Fawkes Day or Boxing Day or any of the unique holidays they celebrate. Ask about the significance of them and this will show that you are taking a genuine interest. Tell them you're curious and it will come off as respectful and friendly

11. "Cheerio, mate"

-This is a stereotypical phrase and hardly used in modern day conversation. It can come off as offensive or seem like you are mocking someone from England. It would be the equivalent of someone saying "Howdy, partner!" to you if you're from New York. Learn how the locals greet each other before greeting someone with this outdated phrase

Thursday, December 5, 2024

Mistakes to Avoid When Traveling Alone

It can be a daunting concept, traveling alone. No one to talk to but yourself. But the pros often far outweigh the cons to traveling alone. Travel + Leisure has come up with a few handy tips on traveling alone.

1. Don't overpack

-Only pack what you need. So that you don't strain your body lifting or moving a large suitcase. Only pack what you need for that trip. If you're going to be doing a lot of walking or hiking, comfortable shoes are a plus. If you plan on going sightseeing and want to take pictures, bring a camera. If it's a digital camera, bring a charger and a universal adapter to charge it

2. Don't schedule something for every minute

-The whole point of traveling is to see a new region of the world, to see how the locals live their lives. While it's tempting to fill every minute of every day you're in a new region of the world, don't overschedule every minute. Leave yourself some breathing room to relax. Delays will happen, travelling to places can take longer than expected, sometimes things go wrong. Take a little time for yourself by unwinding at a spa, enjoying a meal at a cafe, take in a museum. Just like you checklist your luggage, checklist what you want to do prior to departure

3. Always have a plan B

-Things will go wrong. You can't avoid it. That's why it's incredibly important to have a plan B. A backup plan. This plan will avoid issues like cancelled reservations or destinations that seemed impressive initially, but in the end were disappointing. Make sure you are aware of other hotels nearby in case of cancelled reservations

4. Never underestimate travel costs

-It's costly to travel. Especially travel to countries where there are no all inclusives (mostly found in the tropical regions, these types of resorts are where everything is paid for, you only bring money for tips and souvenirs). It's good to know how much your trip will cost. Figure in costs for sightseeing, food and drink, souvenirs, hotels, etc. Make a budget plan to know how much to bring with you and add some extra as a buffer against pitfalls

5. Don't be afraid to splurge a little

-We all work hard. We all deserve to splurge a little. That's not to say spend a fortune on something. Just make it something simple. Something like a spa day. Reserve a spot at a restaurant you've wanted to try. Make it something you'll remember

6. Don't feel an obligation to fill silence

-Traveling alone can be frightening for some people, especially those who are introverted, or have a shy personality. Silence is indeed golden. Remember, you don't have to interact with everyone you meet on your solo trip. You're not obligated to go on group tours. Self-guided tours and one-on-one experiences are allowed to be had. Sometimes, these solo trips are good self-discovery journeys just waiting to happen

7. Never fear making new friends

-Anytime you go outside your home country, friendship is waiting just around the corner. Never fear making new friends. It's always a rewarding experience to make new friends from a culture that differs from your own. Group tours and hostels offer the easiest way to make new friends. Hotel happy hours are another way of making new friends. When you become friends with someone new, keep connected with them via social media, such as Facebook, Instagram, Twitter, etc. There's even an app called Bumble, which has a "just friends" filter, allowing you to form bonds with people who are also looking to meet new people from all over the world

8. Tell people where you are going

-In case of an emergency, it's imperative that someone knows where you're going. Share your travel plans with a trusted family member or friend. Make an itinerary for them with all of the information they'll need, such as hotel phone number, hotel name, etc. Update them when you change something. It's imperative to put personal security as the number one priority

9. Don't forget those once in a lifetime experiences

-Some experiences can make you feel as if they were tailor made for couples or groups. Don't let that stop you. If your dream has been to stay in an overwater bungalow in a tropical destination, book it. Do you have a favorite musician who just so happens to be doing a residency in Las Vegas? Buy a ticket and get accommodations. Want to go to Walt Disney World by yourself? Go for it. Buy those tickets and get that hotel and enjoy the happiest place on Earth. You don't need permission from someone. Life is too short to worry about the small stuff

10. Never second guess yourself

-One thing that can always be trusted is your gut instinct, your intuition. If something doesn't feel right, odds are high that it probably isn't. Always trust your gut instinct. You can also follow your intuition on good things. If a restaurant looks interesting to you, but is not one of those five star Michelin-rated restaurants, it's fine. You might have found a hidden gem no one else knows about. There are restaurants called holes in the wall that are often the best places to go. They are off of the beaten path and they, more often than not, have the best food. Trust your instincts. Do not second guess yourself. Life is too short for second guessing

Thursday, November 14, 2024

44 Travel Hacks to Make Travelling Easier Pt. II

"Hacks" is often a term used to describe unique tips to help you do something easier and more affordably. According to an Microsoft article by so

You also might see me add a few of my own. You might also see me add some info to each one if I have done it or seen it. My takes on each item will be listed after "Pro tip" because I have done that item and it works for me.

Save space by avoiding overpacking

-Overpacking is something we've all done at least once in our lives or it's something we know is done by someone we know. To avoid overpacking, leave out bulky items and consider where you are going, what you'll be doing and what the weather is like. This will ensure you don't overpack and risk those pesky overweight bag fees

-My stepdad does this EVERY TIME we go on vacation. I only overpacked once and it was when me and my family went on vacation to the Dominican Republic. I had never been there, and was unsure what the climate was like. I packed one too many shirts and there were a couple I didn't even wear

21. Mix and match clothing

-When packing, pack clothes that are of neutral colors that can be worn with multiple items. This will not only make it easier to choose clothing, you can also be stylish

22. Limit the amount of jewelry you wear

-Choose a few pieces of jewelry that goes with your outfits. Wear the larger items during travel to save space in your carry on

