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Sunday, November 10, 2019

The Importance of Warmth


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Oh hello Martin!

During one of our recent chicken watching chore times. L found a tree close to the edge of the woods around our land that he thought would be perfect for teaching baby F to climb. He saw how sad his baby brother would get every time he and sisters climbed high in our magnolia tree and was looking for a way to include him and make him feel special. Seeing my children look out for one another like that really warms my heart...even on a cold day like that one was.

That reminds me of the importance of warmth - something I haven't talked about in quite a while in this space. It may not have even been since C was a baby and I was constantly asked why she was always in a hat indoors or out. Rudolph Steiner, the founder of Waldorf education really shaped me into the mother that I am. I discovered him back when my oldest was six months old. I am so thankful for his invaluable wisdom. Knowing this, it is no wonder that I feel very strongly about keeping little ones warm. Steiner believed that one of the most important gifts we can give our children is to ensure they have sufficient warmth. Did you know that warmth is essential to our children's cognitive, emotional and physical development and of course their overall health? Let that sink in a minute.

"Children are developing their bodies especially during the first 7 years of their lives. An infant and a young child will always feel warm unless they are on the verge of hypothermia because they have an accelerated metabolic rate. If we don't provide them with the warmth they need to insulate their bodies, then they must use some of their potential "growth" energy to heat their bodies.

This same energy would be better utilized in further developing their brain, heart, liver, lungs etc. In addition, being cold decreases immunity. We are all more susceptible to the germs and viruses that are always around us when we are wet and cold. When our body has to expend extra energy to keep warm then less energy is available to "fight" off infections. So why do children rarely complain that they are cold? Children often are not connected with their body before the age of 7 to even acknowledge or communicate that they are cold. They live in the moment and are so excited and stimulated by all that they see that they don't have the capacity to sense the coldness of their body. This is why children often will play in a swimming pool or ocean until they are literally "blue" denying that they are cold or that they need to come out of the water. So as parents, we have to help our children develop their sense of warmth. By helping them develop this sense of warmth, we are actually strengthening their immunity and laying the foundation for a healthy body and healthy organs in their adult life." - The Waldorf Library

In fact, Children need assistance with protecting their physical warmth until the age of 10 or so. So how can we as parents help them develop their sense of warmth? For starters, cover their heads when they are outside. My children have always know this. If they want to go outside they must wear a hat. Most of our body heat escapes through the top of our heads. Another essential way to keep them warm (indoors and out) is layering, especially around their core. The type of fabric worn is also just as important. Natural fibers like wool, linen and silk should be used. They breathe and insulate keeping children warm but not sweaty, while synthetic fabrics encourage sweats and chills.Woolen long johns are the foundation for warmth, especially in the bitter cold of winter months. They are a temperature-regulating, breathable, quick-drying base layer. No other fabric feels as soft, wicks away moisture, helps regulate body temperature, and resists odor. My children have wool undershirts that they wear as their base layer at all times throughout the winter months - under their pajamas and daytime clothes. My youngest even wears them year round.

Now I know some of you might be saying, "but my child just won't wear wool!" and boy do I hear you! Two out of my four children are very sensitive to wool. Even the wool/silk blend long johns were deemed "scratchy" by them. A warmth obsessed mama's worst nightmare! But hear me out - I have hope for you! I have tried a few different companies and wool varieties to find the solution to the scratchy problem even going as far as putting the woolens on them without telling them what they were made out of. They still knew every time and would want them off. The most tolerable for them was the 50/50 wool silk blend but even that still wasn't comfortable enough for them to wear without me constantly reminding them. I recently found a new to me brand of woolens that even my most wool fearing child loves to wear. I won't mention any names but he just might be wearing the red woolens in the photos above. *ahem* Chasing Windmills Merino wool is made with ultra-fine merino fiber and it is really soft. Super soft. Really super soft. 😊 So soft that the aforementioned boy will wear them at all times without even being asked. That is a HUGE win in my books.

Suffice to say you can get even the most fussy child sufficiently warm. By our understanding of the importance of warmth we can help our children develop a capacity for warmth to carry them through their life.

*My boys are wearing their chasing windmills woolen long johns in the photos above and mama knit wool hats (Baby F in the Oscar Pixie hat and L in the baa-ble hat).
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Sunday, September 29, 2019

The big 14th birthday promise

Somebody hold me... My oldest is 14! 😲 How do these years go by so quickly?! K is blossoming into the most loving, and nurturing young woman. Who knew when she was my little spitfire that she would be discerning becoming a nun once she finishes school.

