Showing posts with label giving thanks. Show all posts
Showing posts with label giving thanks. Show all posts

Monday, November 21, 2011

Run, Run as Fast as You Can

I'm running uphill faster than I know how.  Anyone else?  Yes, it is that time of year again...when the world falls in love and moms lose their minds.  (I don't think that last bit made the final cut of the song, but it should have if it was going for truth.) 

Today I made it through getting the kids ready, making the beds, one piano lesson, making lunches, a quick morning pick up, Albertsons, park playgroup, Costco, 2 voice lessons, homework, bathroom cleaning, one bleeding cut on a child's head (no stitches necessary, thank goodness), dinner, children's reading (during which I kinda' sorta' fell asleep...don't tell), family home evening, book before bedtime, one load of laundry, and remaking the bed before I fall into it.  And I didn't get to half the items on my to-do list; one of which was
to compose my "Thankful List" this year.  Please, Lord, give me time to be thankful.

Here's a short version.  This year I am thankful for:
1.  a healthy body that works.
2.  healthy and happy kids.
3.  a solid, supportive, fantastic husband.
4.  a mother who still walks the earth to love me like nobody else.
5.  vision.
6.  a big family that I know I can count on.
7.  QT
8.  great reads.
9.  laughter.
10.  hope.
11.  dear, wonderful, thoughtful friends.
12.  a lovely home.
13.  faith.
14.  randomly kind strangers.
15.  a toddler who is totally entertaining.
16.  a son who is inventive, creative, and curious.
17.  a daughter who is one of my favorite people to be with.
18.  date nights.
19.  a Savior who can work miracles.
20.  the memory of a wise father.
21.  beauty all around me.
22.  dessert.

You know there's more.  But it's bedtime.  I got a lotta' runnin' to do tomorrow.  I'm also thankful there are tomorrows.

Monday, June 27, 2011

Sacrifices Unnamed

photo credit: 21centurywaves.com

In honor of the upcoming Independence Holiday, I am reading Founding Mothers by Cokie Roberts.  While the speeches and sacrifices of many men have been celebrated throughout history, and rightly so, I have been deeply touched by the quiet, overlooked, and deeply personal sacrifices of many women.

Here are a few examples from Founding Mothers:

The boycotts of English goods is well documented, what is not always understood is the day to day trials such boycotts caused, most of which fell to the ladies as they were responsible for the shopping and running of the household.  One example is the boycott of British cloth.  "American women were forced to manufacture their own, another chore added to the already onerous domestic duties of the day...In the Essex Gazette of Salem, Massachusetts, a letter of May 23, 1769 told of the Daughters of Liberty of Newport, Rhode Island, 'serving their country' by spinning from six o'clock in the morning until six o'clock in the evening (39)."

Perhaps it is because I can not imagine adding spinning to my already too long list of chores, but their sacrifice of time and energy truly spoke to me.  As did this:

"...the morning after the Battle of Lexington, about a hundred American soldiers halted in front of the house of Colonel Pond.  Though only Mrs. Pond and a couple of servants were there, they proceeded to feed all those soldiers, with the help of some neighbors who volunteered their cows for milking (43)."

What an overwhelming job that may have seemed, and yet she did it, singularly and without complaint while depleting her own pantry.  Those kinds of personal sacrifices, done alone, nobly performed in the quiet recesses of one's heart and received without pomp and pageantry--the true equivalent to the widow's mite--are sacrifices that speak of greatness.

And what of Mrs. Draper who responded to Washington's call for lead or pewter?  "Mrs. Draper was rich in a large stock of pewter, which she valued as the ornament of her house....Her husband before joining the army had purchased a mould for casting bullets, to supply himself and son with the article of warfare.  Mrs. Draper was not satisfied with merely giving the material required, when she could possibly do more; and her platters, pans and dishes were soon in process of transformation into balls (44)."

This desire to do more and give all was the power behind the revolution.  The cause of liberty was played out on the world's stage, but it began and was supported by the burning in individual hearts.

When it came time to publish the Declaration of Independence, members of Congress were hiding out in Baltimore, each with a price on his head.  There they "turned to a woman for the perilous job of printing the document, with their names attached, for the first time.  The publisher of the Maryland Journal, Mary Katherine Goddard, bravely printed her own name at the bottom of the Declaration, becoming herself a signer of sorts, firmly associating herself with the dangerous cause of the new nation (45)."

Mary Katherine Goddard, Mrs. Draper, Mrs. Pond--names relatively unknown, and yet names symbolically signed through their sacrifices for a cause in which they believed.  They make me want to be better.  They make me ask, what can I do for this country I love?  How will I respond when called upon to stretch and give for something larger than myself? 

How will I sign my name?

Friday, November 26, 2010

Gratitude List 2010

Thanksgiving may be fast becoming one of my favorite holidays.  I love the tradition and simplicity of it: the idea of setting aside a day to recall your blessings.  So here's a partial list this year, in no particular order.

I am grateful for:
1. healthy kiddos, and thus, by correlation, their fingerprints on walls and tables, extra messes, and laundry as well.
2.  an unselfish and thoughtful spouse.
3.  a dog who is super loyal and patient, even though I don't have enough time for her, and I constantly call her a him.
4.  a mother who loves me to the moon and back again.
5.  a curious nature.
6.  good books.
7.  great teachers for my kiddos.
8.  baby talk (from real live babies, never ever from adults).
9.  40 years on this amazing planet.
10.  girl friends who support me and inspire me.
11.  our nation.
12.  our founding fathers.
13.  my ancestors and their many sacrifices.
14.  truth, faith, and everything in between.
15.  my Savior.
16.  a comfortable bed.
17.  saturday morning breakfasts.
18.  Sesame Street.
19.  the moments when my children aren't bickering.
20.  the ease and comfort of living in the 21st century.
21.  siblings who make me laugh.
22.  good neighbors.
23.  blog writers who inspire me.
24.  friends I've never met (that may be YOU).
25.  technology, even though it makes me feel super old.
26.  sunshine.
27.  the Bible and the Book of Mormon.
28.  laughter.
29.  more time to practice being better.
30.  freedom.
31.  education.
32.  compassion.
33.  heavenly guidance.
34.  do-overs.
35.  hugs and kisses from my kiddos.
36.  hugs and kisses from my Mr.
37.  old friends who are still in my life and continue to make it better.
38.  home.