-Pro tip: if you bring a lot of jewelry on vacation, this just means more you have to put into a hotel room safe. And if the safe is not working, invest in a luggage lock that only you have the key to. Put your valuables into the suitcase and lock it. Sometimes maids will take items from tourists because they think tourists are rich. Hide anything you don't want stolen by the maids

23. Pack reusable travel bottles / tumblers

-Don't pack full size bottles. Instead opt for reusable bottles or tumblers. You can fill these bottles with your favorite drink. They not only save space but they also comply with airport security liquid rules. If you need to wash clothes where you are going, bring a small container of laundry detergent

-Pro tip: taking a reusable bottle or tumbler with you, especially if you are going to a tropical destination with a bar, will be easy for you. You can take your tumbler or bottle to the bar and ask them to fill it with the drink of your choice, even if it's juice or water. The steel tumbler will keep it cold for hours. When going through security, just get the tumbler or tumblers (if you plan on taking more) out of your carry on and put them in the bin you put your other items in. Security will see that there are just metal tumblers and nothing suspicious. And if they do ask about why they are in the bin, inform them that you are making their job easier by showing them that they are just metal tumblers, nothing more or less. They appreciate people making their job easier

24. Leave room for souvenirs

-Save some space in your luggage for souvenirs. Compression bags can shrink down clothes and save more space

-Pro tip: if you don't want your souvenirs broken, my suggestion would be to put them in your carry on. I've seen the way airport staff handle luggage. They don't care. Their mindset is "not my luggage, not my problem." They certainly wouldn't like it if someone did that to THEIR luggage. So they carelessly throw luggage into the airplane, not taking a second to consider that someone has souvenirs they don't want broken. Keep your souvenirs in your carry on. Prior to going through security, get the souvenirs out so that security knows they are souvenirs and not suspicious items. Also, if you buy something that is made of organic material, such as wood, you might get stopped by security only so they can examine the item. This is to check for any sort of invasive species of insect that might be hitching a ride into the country you're returning to. These invasive species of insects can mix with other insects and do massive damage to the local agriculture

25. Make a list before you pack

-This is the most important thing you can do. This ensures that you have everything you need. This prevents overpacking. Make a list of everything you will need for the destination you are traveling to. This includes clothing, sunblock, sunglasses, whatever you'll need for the trip. Triple check prior to your trip to ensure you have everything you need in case you need to make any last minute trips to the store for necessary supplies

-Pro tip: Start making a list at least 1-2 months ahead of time. Start getting items out and mark it off the list each time you collect an item. Triple check each item to confirm you have it so that if you are missing something, you'll have time to get that item before your trip. Once you have said item, put it in the correct bag or spot in your luggage. It's always good to have peace of mind knowing you have everything you are going to need. In the case of my parents, who take medication, my mother, who is probably the most organized person in the world, brings a list of medications for both her and my stepdad. She does this so that security knows the reason why they are bringing so many medications with them. They can look at the list and know they are legitimately needed

26. Use the "Last In, First Out" Method

-Put the items you'll use last at the bottom of your suitcase while the items you'll use first go up top. This will keep you from rummaging through your suitcase and making it look like security has already gone through it

27. Make your entertainment digital

-Instead of packing bulky books or magazines, go digital. Download your favorite movies, magazines or books on to a tablet. This is not only a space saver, but will keep you entertained once you are able to turn these devices on

-Pro tip: ensure any digital device is in Airplane Mode. This safety mode will not affect the electronic measurements on the airplane. Only turn on your devices when told it's safe to do so

28. Limit gadgets

-Bring only the gadgets you know you will use. Put cables and chargers in clear plastic bags to keep them together

Get the best deals for travel

-It always pays off, no pun intended, to get the most for your money. Look for discounts anywhere you can. If you are a retired person, and are eligible for AARP (American Association for Retired People), see if they have travel discounts. Seniors do get a lot of discounts on things. Look for any travel discount you can utilize.

29. Enable price alerts for flights
-Prices for flight and travel can change in a heartbeat. By setting up price alerts on the travel sites out there, you can know when a price gets to what you want and can afford. You'll know when the time is right to go. Google Flights or Skyscanner can help you with good, quick price alerts

30. Travel during the off-season

-It's always good to travel during the off-season. This ensures you beat major crowds and it's often cheaper to fly during the off seasons. There will be deep discounts on everything, from flights to accommodations and even local shops might offer you some savings. Local shops offer deep discounts when tourist numbers are low. September-November seems to be the off season for a lot of places, as there is not a lot of people traveling unless they are on vacation. Kids won't be travelling with them, as they will be in school, unless they are homeschooled. This time period tends to be incredibly affordable on flights, accommodations and more.

Pro tip: Do not travel around the holidays. Christmas, Thanksgiving, Memorial Day tend to be the busier holidays, according to most travel companies. Airports can be busy. The roads will be backed up with traffic if people are driving. Also, do some research into local holidays where you are going. If you are going somewhere and there happens to be a local major holiday, you might run into a lot of people. But that's not a bad thing; it's interesting to see how the locals celebrate holidays. It's more of a "put it on your radar" type thing so you know. Also, travel during the summer tends to be busy because a lot of kids are on summer vacation, so you'll see a lot of kids at the airport. Just be patient when around kids. They are just as excited as you are to travel and it's always incredibly rewarding to see just how excited kids can get when they know they are going somewhere they've never been to. And they're cute as ever when they are excited about travel

31. Use the incognito mode for booking

-What you may not know is that sometimes prices can fluctuate based on your search history. To keep prices from changing, put yourself into Incognito Mode. Use this when booking hotels or flights. This keeps the search history relatively clean and prices reasonable. This ensures that online activity does not have an impact on the costs you're seeing

32. Join a frequent flyer program

-These programs offer great discounts to those who travel a lot. Airlines offer frequent flyer programs that can offer the chance to earn miles and points to use towards international travel or other benefits. When on the airplane, staff aboard will tell you about frequent flyer programs that you can join if you plan to travel frequently. They will hand out applications to those interested

33. Get accommodations with built in kitchen facilities

-Some people prefer to get accommodations with built in kitchens. Others do not. It's all down to what you personally prefer. The idea behind accommodations with built in kitchens is that it will save on food costs. It will allow you to prepare and cook your own food rather than eat at a restaurant every day

Pro tip: I did this when I went on vacation with my mother, stepfather, his sister Jeananne and her son Noah when we went to Florida one year. They all rented a condo with a kitchen that was right there on the beach. It, for us at least, was more trouble than it was worth. It was not much of a vacation when we had to hit up the local grocery store, Publix, and get food. Every night, we prepared food and had to clean the dishes that were available for use in the cabinet. All the stuff you can do at home with the expense of a vacation rental right on the beach.

