The beginnings. I had planned this trip over year a year ago. It all started July 2010, I was on a trip to upstate New York with my brother and his family (who was living in Pittsburgh at the time). I have spent a lot of time with his family and kids, I’ve grown quite attached to them. My sister-in-law was pregnant with their 4th kid at the time as well. At this point I think I decided I was leaving DC. I applied for jobs and never heard back from any of my applications. It was horrible. I felt like I was a bad nurse and no one wanted to hire me. So, to me that was my que to leave DC. I thought I could help Cynthia, my sister-in-law, with the kids after their baby was born. When I presented the idea, I was presented with another. Josh following his residency wanted to do a fellowship in Europe but didn’t want to leave his family behind. In addition to that Cynthia did not want to attempt to handle four kids in a foreign place on her own. I was the natural choice for them to ask for assistance because my career status and relationship with their kids. So, from July 2010 I knew what I would be doing July 2011. I figured since I was already in Europe that I would backpack around a bit, and then came the idea of fulfilling a bucket list…a Safari in Africa.
The only part unplanned of the year was the heartbreak which left me with so many questions and even more unsatisfied with myself and what I was doing than I had felt before. I couldn't find happiness professionally and that is a majority of my life. But the question is, will I ever be at peace or always feel incomplete and unfulfilled? So here I sit a day after I originally planned on a plane headed to South Africa on my long awaited Safari. The only thing I can control is what/where I spend my time. Traveling. Running away? Not being left being? Trying to find something?
My plans for 2011 were: move from DC to Pittsburgh over the holidays (2010), work there until April while helping Cynthia with the kids, then find a short term contract somewhere during May, June and July my safari in Africa, and Europe until October with the potential of going to Australia to work for a year. ‘Carpe Diem,’ Ben said. The more I considered the decision to move to Australia to work I realized it would not help me change my dispassion and unhappiness in my current field of expertise. Among a few things I dislike the ICU, and I want to find a way to serve professionally-like humanitarian aid. As much as I looked prior to taking off on this big trip I couldn’t find anything.
At the beginning of my trip I had a few interesting encounters that gave me some ideas and more passion in travel and finding something in which I could use my knowledge to serve. Was the delay of my trip heaven sent? That is to be determined. As inclement of weather I waited in Boise for hours. All flights to Chicago were delayed because the fog in that area. A mother of one of my old schoolmates was also heading to Chicago because my friend just had her second baby. We chatted for a little while. Here I am traveling around the world and all my old schoolmates are married with babies. But I’ve always said I would enjoy life no matter what comes. After three hours, the airlines finally decided to reroute me through LAX to get to DC skipping Chicago. But because of the delay I missed my connection to South Africa from Washington Dulles Airport. On my flight I chatted with the Asian and African American woman sitting next to me. I also overheard another female talking about Africa. Turns out she too was going on a Safari and with the same company I was using. But our trips never overlapped anywhere.
I tried contacting a bunch of friends in DC but only a few responded telling me they were out of town. It was Memorial Weekend and hardly anyone was sticking around that I knew. I was trying to find someone to stay with. My flight to South Africa was changed to the next day at the same time. My friend, Sergio, arranged for me to stay at his place even though he wasn’t there. He is a gem. His roommate, Bryce, borrowed a roommate’s car and picked me up from the airport. I missed the shuttle into town, because I didn’t have the exact changed required. I wasn’t going to give her $20, which was more the double the cost of the ride.
The next day on the way back to Dulles from Rosslyn metro station I was talking to a guy from Saudi Arabia and his family, two girls from Ethiopia and a small family who had also done a lot of service in Africa. The woman encouraged me to contact Salvation Army or Mercy Ships. I had spent countless hours trying to find a clinic or way to serve in a community using my nursing skills without any success. Everyone wants my money as a prerequisite to help. Lame!
After leaving DC I realized it was going to be a long place ride. The plane was incredibly uncomfortable, no personal screens for entertainment, seats and arm chairs broken, toilets and bathrooms out of order. I’ve never had a worse long distance plane flight. The flight attendant encouraged us to complain because she didn’t approve of the conditions of the plane either. South African airlines just changed planes, she had told us, to this rundown and falling apart plane. I was so exhausted and was unable to get a wink sleep. We flew to Senegal to fuel up before continuing to Johannesburg where I changed planes to Cape Town. Now the real adventure begins.
I am probably going to start a different blog for my trips. Blogger only allows so much photo memory to an account and mine is almost full. So other posts about my trip will be in another blog. To be announced
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