rasa mcm lama sgt tak update blog...macam la ada yg kesah kan haha...serius sibuk maut...tktau nk cerita macammana...
hr ni agak la free skit ada celah utk update blog...what could be a better topic to tell about for a mom who's in her early 30s...ok last 4 words to seems to be inappropriate ~ngehh
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jantung hati ibu & abah |
okayy...cerita pasal harraz dulu...alhamdulillah nampak bnyk la perubahan positif bila dok cakap kt dia masuk 2014 ni dia akan jadi 6 tahun...antaranya, sudah tak minum dalam botol...and this take effect 1 week sebelom new year kot...selalunya dia minum susu sebelom nk tidoq ja...siang sangat jarang minum susu...ekceli things just happen bila dia mintak susu, aku cakap ok nnt ibu buat dalam botol...then dia tiba2 cakap dah nak 6 tahun tkmau minum botol...dah besar...nk minum dalam cup..ok, so buat dalam cup...tp minumnya tk habis pun...and skrg, dah taknak susu langsung...katanya dah besar...naseb baik la tk beli susu dia masa gaji baru ni...nk tggu adik boleh minum nnt komfem expired dulu susu tu...
another thing, aku tk segan nk akui harraz still on diapers tido malam...bukan tk ajar tapi bnyk kekangan nk ajar n train...antaranya sebelom ni auni kecik lagi, so sgtlah letih dgn balik kerja buat itu ini...then nnt tertidoq soheh payah nk terjaga dah letih kan (bunyi mcm alasan)...lg satu, en somi pun selalu balik lambat...kalau balik awai pun kui 830 baru smpai rumah...then kadang lepas tu kuar balik...badminton la...futsal la...study group la...so ended up mcm aku sorang stuck nk fokus train harraz diaper-less dan it's very demotivating...
till recently aku seriously ajak en somi in an indirect conversation yg harraz harus undergo serious diaper-less training at nite sbb dah nk masuk 6 tahun....bila nk mula? nnt dah masuk darjah satu lg haru...and again things just happen, malam tahun baru lepas balik dr rumah mak...harraz mmg sgt letih n sleepy sbb overactive di siang hari...so aku ni igt kesian la nk kejutkan kencing, nk pakaikan pempes...tp dia yg tiba2 insist tkmau dipakaikan pempes...nk kencing dulu sebelum tidoq then no pempes...nnt nk kencing dia bangun kejut ibu katanya...i was like...oh okeyy...u know what? he's dem serious about what he said...turns out dat nite the new mattress yg baru beli a day after krismas survived the nite ~hahahha....aku kejutkan dia dalam kul 12 ++ utk bgn kencing & he co-operates...and since then, he's diaperless bila tido malam...it was like a fingersnap process for me to train him to go diaperless...syukran ya Allah!
i have made it clear to him, routine WILL change once he's 6 years old...i've made a schedule that he MUST follow everyday and so far on the 9th day of January, it went well...
- balik sekolah, sampai rumah around 6 pm...ibu rest for a while sambil tgk drama 30 mins & harraz makan bun or anything / tgk drama dgn ibu / main dgn auni
- 630 pm ibu masak/buat kerja rumah kalau just tapau mkn luar, while harraz can watch cartoons strictly 1 hour only (which is till 730 pm)...cartoon channels are locked after 1 hour
- 730 pm ibu makan sekali dgn auni/harraz then mandi,solat...lepas tu harraz must buat latihan around 30 mins at least sambil dimonitor oleh ibu/abah
- 8 pm / 830 pm baca iqra' utk page yg akan dibaca di sekolah esok & baca buku cerita
- 9 pm main2 dengan adik / main game kt tab, 930 pm dikerah masuk tido utk elakkan drama pagi hari esoknya
all these adalah utk latih dia mendisplinkan diri sebelum masuk darjah satu nnt...dan alhamdulillah despite the age 5 yrs ++ harraz dah boleh diharap and i do noticed for the past 1 month ni he's more manageable...tk payah nk marah2 sgt or keriau2 sgt kt dia...he's a big boy now...it's just kalau nk tunjuk ibu ni serious, i'll start counting "satu........duaaaaa...." then he'll gelabah and do as i said...bukan apa pun..just to promote adrenalin rush ja kadang hihihi
he's helping me with laundry sometimes...sidai or kutip kain...
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muka tk bersalah |
Auni? pheww...dis gurl mmg challenging...she has new attitudes now..one of it is ketuk kepala abang dgn anything that she has in her hand...hasilnya abg long akan menanges berjuraian ayaq mata la...tak pernah lagi lah harraz akan melawan balik or ketuk balik adik dia...abes sgt dia marah mulut saja...tp 98% of the times adalah nanges...the challange dgn auni is, she looks soooooooooooooooooo cute no matter whatever she did!! nk marah pun selalunya terjadi lebih kepada cium2 gomoi dia...tp i hv to control myself takut i send the wrong message to her pulak...nnt dia igt, ooo ok ketuk kepala abang nnt ibu cium ...hahhh naya la abang...
so baru ni, aku tepuk la tgn dia...kalau tkda reaksi, tepuk kaki dia pulak...hah baru laa sentap kan...aku suruh dia pujuk balik abang long...kesian abg long dok lalak nangis...boleh tak, sambil dia lalak nganga mulut luas tu dia pi tepuk2 abang dia pujuk...padahal dia pun tgh nangis...see...paham tak bila aku cakap she's a challange!! nk marah dia agak susah!!! heeeeee~ tapi apa pun auni ttp manja dgn abg long...
vocab ada la yg baru a few yg aku teringat lah...tok...titak (cicak)...birk (bird)...aumm (harimau)...atut (kasut)...paling tk boleh pandang kalau dia cakap mak mak maoo (tkmau) sambil muncung mulut...mmg tangkap kena kiss tubi2 hihihi
kalau org bersiap nk pi mana2...ibu tgh pakai tudung, nnt dia mai kat lemari mekap tu sambil cari2 sesuatu...pastu cakap "atikkkk..." itu sebenarnya tgh cari gelang tgan mutiara yg mak long dia bagi...see kecik2 dah reti nk bersiap ok...jenuh makkkk
she eats almost everything n anything...she's sensitive & manja...kadang tu voice tone abah/en somi terkeras sikit pun dah sentap tangkap lalak ok...so plis, yes...i'm a daddy gurl!
kadang tu kelaku juah tk leh tahan...buat aku tergelak2 ja...
semoga anak-anak ibu dikurniakan kesihatan tubuh badan & akal fikiran oleh Allah dan menjadi anak-anak yg soleh & solehah...aminn