-It didn't work for me. That's not to say everyone will feel the same way. It might work for some and that is fine. It simply didn't work for me. Not only that, that vacation was boring. All we did was hang by the pool and walk on the beach. I had to be extremely careful because back then, I burned incredibly easily (luckily my skin is a lot tougher now; I don't burn anywhere near as easily as I used to). We didn't go to any of the major theme parks like Busch Gardens in Tampa (we were in Tampa Bay, by the way), Universal Studios Orlando or Walt Disney World in Orlando. The only major thing we did was go mini golfing at a course two miles up the road in an area called Indian Rocks Beach. I was glad to go home.

34. Explore Local Tourist Passes

-There is such a thing as local tourist passes. These allow tourists to visit destinations at a deeply discounted price. They also offer savings on public transportation, which helps you get around

35. Eat like the locals

-Instead of hitting up the touristy spots, go to the local market or local restaurants. Eat and drink amongst the locals. Not only will this help immerse you in the local culinary scene, but you can also save money too. An added perk is that you might get the chance to talk to some of the locals and meet interesting people and you can heighten your travel experience

-This is what I plan to do if I get the chance to visit London. Nothing would fascinate me more than eating amongst the local residents. Getting to know their interesting stories. Seeing all of the unique architecture. And if I see locations from various films I've seen, I will have to exercise extreme self control from getting excited at seeing something in real life from a film I saw. For example, if I see the building that was used as the MI-6 headquarters in the film Skyfall, I will definitely be taking a picture

36. Use public transportation

-Learn the local public transportation. They are far more affordable than taxis or rideshare services. It's a great way to travel around like the locals do. You can find some great things that taxis or rideshare services might miss. You can save money by using public transportation and use that money elsewhere. Not only that, you might meet some interesting locals while using public transportation

Maintain health and safety and various other needs

-It's strongly important to make sure you are prepared. "Hope for the best, prepare for the worst" is usually a good phrase to live by. When traveling, there might be unexpected situations that pop up. It's always good to be prepared

37. Make photocopies of important documents

-Make copies of your most important travel documents. This includes your photo ID, passport, travel itinerary. Keep these copies separate from the originals. This is with the idea that if the originals get lost or stolen, you'll still have all of your crucial information

38. Learn some basic phrases

-It's always important to learn basic phrases in the local language prior to traveling to that destination. It's not only respectful, but it will help you in the long run. Learn some vital words such as "help", "emergency", "doctor", "hospital", "allergy". Also, learn some basic greetings, like "Hello", "How are you?", "thank you", "you're welcome". If you need police / emergency assistance, learn what the local number is. In England, it's 999 for emergency services

-Pro tip: get a travel book. There are plenty out there. My suggestions would be Fodor's TravelRick Steves'Lonely Planet. They have everything broken down by price. 1 $ means affordable. 2 $$ means moderately priced. 3 $$$ means expensive. I have quite a few books by these companies and people at home about travel. I have one on England, one on London, one on Japan, one on New York, one on Australia and one on Hawaii. They're informative, helpful and offer helpful tips and hints about what to do, what to see, where to eat, where to stay, all based on your budget.

-Sadly, I've made a list of everything I would love to do / see when visiting these destinations. And it doesn't help when a British friend of mine from college told me about Alton Towers, a theme park in Stoke-on-Trent, England and how much fun he had there. He said if I got the chance to go there, I should. One ride he recommended was Oblivion because not only was it fun, but the concrete area around it was designed to look like a supervillain lair. It was designed by a production designer who worked on at least five of the James Bond films. I told him that now I have to go there and see it for myself. Of course, he sent back a bunch of laughing face emojis because we were chatting on Facebook

39. Check your travel insurance

-Verify that your travel insurance is up to date. Check that it covers your destination of choice. It should include coverage for accidents, illness, loss / theft. It will provide peace of mind as you enjoy your trip

40. Notify your bank prior to travel

-This will bring you peace of mind as well as that of your local bank. Notify your local bank about your intention to travel. Let them know when you are leaving, when you are coming back, where you are going. They will red flag any suspicious activity on your card and will even block / freeze your card from use in case of foreign transactions

-Pro tip: carry cash and / or cards. Depending on where you are going, if you plan on taking your card, do the above-mentioned advice. Not only will you have peace of mind, your bank will too. My mother worked in credit card fraud for a local bank for 10 years. She would block / unblock cards for the account holders for their protection. And, of course, they would always call and yell at her for this. She would kindly explain to them that she did this for their protection and explain that they should have notified the bank prior to travel

-A great example. A lot of former New York / New Jersey residents live in the Cincinnati, Ohio region. A woman who was from New York, but living in the Cincinnati, Ohio area had called in to complain that her card was blocked. She had planned a three week trip to the Far East, seeing places like China, Vietnam and Japan. My mom had blocked her card and this woman had called in, very angry, demanding to know why her card was not working. My mom had to educate her about the high risk of identity theft and credit card fraud that was prevalent in the Far East. That she should have notified the bank prior to travel. When my mom finished, the woman was deeply apologetic and appreciated what my mom had done. My mom had explained that it was her job to block cards from suspicious activity that is not normal for the account holder. My mom asked that, to prevent this from happening again, the woman needs to contact Card Services at the bank and let them know when she is leaving / coming back and where she is going. The person will put a travel advisory with this information on her account so that people will know that it's the card holder making those charges

