chore(deps): bump @grpc/grpc-js, @google-cloud/monitoring and google-gax

Bumps [@grpc/grpc-js](https://github.com/grpc/grpc-node) to 1.8.17 and updates ancestor dependencies [@grpc/grpc-js](https://github.com/grpc/grpc-node), [@google-cloud/monitoring](https://github.com/googleapis/google-cloud-node/tree/HEAD/packages/google-cloud-monitoring) and [google-gax](https://github.com/googleapis/gax-nodejs). These dependencies need to be updated together.


Updates `@grpc/grpc-js` from 1.5.3 to 1.8.17
- [Release notes](https://github.com/grpc/grpc-node/releases)
- [Commits](https://github.com/grpc/grpc-node/compare/@grpc/grpc-js@1.5.3...@grpc/grpc-js@1.8.17)

Updates `@google-cloud/monitoring` from 2.3.5 to 3.0.5
- [Release notes](https://github.com/googleapis/google-cloud-node/releases)
- [Changelog](https://github.com/googleapis/google-cloud-node/blob/main/packages/google-cloud-monitoring/CHANGELOG.md)
- [Commits](https://github.com/googleapis/google-cloud-node/commits/tasks-v3.0.5/packages/google-cloud-monitoring)

Updates `google-gax` from 3.5.2 to 3.6.0
- [Release notes](https://github.com/googleapis/gax-nodejs/releases)
- [Changelog](https://github.com/googleapis/gax-nodejs/blob/main/CHANGELOG.md)
- [Commits](googleapis/gax-nodejs@v3.5.2...v3.6.0)

---
updated-dependencies:
- dependency-name: "@grpc/grpc-js"
  dependency-type: indirect
- dependency-name: "@google-cloud/monitoring"
  dependency-type: direct:production
- dependency-name: google-gax
  dependency-type: indirect
...

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