Changes

   There are a lot of changes going on right now with us. Changes that are hard. And sad.  As more friends and family are starting to question and speculate I figured its time for me to put it out there.  Phil and I are getting a divorce.  Reasons and circumstances surrounding this decision are our own, and I ask that our friends and family respect that. What we both need most right now is love, friendship and prayers.
   And so the changes begin.  I started a job in Orem and will be moving into Utah County next week.  We are still working out child care and if anyone knows a BYU student who would love to nanny please let us know. Luckily my job is mostly from home and so far I am really enjoying it.
   Phil has decided to defer from Marquette's PA program for a year to stay near the boys and will hopefully be able to get into the University of Utah's program next year instead.
   We are hoping for as smooth a transition as possible with the boys. Tonight we are taking the boys to a motocross event in Salt Lake, and I am just hoping neither one takes too much interest in the sport and makes it his hobby. Too many broken bones.
   This is probably the only post I'll make about any of this.  As much as I like to be an open book, I'd rather keep this chapter closed. I am heading out now to spend a day looking for housing :/ not really much fun.  But none of this is.