41. Pack a doorstop

-For additional security, bring a doorstop. It sounds strange, but bringing a doorstop to use in your hotel room will keep unwanted guests from coming in

42. Check for Free Wi-Fi

-See if the hotel you're staying at offers Wi-Fi for free. It will help you stay connected and saves on expensive international data roaming charges

43. Carry reusable shopping bag

-Have a reusable shopping bag in your luggage. This will offer a convenient way of carrying items, such as souvenirs and it's eco-friendly

44. Research local customs and etiquette

-It's incredibly important to do research on what local customs and etiquette is. This will avoid not only cultural mistakes, but it will heighten your travel experience when you do what the locals do. Like the old saying "When in Rome, do as the Romans do." This phrase translates into "when in a city or country, do as the locals do." They will respect you when they see you are making a genuine effort to respect their laws and customs

Travel smarter, not harder

-These tips are designed to make packing for a trip a breeze. Use these tips to make your trip go more smoothly, not more stressful. Following these tips will heighten your travel experience and garner you respect from the locals

44 Travel Hacks to Make Travelling Easier Pt. I

"Hacks" is often a term used to describe unique tips to help you do something easier and more affordably. According to an Microsoft article by someone calling themselves Nomad Veronica LLC, here are 44 travel hacks to make travelling easier.

You also might see me add a few of my own. You might also see me add some info to each one if I have done it or seen it. My takes on each item will be listed after "Pro tip" because I have done that item and it works for me.

Hacks for packing

-We've all either been there or known someone who has been there. The person who has travelled all over the world and knows every little hack in the book. Here are some simple ways to make packing easier.

1. Roll your clothes

-This is a time tested and proven method of conserving space in your luggage. Not only does it save space, but it also is a nice way of folding your clothes to avoid wrinkles

-Pro tip: I do this and it works wonderfully. My clothes are not wrinkled, my suitcase has plenty of room. It works beautifully

2. Use packing cubes / crates

-These are a game changer. If rolling your clothes is not something you prefer, instead use packing cubes to put your clothing in. You can fold your items inside these cubes and it will keep them nice and tidy without looking like security already went through your belongings

-Pro tip: I also use packing cubes. I put my bulkier items in there, like jean shorts, t-shirts, camisoles, etc.

3. Pack a multi-use scarf or cover up

-Use a multi use scarf, cover up or sarong as a makeshift blanket, towel or accessory to outfit. Sometimes people bring blankets with them, but it would be wise to check with the airline or airport before doing this

4. Stuff small items into shoes

-Utilize the maximum amount of space in your luggage and also avoid losing small items by stuffing them inside your shoes. It not only keeps you from losing said small items, it helps you use every inch. Or you can put them into a plastic bag to keep them in one place

5. Put dryer sheets in between layers of clothes

-To reduce static cling and keep your clothes smelling laundry fresh, slip a few dryer sheets in between your clothes

6. Use plastic wrap under caps

-To keep hats from getting unnecessary spills on them, utilize plastic wrap on plastic bottles. Put a piece of plastic wrap on bottles and then put on the lids. For extra protection, use tape around the lid

7. Carry an emergency kit

-Always be prepared for the worst. Have an emergency kit on hand. This should be easily ready and accessible from your carry on. This emergency kit should include all necessary first aid supplies, medications and other items deemed important

8. Follow the 1-2-3 rule for shoes

-There is a rule for shoes in luggage. This helps people choose shoes. It's called the 1-2-3 rule. One pair of dress shoes, two pairs of casual shoes, 3 pairs of socks per pair of shoes. It also comes down to where you are going and what you'll be doing that determines the type of footwear you'll be wearing / bringing

9. Seal / separate toiletry bag

-Keep this bag separated from other items in your luggage and keep it sealed tightly. Use clear plastic bags to make getting through security easy peasy (they'll appreciate you making it easy for them)

-Pro tip: most travel sections at stores have clear bags for toiletry items that are safe for security. They have clear fronts so security knows there are toiletry items inside

10. Use the bundle packing method

-If rolling clothes doesn't work for you and the packing cubes don't suit you, try this time-tested method. Using a bundle pack method. This involves wrapping clothes around a central core, the wrinkle-prone items on the outside, the tougher stuff on the inside. The idea is that it will save space and reduce folding lines

Airport / flight hacks

-Now that you're at the airport, it's now time to get through security, sometimes called TSA. These people make sure you're not taking anything suspicious out of the country. Follow some simple rules designed to streamline your process through security and get you through faster and easier

11. Download boarding passes

-Make sure that you have all of your necessary travel documents in one place prior to leaving for the airport. Because if you leave for the airport and realize, when you get there, that you have forgotten something, you won't have time to go back and get that item without the risk of missing your flight. It's always good to triple check you have everything before you leave. If you are the kind of person who likes to take things digital, consider downloading your boarding pass on to your phone. It avoids the hassle of printing and making the boarding process easier. But if you like to keep the boarding pass as a memento, put the boarding pass inside the same folder as you keep your passport and then put your passport inside your carry on.

-Pro tip: Invest in a passport holder. Not only will this keep your passport secure, you can also keep other important documents in there as well, including boarding pass, flight information, a pen for filling out international forms and more.

