Random

Some times I wonder, perhaps one should not comment too much. And for the past week, I learnt this through the hard way, twice.

1. So I have this used-to-be close colleague who was divorced and her love life seemed to be not doing well. As a friend, I gave her a simple guy's point of view - Not every man will be able to accept a woman with a child. At first thought, the man will definitely think that the child will be an added responsibility/liability. True, people will say that if one loves you, he/she should accept you for who you are. But face the fact, not many men are that noble.

Those closer colleagues agreed and the truth hit her hard. And yup, she deactivated her Facebook account and things are kind of awkward between us now.

2. After my IPPT, was suggesting to my friends that we can take it together the next round. The intention was  simple - to motivate one another to do well.

Although they may be kidding to say I asked KB along just to feel good. But seriously, for what will I feel good if I do okay and my friend doesn't?

Perhaps, I will just keep my comments to myself in the future.