THE EMPTY HOUSE
Yes it is an empty house. Well it is empty
of people at least. No people have lived here since the last Baldwin left in
2019. The last Baldwin to live there was the Dad. He suffered a stroke in 2019
and moved in to an apartment at the home of his eldest daughter. The Wife, Mother,
Grand Mother and Great Grandma (all the same person) all left us in 2012. Then
the Big Brother of the family left us in 2013. Our youngest Grand Daughter left
just 4 days old in 2008.
So has
the old house been sitting empty? No it sits inside four walls so to speak, but
it is not empty. It is full of memories and perhaps even some Spirits on the
other side? The Father probably feels the loneliness the most. After all he has
lived there longer in that old house than any of the rest of the family has?
So what does he do in his spare time, when
he used to read, write and study? He
does a lot of the same things. He reads, writes, studies. He also likes to
visit, reminisce, dream dreams and look for dead people in his computer.
Looking for dead people is kind of a family joke that is the answer to MANY
Genealogy questions.
The Dad loves to talk and he does so with
anyone who even gives him the slightest open to rattle on about any subject you
would desire! He also assure’s the family he DOES talk with he departed wife.
When he goes around opening closed doors and
windows in the old empty house, he does not know what he will find because most
of the time he does not know what he is looking for?
The family says to keep watch when at the
old house as you will probably always get a hug.
Different thoughts and actions burst in on
you as you enter the different rooms and Dad’s office. The office is a gold
mine for information about the family----and some of it is probably even true?
Imagine most of the toys that were purchased
for the “Seven Littles” have now been passed on and replaced by more and
different ones. Of course you may still find a teddy bear, baby doll, or piggy
bank if you search hard enough in the
“old junk-room or under the old fold up bed.
However I think most “stuff” has been
recycled or replaced or just transferred
to new homes.
The center of attraction in the Old Empty
House, and has been for many years is a sliding rocking chair, in the front
room. I am sure that since I have left, the old “glider has also or soon will”.
I suppose it will be sorted out to some family member, friend, children or that
receiver of all things old, the Garbage Truck.
But when the infamous day comes when the
last old; treasure is gone the Earth will still keep turning; Life will still
keep moving on. I suppose some things with sentimental value will perhaps pass
on to be kept, or perhaps not?
Most of the memories most near and dear to my heart took place at this house. I love you. I love grandma. I love this house ❤️.
ReplyDeleteYes I spent MOST of
Deletemy live there--of course you know that