12. Wear extra layers

-To save space in your luggage and ensure a comfortable trip, consider wearing extra layers. You can use these clothes for extra warmth

-Pro tip: look at the weather forecast for the area you are currently living in. Even if it's summer time when you're traveling, it'll be different temperatures up in the friendly skies. You'll want to wear long pants and bring a hooded sweatshirt to wear because once you're up in the skies, it can get mighty cold

13. Charge devices prior to travel

-Make sure all of the devices you plan on bringing are fully charged. Outlets at airports might be tricky to find or everyone is using them to charge their devices last minute. Making sure that your devices are fully charged will ensure that you keep informed and entertained

-Pro tip: invest in a universal adapter. These handy little devices allow you to charge things overseas. Just use the right adapter for the country you're in and you can charge your devices. These handy little devices will have the appropriate electrical prong setup for whatever country you're in because voltage differences can vary from country to country. These nifty little devices will run you no more than $10-$20 at most stores and will be found in the travel department

14. Carry portable charger

-This nifty little item is a game changer. Carry a portable charger with you to charge your devices. Keep it with you, along with a universal adapter, to keep you charged up on all of your devices

15. Bring your own snacks

-Airports can be expensive. The stores are counting on travelers being hungry. Bring your own snacks with you to keep hunger at bay. It means saving massive amounts of money at the airport and healthier options, especially if you have dietary restrictions

16. Stay hydrated

-Staying hydrated is key to fighting off and preventing jet lag. You can bring a reusable water bottle to fill up after getting through security to ensure you stay well watered throughout the flight, since flying dehydrates you

17. Choose an aisle seat for long flights

-Long flights can be tedious, especially if you are in the window or middle seat. Choose an aisle seat so you can stretch out without disturbing others. The aisle seat allows easier access to your carry on.

-Pro tip: store your carry on underneath the seat in front of you. Not only will you avoid disturbing others by incessantly getting up to go to the overhead bin, but you'll have all the important items you need closer

18. Wear slip on shoes

-While wearing flip flops to the airport might get you through security faster, they are not always the right choice of footwear, especially in the case of an emergency or once you get up in the air. Wear slip on shoes or gym shoes to the airport. Slip on shoes make it faster to get through security and also maximize comfort on the airplane. Not only that, but they keep your feet warmer too once up in the air

19. Keep a pen with you

-When travelling internationally, you will need to fill out entrance forms or other forms. Keep a pen at the ready to fill these out so you can enter the country. It will save boatloads of time to have a pen at the ready rather than wait for airplane staff to hand out pens. Keep a pen inside your passport holder

-Pro tip: invest in a passport holder. These can include slots for important papers, pens, your passport and more. When looking for a passport holder, invest in one that has a loop for a pen, storage for papers and your passport. This will keep you not only organized but ready with a pen and all your important documents together in one place

20. Book early morning flights

-To reduce delays and enjoy a quieter travel experience, book early morning flights. Statistics show that early morning flights are more enjoyable and a lot less likely to be delayed than flights later on

Thursday, October 31, 2024

Pro Tips from a London local on traveling to London

London is one of the more popular destinations to travel to in Europe. Whether it's the rich history, the interesting architecture, something music-related or other, tons of people from all over the world make this one of their travel bucket list destinations. According to TheTravel site on MSN.com and writer Sharon Kong-Perring, who split time between the UK and California, here are 8 things she learned from a local about visiting London, 8 things that she believes tourists need to know.

-Some of the recommended tips she received include:

  • Use the tap and go technology for easier access of traveling throughout London. Don't use the Oyster cards and skip the paper tickets
  • Don't accept "free" items from strangers on the street. This prevents you from being hassled for payment
  • Choose the more affordable viewpoints such as the Sky Garden or Monument instead of the pricier options like the London Eye

1. Oyster Cards / paper tickets are relics of the past

-Tap to pay or digital wallets increase ease of travel

-This was once the way to travel all throughout London. Using a prepaid card called an Oyster Card or paper tickets allowed access to the Underground, the underground subway system London uses. Now you can use technology to guide you along. Simply use tap-enabled credit cards or digital wallets to tap in / out of the Tube stations. Now you don't have to worry about losing your Oyster Card or paper tickets, putting the card / ticket in incorrectly at the turnstiles or making sure you have enough money to get in and get rejected. This system reduces confusion and traffic holdups at the Tube stations, especially during Rush Hour, which makes the stations incredibly crowded. There are also other options to get around London from Heathrow besides the Tube

2. Don't accept anything free from people on the street

-You'll be harassed for payment

-Despite not being an issue in recent years, it's still an everyday con job of some nomadic communities. It will often be an older woman offering those who pass by a "free" bouquet of flowers or a colorful string bracelet. Before you take them, heed this warning: when you leave, that woman will hold on you, preventing you from leaving until she gets payment

3. You don't have to pay for water

-Nothing is more irritating that seeing tourists waste money

-When you visit a restaurant in London, and the server asks what you would like to drink, and you specify water, you need to be specific. You need to say tap water rather than bottled. It tastes just fine, it's still healthy water and, above all, it's free

4. The London Eye is not the only option for getting a good view of London

-There are plenty of photogenic locations to get a good view of London from other than the London Eye

-While many who go to London want to, at least once during their stay, ride the London Eye, that's fine. Go for that. But, if you're looking for a prime opportunity to see the fantastic London skyline, there are additional options for seeing it, options that are more cost-effective and still provide those same opportunities to see the skyline. The Sky Garden is one of them. While it is free, you do need to book a slot of time prior to your visit. The Monument is another option. This is for those adventurous tourists who don't mind walking 300 steps to the top and fear of heights are not an issue. While it does have a safety net around the platform, still exercise caution as it is open to the elements

-Here is the breakdown of money and what locations cost

The London Eye. Located at the Riverside Building County Hall on Westminster Bridge Road. It's £30+ per adult.