Thursday, October 28, 2010

Wednesday, November 25, 2009

Gratitude List 2009

I've been far away from blogging for a couple of weeks.  Things I've done instead:  cleaned my closet, cleaned out the garage, worked on holiday shopping, cards, and sewing projects, and hung out with my mom.   There is still so much to do.  I'm not sure how much blogging I will be able to accomplish between now and Christmas, but I couldn't let Thanksgiving pass without a post.

For the last two years, I've posted at least a little bit about my gratitude list for the year.  It's been a good tradition for me.  A count your blessings sort of moment, if you will, to remember just how blessed my life is.  I can't break with tradition.  So here goes.

This year I am grateful for:

1.  Big spirits in little bodies.
2.  Revelation.
3.  An unselfish spouse.
4.  Inspired leaders.
5.  Living in the USA.  It is the best place to be a woman anywhere in the world.
6.  Health.
7.  Humor.
8.  The internet.
9.  My DVR.
10.  Good sleep.  No more insomnia!!!
11.  My new Bosch mixer.  Now I can make huge batches of rolls and bread.
12.  Babies.  Particularly mine.
13.  The Gift of the Holy Ghost.
14.  Good teachers.
15.  Living across the street from the park.
16.  Beautiful sunshine almost every day of the year.  It does wonders for my spirits.
17.  Experiencing the miracle of birth.
18.  Being a mother.
19.  Rare moments of quiet.
20.  Sunday dinners.
21.  Amazingly supportive parents.
22.  Great uncles for my kiddos.
23.  The desire to know more and to do better.
24.  The knowledge that God loves me and has a vision for me.
25.  Answered prayers and unanswered prayers.
26.  Washing machines, dishwashers, mixers...now if only someone could invent a bed maker...
27.  Small victories.
28.  Good friends.
29.  Reminders of what is really important.
30.  Eyes that see and ears that hear.

Happy Thanksgiving, and may we all remember to truly give thanks.

Tuesday, November 20, 2007

Gratitude Continued...Again

“Feeling gratitude and not expressing it is like wrapping a present and not giving it.”--William Arthur Ward

12. The last 8 years we spent in Irvine, CA. I grew a lot there and came away with profound relationships that continue to bless and shape me. Truly, I felt we were guided to that good place, and it was a great gift.

13. All good food. Some may eat to live, but I've never understood it.

14. Modern technology that makes life so convenient. I can't comprehend the sheer difficulty of my grandmother's existence.

15. Education. I love learning! If there is a fountain of youth, life-long learning is probably it.

16. My creative nature. I love all things that spark the imagination.

17. That said, I appreciate more than ever those people who possess a totally different skill set because they can do all the stuff I'd be miserable at. Here here to all the accountants, mathematicians, and scientists of the world. I need you!

Monday, November 19, 2007

Gratitude Continued

"The Pilgrims made seven times more graves than huts. No Americans have been more impoverished than these who, nevertheless, set aside a day of thanksgiving."--H. U. Westermayer

Following their tradition, I continue the list of all the good things in my life:

7. My two amazing, beautiful, strong-willed, and smart kids who are the biggest miracles to ever happen to me!

8. Two incredible birthmoms and birthfamilies who love those kids, too.

9. A break in the hot weather. Fall at last is coming to Arizona, and the temperatures are supposed to drop into the 70's. Thank you!

10. All things related to sleep. The more people I meet who struggle with insomnia, the more grateful I am that I can fall asleep almost on cue. The thought of tossing and turning strikes fear into my soul.

11. My six siblings who are some of my favorite people in the world. I'm glad we're related. They make me proud, and they make me laugh, really hard.

More gratitude coming tomorrow.

Sunday, November 18, 2007

My Gratitude List



My first blogging award! Very kind of Madame Queen, don't ya' think? I'll be passing it on in the next few days. But until then...

It seems appropriate this week to jot down some of the things for which I am grateful. I will post just a few items per day until Thanksgiving in honor of the holiday, and besides I am too busy cleaning and cooking to be much more creative than that. So here goes...don't pay attention to the order. They'd all be number one if it were possible.

1. My good spouse who has hung in there with me through thick and thin and somehow found a way to love me the entire way. He is my safe harbor and gives me wings to fly. His pure intent, kindness, and curious mind inspire me.

2. A set of parents who don't know how to be anything but good, honest, and decent. They gave me a Normal Rockwell childhood and a steady diet of unconditional love. I will be forever grateful.

3. A native faith in my Savior Jesus Christ gives meaning, purpose and direction to my life. Any goodness I enjoy flows directly from Him.

4. Baths. I wish I could give whoever invented the tub and indoor plumbing a giant kiss. And I don't care if I live in Arizona. I like my baths hot, hot, hot.

5. Amazing friends who make me better, who brighten my days, and lighten my load. If laughter is the best medicine, and I believe it is, I am well-immunized.

6. A body that is healthy and responsive. I am sorry for those years where I was dissatisfied and looked only to see imperfection in this loyal companion. It has taken me where I've wanted to go and never put up a fuss.

to be continued...and I've saved some good ones for tomorrow!