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26 September 2008
boring
Dah takde mood dah nak keje...ingat nak raya jer, hehehe...tambah lak ngan bebudak nih dok pasang lagu raya...aduh...lagi lar takde mood aku nak wat keje....
Bila dah malas nak wat keje tu mula lar aku dok blog hopping jer...tak pon tgk friendster, reply email my frens...:-) . Tapi takde lar smpi tak wat keje langsung kan...Sambil menyelam minum air la kan....
Boring2 tu aku buat lar benda ni...maybe korang pon blh try gak...Ni aku nye blogging personality...
Ok, aku rasa cukup lar test aku buat for today...Dah ilang dah boring aku, hehehe...What's yours?
Bila dah malas nak wat keje tu mula lar aku dok blog hopping jer...tak pon tgk friendster, reply email my frens...:-) . Tapi takde lar smpi tak wat keje langsung kan...Sambil menyelam minum air la kan....
Boring2 tu aku buat lar benda ni...maybe korang pon blh try gak...Ni aku nye blogging personality...
Your Blogging Type is Logical and Principled |
 You like to voice your well thought out opinions on your blog. And if someone doesn't what you write, you really don't care! Serious and blunt, sometimes people take your blog the wrong way. But you're a true and loyal friend to those who truly get you. |
| You Are 35% Addicted to Blogthings |
 But you're no addict. (Hey, this quiz *proves* it!) For you, Blogthings is more of a healthy habit. At least, that's what you tell yourself! |
| Your 1950s Name is: |
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What Your Blue Umbrella Says About You |
 When faced with adversity, you can be counted on. You rise to the occasion when things are tough, and you are very dependable. You are cool and laid back. Everyone finds you easy to get along with. You are a good communicator and conversationalist. People pour their hearts out to you. On a rainy day: you should spend the day catching up with your closest friends |
Your Independence Level: High |
 You are extremely self reliant and autonomous. You are definitely into doing your own thing. But you also wouldn't turn down help if you needed it. You follow your own path, but you don't do so blindly. |
Ok, aku rasa cukup lar test aku buat for today...Dah ilang dah boring aku, hehehe...What's yours?
23 August 2008
The Right Person
Rcvd an email from my friend about this. So, I post it here so that I can share with you all. Very interesting...Read it.
DID I MARRY THE RIGHT PERSON?
During one of our seminars, a woman asked a common question.
She said, "How do I know if I married the right person?"
I noticed that there was a large man sitting next to her so I said,
"It depends. Is that your husband?"
In all seriousness, she answered, "How do you know?"
Let me answer this question because the chances are good that it's weighing on your mind.
Here's the answer.
EVERY relationship has a cycle. In the beginning, you fell in love with your spouse. You anticipated their call, wanted their touch, and liked their idiosyncrasies.
Falling in love with your spouse wasn't hard. In fact, it was a completely natural and spontaneous experience. You didn't have to DO anything. That's why it's called "falling" in love.... Because it's happening TO YOU.
People in love sometimes say, "I was swept off my feet." Think about the imagery of that ___ expression. It implies that you were just standing there ; doing nothing, and then something came along and happened TO YOU.
Falling in love is easy. It's a passisve and spontaneous experience. But after a few years of marriage, the euphoria of love fades. It's the natural cycle of EVERY relationship. Slowly but surely, phone calls become a bother (if they come at all), touch is not always welcome (when it happens), and your spouse's idiosyncrasies, instead of being cute, drive you nuts.
The symptoms of this stage vary with every relationship, but if you think about your marriage, you will notice a dramatic difference between the initial stage when you were in love and a much duller or even angry subsuquent stage.
At this point, you and/or your spouse might start asking, "Did I marry the right person?" And as you and your spouse reflect on the euphoria of the love you once had, you may begin to desire that experience with someone else. This is when marriages breakdown. People blame their spouse for their unhappiness and look outside their marriage for fulfillment.
Extra marital fulfillment comes in all shapes and sizes. Infidelity is the most obvious. But sometimes people turn to work, a hobby, a friendship, excessive TV or abusive substances.
But the answer to this dilemma does NOT lie outside your marriage.
It lies within it. I'm not saying that you couldn't fall in love with someone else. You could.
And TEMPORARILY you'd feel better. But you'd be in the same situation a few years later. Because (listen carefully to this) :
THE KEY TO SUCCEEDING IN MARRIAGE IN NOT FINDING THE RIGHT PERSON ; IT'S LEARNING TO LOVE THE PERSON YOU FOUND.
SUSTAINING love is not a passive or spontaneous experience. It'll NEVER just happen to you. You can't "find" LASTING love. You have to "make" it day in and day out. That's why we have the ____ expression "the labor of love."
Because it takes time, effort, and energy. And most importantly, it takes WISDOM. You have to know WHAT TO DO to make your marriage work.
Make no mistake about it. Love is NOT a mystery. There are specific things you can do (with or without your spouse) to succeed with your marriage.
*Ok, got to go. I need to renew my driving license. It's already exp 3 weeks ago. Hahahaha...selambanya aku driving with the expired license!
DID I MARRY THE RIGHT PERSON?
During one of our seminars, a woman asked a common question.
She said, "How do I know if I married the right person?"
I noticed that there was a large man sitting next to her so I said,
"It depends. Is that your husband?"
In all seriousness, she answered, "How do you know?"
Let me answer this question because the chances are good that it's weighing on your mind.
Here's the answer.
EVERY relationship has a cycle. In the beginning, you fell in love with your spouse. You anticipated their call, wanted their touch, and liked their idiosyncrasies.
Falling in love with your spouse wasn't hard. In fact, it was a completely natural and spontaneous experience. You didn't have to DO anything. That's why it's called "falling" in love.... Because it's happening TO YOU.