Sky Garden. Located at 1 Sky Garden Walk. Free, but must reserve time slot prior to going there

The Monument. Located at Fish Streer Hill. It's £6 per person, £3 per child ages 5-15, £4.50 per school student with school ID and seniors

5. While Big Ben is exciting, don't dawdle on the walkways

-People are out and about on a journey to get somewhere, don't stop them from doing so

-One thing to know is that the actual proper name of the clock tower is the Clock Tower at the Palace of Westminster. "Big Ben" is actually the name of the bell in the tower. This is one of the most truly iconic landmarks in all of London. When you hear London, you automatically think of the iconic clock tower. But, the only downside is that tourists will often stop dead in the middle of the sidewalk on Westminster Bridge to snap a pic or two. If you want to get a great photo, without causing a delay on traffic on Westminster Bridge, snap those pics from the South Bank, right at the foot of the Westminster Bridge, or go to Parliament Square Garden just west of Big Ben and next to a statue of Winston Churchill. That way, even if people figure you're a tourist, they'll love that you are not stopping them from getting to where they need to

6. Stand on the right, pass on the left

-There is such a thing as transportation etiquette

-When riding the Tube, there is a certain etiquette that must be adhered to, especially on the escalators. There is a cardinal rule amongst Londoners that must be adhered to: stand on the right, pass on the left. If you don't want to walk down the moving escalator, keep to the right. This allows room for those who intend to walk down the moving escalator to pass on the left. The same goes for if you are trying to pass. You will notice people keep to the right so you can pass on the left

7. Walk on the left

-Just like driving on the opposite side of the road, keep left

-While this can be confusing, it's not impossible to understand. But when walking down the sidewalk (or pavement in British English), you walk on the left side. This mirrors how people drive in the UK. This will help you avoid those awkward dances of trying to move out of other people's way. There will be times, however, that indicate when to keep right, such as on the Tube or other walking areas. Pay attention to those signs and your surroundings

8. Train etiquette is important

-Nothing says "poor manners" or tourist more than poor train etiquette

-If you want to go outside the London city center and see sights outside of the city, most likely you'll need to take a train. These overground trains will take you almost anywhere. First and foremost, pay attention to whether you have an assigned seat. Don't sit in any seat. Don't argue with someone over a seat. Be polite. Move to the side if you are accidentally sitting in someone's seat. Second, don't be loud on the train. Don't be like the episode of British television program Mr. Bean where he had to share a train compartment with a man laughing too loud. It's important to not be too loud on the train. While you will hear the occasional phone call, don't join in on that call. If you're going to listen to music, utilize earbuds / headphones, reduce loud talking and respect your fellow riders. If you do plan on talking, use a soft, "indoor voice". There's also a "quiet car" if you want stone dead silence, apart from the rattle of the train cars on the rails

-Trainline is the go to app for train ticket purchases. This is good if you don't want to wait until the last minute. Be aware that train companies do change their schedules frequently, so it's good to know that purchasing a ticket too early means that the schedule is subject to change. The sweet spot to buy tickets is 24-48 hours prior to your trip

Friday, October 11, 2024

Unspoken Rules You Should Know Prior to Going to Japan

Japan is one of the most beautiful countries in the world. Their culture is unique and unlike any other. Prior to going there, there are some unspoken rules you need to be aware of. According to MSN.com writer Eul Basa, here are some unspoken rules to be aware of

Respect

-Japan prides itself on humility, proper manners and respect. The top rule here is to be respectful and kind. When you show respect for the local customs, that puts you in the good graces of the locals and shows you take their culture seriously. It will make you look good and show you respect the local laws and customs

Take off your shoes prior to entering a building

-When entering a temple or shrine or visiting a house, hotel or other building, remove your shoes. Slippers to wear inside are provided

Bow to show respect

-In Japan, you bow to show respect. The deeper you bow, the higher amount of respect you show. A small bow of the head indicates a greeting or showing of gratitude

Offer / Receive with two hands

-It might sound strange, but if you offer and receive something with both hands, it's considered respectful. It shows you are being considerate of the person and also showing concern for the person that you're speaking with

No tipping at restaurants

-This is definitely a no no. You do not tip at restaurants. It's not customary and it could even be considered rude. The reason tipping is not customary is because customer service in Japan is of the highest quality and and it's simply an every day thing to be expected

Respect the lines

-In Japan, it's considered good manners to wait your turn in line, whether it be for a taxi, to board a train or elsewhere. It's bad manners to jump ahead of someone. Respecting the lines reduces chaos and ensures that things run smooth as ever

Be quiet on public transport

-The reason that you must be quiet on public transport is because there is an unspoken rule about serenity and harmony. Some people choose to sleep on the train or bus. Speak quietly to someone. Do not shout or make loud noise. These are looked down on as bad manners

No pointing with your fingers

-It's considered impolite to point with your fingers. If you need to gesture to something or someone, use your whole hand

Don't blow your nose in public

-This might not seem like a big deal elsewhere, but in Japan, it's frowned upon to blow your nose in public. It's considered rude. If you do need to blow your nose, excuse yourself and find a nearby bathroom to do so

Wear the designated slippers when visiting the bathroom

-It might sound strange or even gross to wear slippers to the bathroom, but fear not. In Japan, cleanliness is top notch. When visiting the bathroom, you must wear a specific type of slipper. It all comes down to the high level of hygiene and cleanliness

Don't walk and eat

-If you must eat, do so at a table with chairs or seating. Do not walk and eat. This is considered poor manners. This helps also keep the streets clean

Respect personal space

-Most people are respectful of personal space. Some aren't. You must respect a person's personal space in Japan. The culture places high value on personal space

Using chopsticks

-Japan is a nation that uses chopsticks to eat. When using chopsticks, NEVER insert them vertically into food. This seems rude and impolite. Not only that, but it looks like something done at funerals. Also, do not use your chopsticks to hand food to others; they will get their own food

Slurp your noodles loudly

-In most countries, this would be considered impolite or poor manners. In Japan, it's commonplace and even acceptable to slurp your noodles loudly.. This, strangely, shows the owner of the restaurant you are really enjoying their food

Always carry cash with you in addition to cards

-Not all businesses in Japan do cashless payment. Some are still old school enough to do cash only. That's when you want to ensure you have both. To make sure you are able to successfully pay

Sort out trash

-This is a part of the recycling process. You sort out your trash based on what it is. Japan is known for being an incredibly clean country. Here, you sort out your trash because there are so few public bins. Put the correct trash into the correct bin to keep in tune with the strict waste regulation

Etiquette on escalator

-This is something most have never heard of. Japan is a country that prides itself on etiquette for everything. Including escalators. When using one, it's customary to stand on the left side in Tokyo while in Osaka, you stand on the right. This allows those in a hurry to get by

Visiting an onsen (hot spring) or public bath

-When you visit an onsen (hot spring) or public bathhouse, you must clean yourself thoroughly prior to entry. It's in relation to the high level of hygiene and cleanliness in Japan.