 She has been looking forward to this specific birthday ever since she was 4 years old. For reasons we can no longer remember, Kevin told her then that he would let her drive on her 14th birthday. Every year she would remind him of his promise and every year it seemed like 14 was a lifetime away...yet here we are. Kevin kept his promise and the two of them spent a good chunk of the day in a mall parking lot driving our van and they ended with a special father daughter coffee date. Later on we had the family of her closest friend (a family we all love and are close to, actually) come over for some delicious sugar free, gluten free, dairy free, egg free chocolate cake. I promise it was incredible! They brought her the sweetest rose plant which was really quite the perfect surprise. She had told me nearly a year ago she wanted roses on her 14th birthday in honor of St. Terese. I love when things work out like that.

This year she requested that I knit her a gold shawl instead of our traditional birthday sweater. I had her pick the pattern herself because I wanted to make sure she would really like it. Knitting for teenagers is different than knitting for toddlers who have no opinion on what they wear. Ha,ha. Thankfully she still loves my knitted gifts. She chose the Afterglow shawl.  I made a couple of modifications to make it the way she wanted. My rav notes on it are here.  Shawl pin is of course by our favorite makers - Wooly Moss Roots.

Okay, I need a minute again. My baby is so grown up! 😭 I am not ready for this!! Wasn't she 4 just yesterday?! Days like this remind me of how grateful I am for our birthday ring tradition. I can look at all the ornaments we carefully chose each year to represent our child's growth or interest and instantly be brought back to that year of their life. It rather eases the pain of their growing. This year's ornament was supposed to be a car but I somehow forgot to order it 😵 so one of L's train ornaments is temporarily in its place. Oops. Oh well. It will be there for her next birthday along with all the memories of this one.

**You know your daughter loves you when she will wear her birthday crown for you...then she goes to put it on and it doesn't fit. D'oh! Guess I need to loosen the elastic. Her head has grown since I made it when she was just 2 years old!
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Sunday, August 18, 2019

Joybed for the win!


My baby boy is growing up. 😭 I'm not crying, you're crying. Okay, okay, the truth is I am uncontrollably sobbing. Why must they grow so fast?! Snuggling with him every night is just one of my most favorite things to do and I am so thankful for the gift of co-sleeping. He is not quite ready to sleep on his own just yet, but we wanted to go ahead and get him a bed of his very own now. That way, when he is ready to move in to big brother's room it will be ready and waiting for him. *sniff, sniff*

Finding a bed locally was easier said than done. The downside to our beloved small town living is that there are not a whole lot of eco-friendly, health conscious stores. A natural mattress store is unheard of here whereas in Portland, Oregon you could find them nearly everywhere.


All of my children have mattresses made out of natural materials. It is something I feel very strongly about, especially for growing little ones. One third of your life is spent sleeping. Think about it, that is eight hours a day (or more if you are a child. My younger ones average 12 hours), every day  you spend on your mattress breathing in all the chemicals that are constantly off gassing. Some chemical vapors are odorless, so you aren't even aware that you’re breathing them. A typical mattress could contain a variety of different materials that off-gas such as polyurethane, benzene, formaldehyde, along with chemical flame retardants which have been linked to a variety of serious health issues, including cancer, infertility, obesity and developmental brain disorders.


 Knowing all of this, I couldn't allow myself to just pick out any old mattress for my baby boy. Thankfully, that is when I stumbled upon Joybeds. Joybeds is an American based (Grand Rapids, Michigan to be exact) natural mattress company. Their mattresses have jacquard organic cotton covers, and are made with responsibly farmed wool, cotton, cotton padding and Nano coils. They are free from chemicals and synthetic additives and meet fire protection standards using all natural materials. And because they're natural, they also improve sleeping comfort by enhancing the breathable airflow through the bed.

You can pick the support you want from firm to plush, order it online and have it shipped to your door. No need to worry over local mattress options. Phew! I can understand how you might be skeptical, but if you feel nervous about ordering a mattress online without trying it out first, Joybed has you covered! They have a 120 Night Trial. Try Joybed in your own home for 120 nights. If for any reason you change your mind, they'll give you a full refund.The Joybed mattresses also come with a 10 year warranty.         
 


We knew straight away that Joybeds mattresses were just what we were looking for. We chose the Joybed LXP for Baby F. This is their softest luxury mattress. We couldn't believe just how quickly it arrived and were pleasantly surprised that it was compressed in to a tight little box that was easy to transport to the boy's bedroom. The children all had a blast watching the mattress open in full after we unsealed it.

Baby F climbed on it instantly and then let the rest of us test it out. I admit I was rather impressed by how comfortable it is. Since its unboxing, we have all been drawn to it, using it for resting, reading or just relaxing. Even our rascally dogs and cats are constantly on it.

I think it is safe to say we made a great choice with choosing Joybeds and will be enjoying this mattress for years to come. Thank you Joybeds for making such a wonderful product!!


 **Disclosure: this post was made possible by Joybeds, but all opinions expressed are my honest opinions



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