Along with the new year comes our wedding anniversary, so each January we have a lot to think about when it comes to evaluating ourselves and planning for the future.
However, neither of us have ever been real gung-ho when it comes to new year's resolutions. Don't get me wrong, we like goals (okay, I LOVE them). But I think the whole "new year's resolutions" thing tends to make people set these huge goals without really planning how to get there. So people get all ambitious for two weeks, then fall apart for two weeks, and then spend 48 weeks wondering what went wrong before doing the same thing all over again. Or maybe that's what I used to do when I was younger. No more, serving a mission totally changed that for me - and for my family.
When pmc where serving missions our church came out with a new manual for missionaries called "Preach My Gospel." We LOVE it - we use it monthly for Family Home Evening. Even though it's for missionaries, it's totally applicable in so many ways to just normal life. Well, there is a whole chapter in there about how to use time wisely, which includes setting and living to reach goals. Along with this new manual came some new missionary planners. I have never seen more simple yet thorough planners (even my old favorite Moleskine) - until December when we were walking through Deseret Book. Some company thought like I did and has produced the "return missionary" planner.
Three weeks in, we're loving them. Mr. Flexible and Mrs. Schedule are now working together much more harmoniously. Mrs. Goals has finally limited herself to one goal at a time and is actually tracking them, while Mr. One-thing-at-a-time is finally allowed to freely work on his desired goal without distraction. Our family is progressing much more efficiently. There is much more peace. We are not nearly so worried about the fact that opposites attracted in our case.
So our family goal this year is to "PROGRESS." Pmc will be working to "strengthen," atec will be working to "find joy," cpc will be working to "discover," and cdc will be working to "step forward." We definitely strayed this year from our one-word-goals, but there was simply no way around it. We are excited to be a little more capable, at the end of 2011, of reflecting on the progress we made. We struggled with that at the end of 2010. Oh well . . . onward and upward!
So, a fresh start for us. As for our blog, we are attempting to give it a fresh start as well. The plan is to have many more short posts by writing in our planners the things we want to blog about, and scheduling it in. My only problem is that as soon as I write down one thing I want to blog about, a whole list comes to mind - and then it seems daunting. So, I better simplify!
Good luck to all in the New Year!