-WARNING: If you have tattoos, there's a pretty good chance you may be restricted from entering unless you cover them up. In Japan, tattoos have a strong cultural connection with the Yakuza, or Japanese Mafia. These underworld figures are known for heavy body tattooing, which they often cover up. If you have tattoos, cover them up. Ask the owner of the public bathhouse or onsen what the policy is on tattoos and what you can do to cover them up. This will show that you respect their wishes and also put you in their good graces. Covering your tattoos also reduces the risk of offending the locals who frequent these places, as they may be uncomfortable seeing tattoos because of the cultural connection to the Yakuza

Dress modestly

-Japan is a conservative country. Dressing modestly is what everyone does. Wear conservative clothing when visiting shrines or temples or rural areas. This will show respect for the customs and local culture

No tattoos at the gym

-This goes back to the cultural connection between tattoos and the Yakuza. If you plan on going to a gym and you have tattoos, cover them up. Covering them up is considered a sign of respect

No PDA

-Public displays of affection, such as hugging or kissing, can make others feel uncomfortable and is frowned upon in Japan. Refrain from doing this

Follow the proper rules when visiting shrines / temples

-The thing to keep in mind is that shrines and temples are holy places, just like churches, mosques or synagogues. Dress respectfully. Just as you would dress when attending services at church, a mosque or synagogue, do that there. People come to shrines and temples to pay their respects to lost loved ones. If you plan to partake in the purification and rituals here, follow the proper etiquette, which includes bowing, clapping, offering coins and burning incense

Punctuality is important

-Japan considers tardiness to be of the utmost disrespect. Being on time shows your consideration for other people's time. Guarantee that you get to your destination on time

Etiquette at the dinner table

-First and foremost, speak softly. Loud speaking is considered poor manners. Dinners are meant to enjoy the company of others. Getting loud and rowdy puts a dent in that

Never open a gift in front of the giver

-It might sound strange, but in Japan it's customary to open a gift in private. Never open a gift in front of the giver. If you do this, it might cause anxiety over your reaction to what that person has gifted you. Wait until you are away from that person to open it. Then do something to show your appreciation, such as a little card expressing gratitude or something else

Prior to taking photos, always ask permission

-It might sound strange, but in Japan, it's always good to ask for permission prior to taking photos, especially in sacred places. Asking for permission prior to snapping that picture shows that you respect the privacy of that place

Respect for the elderly is a must

-Japan is a nation that places high value on respecting the elderly. You can show your respect to the elderly by offering them your seat on public transportation. This is deeply ingrained into traditional Japanese values

Don't haggle

-Haggling the price down to something specific might work in some countries, but in Japan it doesn't work. Prices are at set rates at Japanese markets. Bargaining is not common, so don't bother trying to haggle the price down on an item you would like to buy

Don't block the way

-There is a flow and rhythm to the way people move in Japan. Move in the right directions and avoid just standing in one spot. You might block someone who is on their way somewhere

Keep your phone on silent

-It might be tempting to keep your phone on vibrate or have the ringtone turned up to hear it, should you risk missing an important call. But in Japan, it's customary to keep phones on silent, especially on public transportation to maintain a peaceful environment

Tuesday, October 1, 2024

12 Etiquette Rules from Britain That Americans Should Learn or Know

This was an interesting article that caught my eye on the internet

When it comes to those who are from Britain, proper manners and sophistication are two things people think of first. Good manners, good etiquette are the orders of the day in Britain. According to MSN.com writer Astrid Hofer, a resident of Austria who moved to London, here are 12 etiquette rules from Britain that Americans should learn or know. The person behind the article also talked to Laura Windsor, who is the author of Modern British Manners and a top expert in royal etiquette

Arrive on time

-Being on time and punctual is considered incredibly respectful in a lot of countries, including Japan and Britain. Whether it be work, a dinner party or something else, be on time! According to Laura Windsor, the idea of being "fashionably late is fashionably rude". "Coming 10 to 15 minutes late is acceptable, but it should never be more. The hosts have gone to great lengths to make a pleasurable evening for you, so don't leave them waiting." Sometimes, things happen, that are out of your control. Do the right thing by calling to alert the hosts to your delay. Be honest about how late you may be. "That way, the host can decide if they want to wait with serving the food or not. And don't pretend it's just five minutes when you're probably going to be half an hour."

-Also, don't arrive too early. You don't want to disturb your hosts while they are putting any last minute prep work on or preparing themselves to warmly receive guests

Use terms like "please", "thank you", "sorry"

-These are the proper terms to use when showing good manners. In Britain, it's not uncommon to hear these terms being uttered quite frequently. A good thing to remember is when asking for something, show proper etiquette by asking "May I have", not "can I have". It might seem like such a minor difference, but little things make big impacts. "You "can" do anything in the world, but using "may" means you are asking for permission," says Laura Windsor.

-When in Britain, apologizing frequently is something else you'll notice. According to Laura Windsor, "If someone bumps into me, I will say "sorry" and he or she will say it too. It's not that I'm really sorry-it's just the response that we learned from when we were little." The same concept can be applied everywhere. For example, if you're going to the theatre and find someone sitting in your seat. Don't just tell them to get up. Use polite manners. "A person in England would say something to the effect of "I'm so sorry, but I think you are in my seat." The "sorry" softens things a bit and makes it sound less harsh."

Keep conversations light and avoid getting personal

-Windsor sums it up when it comes to mastering small talk. "Keep the conversation light and general. Don't ask questions that are too personal, such as if somebody is married or has kids. If you're talking to someone who's been secretly waiting for a proposal from their boyfriend for years or just had a miscarriage, this won't go down well. If you notice someone has an accent, never ask "Where are you from?" Instead, you could say "Where is home for you?" In that case, it's up to the person how much they want to reveal."