People in love sometimes say, "I was swept off my feet." Think about the imagery of that ___ expression. It implies that you were just standing there ; doing nothing, and then something came along and happened TO YOU.
Falling in love is easy. It's a passisve and spontaneous experience. But after a few years of marriage, the euphoria of love fades. It's the natural cycle of EVERY relationship. Slowly but surely, phone calls become a bother (if they come at all), touch is not always welcome (when it happens), and your spouse's idiosyncrasies, instead of being cute, drive you nuts.
The symptoms of this stage vary with every relationship, but if you think about your marriage, you will notice a dramatic difference between the initial stage when you were in love and a much duller or even angry subsuquent stage.
At this point, you and/or your spouse might start asking, "Did I marry the right person?" And as you and your spouse reflect on the euphoria of the love you once had, you may begin to desire that experience with someone else. This is when marriages breakdown. People blame their spouse for their unhappiness and look outside their marriage for fulfillment.
Extra marital fulfillment comes in all shapes and sizes. Infidelity is the most obvious. But sometimes people turn to work, a hobby, a friendship, excessive TV or abusive substances.
But the answer to this dilemma does NOT lie outside your marriage.
It lies within it. I'm not saying that you couldn't fall in love with someone else. You could.
And TEMPORARILY you'd feel better. But you'd be in the same situation a few years later. Because (listen carefully to this) :
THE KEY TO SUCCEEDING IN MARRIAGE IN NOT FINDING THE RIGHT PERSON ; IT'S LEARNING TO LOVE THE PERSON YOU FOUND.
SUSTAINING love is not a passive or spontaneous experience. It'll NEVER just happen to you. You can't "find" LASTING love. You have to "make" it day in and day out. That's why we have the ____ expression "the labor of love."
Because it takes time, effort, and energy. And most importantly, it takes WISDOM. You have to know WHAT TO DO to make your marriage work.
Make no mistake about it. Love is NOT a mystery. There are specific things you can do (with or without your spouse) to succeed with your marriage.
*Ok, got to go. I need to renew my driving license. It's already exp 3 weeks ago. Hahahaha...selambanya aku driving with the expired license!
18 August 2008
bestnya...
dtg keje arini. Jln tak jam...keta pon kurang. School holiday agaknya...& for the first time aku dpt duduk dlm lrt. Lrt pon tak ramai org, hehehe...Kalo camni ari2 kan bagus...Tak lar aku stress jer...
Ok lar, aku nak sambung upload gmbr...
Ok lar, aku nak sambung upload gmbr...
15 August 2008
stories to tell
#Pagi tadi baru lepas test. Re-sit test, hahaha...Hopefully this time aku pass lar...Kalo tak...mampos! Kena lar ngadap SM. Waaarrrggghhhh...tak mau...
#Lagi 2 hari nak ganti puasa. Caiyo...Caiyo...
#Smlm dpt berita drpd bapak aku, anak kawan bapak aku, abg Lan nak kawen dah this Sun. At last kawen jugak dia...setelah sekian lama putus cinta. Dgrnya, the wife to be org Kelantan. Congratulation to him. Semoga perkahwinan dia kekal hingga akhir hayat. I'm happy to hear that he's getting married.
#Tak tau lar sapa yg buat cite pasal 1 of my family member. Dan all sedara-mara belah my father side plak ntah mana diorg dpt cite tuh...without asking us, terus jer spread cite yg tak betol tuh pada org lain. Takut agaknya nak tanya? It is sad to know what they've done. Kalo lar diorg tu betol2 ambil berat pasal anak sedara sendiri, they will not do such thing. Apa yg diorg dpt dgn buat benda nih pon tak tau lar. Ada benda yg diorg tak puas ati kot? From what had happened, aku boleh buat conclusion that they are not .......(I don't want to mention here).
#Will attend a wedding tomorrow.
#Lagi 2 hari nak ganti puasa. Caiyo...Caiyo...
#Smlm dpt berita drpd bapak aku, anak kawan bapak aku, abg Lan nak kawen dah this Sun. At last kawen jugak dia...setelah sekian lama putus cinta. Dgrnya, the wife to be org Kelantan. Congratulation to him. Semoga perkahwinan dia kekal hingga akhir hayat. I'm happy to hear that he's getting married.
#Tak tau lar sapa yg buat cite pasal 1 of my family member. Dan all sedara-mara belah my father side plak ntah mana diorg dpt cite tuh...without asking us, terus jer spread cite yg tak betol tuh pada org lain. Takut agaknya nak tanya? It is sad to know what they've done. Kalo lar diorg tu betol2 ambil berat pasal anak sedara sendiri, they will not do such thing. Apa yg diorg dpt dgn buat benda nih pon tak tau lar. Ada benda yg diorg tak puas ati kot? From what had happened, aku boleh buat conclusion that they are not .......(I don't want to mention here).
#Will attend a wedding tomorrow.
15 July 2008
semalam...
ujan lebat...
jln jam...
aku tunggu bas dekat 1 jam...
sampai lenguh-lenguh kaki berdiri tunggu bas...
naik lrt berdiri lagi, huhuhuhu....
kalo mcm ni tiap2 hari, tak tau lar boleh tahan ker tak...
sampai umah dah 830pm...
nak masak dah tak larat...
jawabnya...I ask my hubby to tapau food for me...
jln jam...
aku tunggu bas dekat 1 jam...
sampai lenguh-lenguh kaki berdiri tunggu bas...
naik lrt berdiri lagi, huhuhuhu....
kalo mcm ni tiap2 hari, tak tau lar boleh tahan ker tak...
sampai umah dah 830pm...
nak masak dah tak larat...
jawabnya...I ask my hubby to tapau food for me...
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