-Not sure what to talk about? Windsor jokingly says "The weather always works as an icebreaker in the UK. You could also talk about the event you're at or ask how the person you're talking to knows the host." Topics to avoid at all costs include asking too many personal questions, politics and anything controversial. When in doubt, think like a British royal. Keep the talk light hearted and small

When dining, keep the fork in the same hand

-There's a vast difference between American table manners and British table manners. When using a knife, Americans will put the knife down and pick up a fork with their dominant hand to eat. People in Britain, however, keep the fork in the same hand when taking a bite. When eating in Britain, you keep the knife and fork in your hands and don't put them down unless getting something to drink or picking up a napkin to blot your mouth

-According to Laura Windsor, "When we are at the table in the UK, we want to give the least distraction. And we want to not make noises, which includes clattering the cutlery on the plate. When using a fork, the tines are always down. You never turn the fork to scoop food on."

Only cut and eat one bite at a time

-It's been said that Americans will often cut up their meat and veggies prior to eating. Cutting up the food into several bites goes against proper etiquette used in the UK. According to Laura Windsor, "It's all about looking elegant when dining in Britain, which is why you don't cut only one bite at a time, you also eat one bite at a time. We don't come to the table to stuff our faces. We come to eat and have conversations with people. We like our small bites. Apart from the fact that they're easy to swallow and give us time to talk in between, they also prevent choking, especially for kids. And it's good for digestion too."

Lay down the cutlery nicely

-It might sound strange, but clattering the cutlery down when you're not using them could be seen as poor manners. In the US, it's customary to put the cutlery down at the 10:20 position while in Britain, it's customary to put cutlery down in the 6:30 position. With the fork on the left and the knife on the right. In restaurants, put your cutlery down in a spot that looks "finished" or "done". This will tell your server and fellow diners that you have completed your meal

When hosting, offer a beverage right away

-When in the UK, you'll never enter a home without being offered something to drink. Offering a drink is polite in the US as well. If you're hosting, don't let it be up to your thirsty guests to ask for drinks. Offer them as soon as possible. According to Windsor, "Traditionally, it's the gentlemen pouring the ladies a glass of water, and it's a way of signaling that the meal is about to begin."

Don't bring flowers to a dinner party

-It's always considered good etiquette to bring a small gift to a dinner party. Chocolates are good. And so is champagne or wine, Laura Windsor says "as long as you don't expect it to be opened, as your hosts have probably already selected and paired the drinks with the food." Personalized gifts are always good too. These include books by the host's favorite author, jam for those with a sweet tooth, flower seeds for those with a passion for gardening. The one gift to avoid at a dinner party? Bouquets of fresh flowers. "They are a headache for the host if they're busy preparing things and are then left to look after them. If you want to gift flowers, send them before or after dinner, or bring a potted plant they can just place somewhere."

Don't say "like" all the time

-Nothing says lack of confidence more than using "like" frequently. Windsor says "If you say "like" every two or three words, you'll lose value and credibility, so try to avoid it."

Respect personal space

-Ever since the COVID-19 pandemic, it's been said to stay six feet apart from people. People respect their personal space. Greeting someone with a hug for the first time won't do well in the UK. Laura Windsor states "We're a bit more stiff upper lip than Americans, and we like to keep our distance." When people in the UK shake hands, "we leave about a meter (approximately 40 inches) distance, the length of our own elbow and the other person's elbow."

-It could seem standoffish or even cold at first, but it's not what it seems. "It takes a little time to get to know us, but once you do, we could be friends for life."

Respect the line

-In England, when you are waiting in line for something, it's called queueing. And, no matter what country you're in, you need to wait your turn and don't jump ahead of people in a line. Nothing says poor manners better than cutting in front of someone. Windsor mentions "If there's a bus shelter and it's raining, you don't want to stick yourself out in the open, so you'll huddle together to not get wet. But when it comes to getting on board, you'll hopefully get back in line and wait until it's your turn." Simply put, be patient. Wait your turn, whether it be to board a bus, waiting in line at a coffee or tea shop or a grocery store

PJs in public are to be avoided at all costs

-For example, it's 10pm and you have a sudden hankering for cereal only to find you've let yourself run low on milk. While the temptation is overwhelming to run to the nearest store to get milk in your pajamas, it's not something to do. You definitely don't do this in the UK. Nothing says "I'm American" more than running around in your sleeping clothes

-"Don't ever wear pajamas in public. You can never be sure who you might meet outside. It could be the CEO of a company you've wanted to reach out to for years and you can just walk up to that person and introduce yourself looking like you just got out of bed." says Windsor

Put your phone away when you are out with other people

-This is common sense. When you are with other people, why be on your phone? You should be enjoying the time with others, socializing, enjoying their time as they are with you. It seems many Americans are glued to their phones, or mobiles as they might be referred to in the UK. Many people in Britain, however, avoid doing this, as it's considered impolite in the book of British etiquette and manners. Windsor says "It's the height of bad manners. When you are with other people, they are the most important things around you [paying attention to] anything else is disrespectful. Turn off your phone, and put it away." If you are expecting an important call, it's best to let someone know that you may have to excuse yourself from the table at some point. In those cases, put your phone on vibrate to avoid disturbing those around you. And if a call does come in, keep it short, sweet and to the point. NEVER answer calls at the table

Keep things formal

-In the US, emails at work are short, sweet and to the point. In the UK, however, people like build relationships. Even if you think it's a bit long winded to read a long email, don't think of it as a waste of time. When emailing those in the UK, keep it formal. Keep it professional. Start off an email with a greeting like "Good morning", "Good afternoon"

-Windsor recommends using a person's title and last name instead of using first names if you've never met them. "When in doubt, always be formal because you can never go wrong. You might go wrong if you're too informal and someone feels offended." And it's also incredibly important to sign off the email using formality. Instead of using "cheers", which is a typical greeting heard in England when leaving somewhere, using a more proper send off, such as "goodbye", "thanks", "kind regards", "yours truly".