My little Genevieve is three! She is growing up so fast that I sometimes feel like I can't keep up. My beautiful girl was so excited to turn three and have a birthday party this year. Genevieve is a constant source of amusement and frustration in our home. We love her to pieces, but her stubbornness can be maddening. As difficult as she can be, I wouldn't change her if I could. This girl is a blessing and a doll and I feel lucky that we have her in our family.
Genevieve had her well child check on Thursday, September 3, 2015. As I expected, there were no issues or problems. Here are her stats.
Height: 37 3/4 inches, 75th percentile
Weight: 34 pounds, 90th percentile
I feel like this girl is changing by the minute. She is learning so much and things she says or does are replaced by new things before I notice. I've been making a list for the past couple of months of things about Genevieve because I don't want to forget these things. Here is a glimpse of our baby girl at THREE.
At THREE YEARS OLD, Genevieve:
- Wears size 3T or 4T clothes. Some of the 4T stuff is too big, but it works. However, Genevieve wears mostly Audrey's hand-me-downs, and because of this, she mostly has 4T and a few 5T things she has to fit into.
- Wears size 7 1/2 or 8 shoes.
- Wears size 4 diapers, although I moved her to size 5 shortly after her birthday, mainly because she needed something bigger at night. We do plan on potty training her sometime, and she really wants to use the potty, but I haven't had the gumption to do it yet. When she started preschool last year she started using, or trying to use, the potty at preschool. I don't know how successful she was because every time I put her on the toilet at home she didn't do anything. But she tried at preschool all the time and talks about using the toilet.
- Has beautiful dark brown eyes. It looks like she might be our only child with brown eyes like her mama, which is surprising.
- Has gorgeous dark brown hair with lots of red and blonde highlights. She gets lots of compliments on her hair, from people we know and complete strangers. It looks like she might be our only dark headed child, which is also surprising to me.
- Is adorably pretty. People will stop me in the store to tell me how beautiful she is. Lots of grandmas and grandpas also mention that we are going to be in trouble when she's older. She is very pretty and I wish the pictures I took could capture her beauty and impish personality better. There is something irresistible in those eyes and that little mouth that pictures don't do justice, but that are immediately evident in person.
- Loves shoes. The TV was on one day and there was a commercial for a shoe store. They were talking about boots and Genevieve excitedly said, "Boots? I love boots!"
These were taken Tuesday, October 14, 2014. She even loves shoes that belong to other people.
- Goes to preschool and loves it! Whenever I say anything about Genevieve going to school she will always laugh really loudly and say, "No! Not school! Preschool!"
- Loves to dance. She dances at then ends of movies and TV shows during the credits. She dances anytime we listen to music. It's very cute and if someone else is dancing she will try to copy them. One day she said to me, "I love to dance. I love to get trophies."
- Has a favorite song. It's "Shake it Off" by Taylor Swift. Genevieve can recognize this song from just a few notes and will start dancing no matter where she is when she hears it.
- Is a smart little thing. She is especially good with numbers. She can count to 20 and only leaves out 14 or 16 and recognizes numbers up to 12. She seems to pick up on things pretty quickly, maybe because she's got two older siblings to listen to and learn from.
- Does weird little things sometimes. I really don't know if this is related or not, but we took away her pacifiers during the last year. Genevieve did great, but on more than one occasion we would get home from taking Truman to preschool and I'd find her passed out in the car like this.
These pictures were taken on Wednesday, October 29, 2014. I thought it was so funny! Poor little Lego man!
These last two pictures were taken on Wednesday, November 19, 2014. Poor Cinderella.
- LOVES milk! She would drink nothing but milk if I let her. She practically does even with me trying to force water into her. She loves it!
- Holds her cup with her fists when she drinks. She says she does it that way when her hands are dirty. I guess so that she doesn't get her cup dirty? It's kind of strange and I'm always worried she's going to drop her cup.
- Gets so excited about presents and other exciting things. Of all our kids, Genevieve has the best reactions to gifts and other exciting things. She will jump up and down and exclaim and say it's just what she wanted and her favorite thing ever. It is so gratifying to see her reactions.
- Has this sweet way she brushes her hair out of her face. Genevieve's hair fall straight into her face when it's down so I always have to pull it up. It always amazes me that even after it's been up all day, as soon as I take it out it falls back into her face. Even though we keep it up most of the time, sometimes it's down and even when it's up, throughout the day hair will escape the rubber band. So she uses her flat hand to brush the hair out of her face. She kind of wipes it across her face and forehead. It's very sweet.
- Easily climbs out of her crib. Shortly before Rhett was born we moved her out of her crib, but she had been able to climb out of it for ages. In fact, she wouldn't let us put her in it or take her out of it anymore. She had to do it herself. This was fine except when she would climb out at night or during naptime and play or make a big mess..
This was taken on Saturday, November 8, 2014.
On Saturday, November 15, 2014. This time she made a big mess with her books!
- Has her very own nonsense phrase. Do all kids do this? Say something all the time that doesn't mean anything? All of my kids have and my mom said I did too (mine was "feevoo"). Anyway, Genevieve started saying "Hi go," all the time in various situations. Later she added "diamond" to the end so that it became, "Hi go diamond." It drove Audrey and Truman crazy and they would ask what it meant. It cracked all of them up so she kept saying it!
- Went through a pretty long phase where she had an unusual way of saying good bye. I'm not sure when or why it started, but she started saying, "Have a good day, cheese sandwich!", whenever she left a room or said goodbye to someone. I think the first part comes from me because that's what I say to Matt every morning. But the cheese sandwich part is all her.
- Still needs a nap! Every day after lunch I put Genevieve down for a nap. She stays in her room for a couple of hours and then I go get her. Some days Genevieve doesn't take a nap during naptime. She will stay in her room and play and read books and is very good, but won't go to sleep anymore. But she still really needs a nap. On the days she doesn't nap she is very grumpy and grouchy and can be a bit difficult to be around. She will even tell you that she's sleepy!
This picture is from Thursday, July 9, 2015. Genevieve was sick this day and after missing her nap to go and see the doctor, fell asleep in the chair before dinner. Poor baby. She is so sweet and looks so peaceful when she's asleep though!
- Loves to eat "peanuts." Last Christmas (2014) I put a dish of mixed nuts and a dish of pistachios out. Genevieve really liked the pistachios and would ask me to open her "peanuts" for her all the time. Now, all nuts are peanuts and she does like most of them. But I think pistachios are her favorite.
- Has a favorite movie. It's Barbie: Princess and the Pop Star. But Genevieve calls it Princess and the Wop Star.
- Says she loves the Mariners and playing baseball. It's cute how she says it--base-baw." When the big kids were practicing their baseball and softball this year Genevieve wouldn't be left out. She'd get her pink Barbie glove and a plastic softball and have Matt throw to her. She was super cute and really tried to remember how to throw a softball. Unlike the other two, she seems like she'll be teachable.
- Loves Ranch dressing! It's one of her favorite things, along with sour cream. However, it still makes her face turn red wherever it touches her skin.
I snapped this one on Saturday, November 22, 2014, at Truman's soccer party. I looked over, and Genevieve was lapping up the Ranch!
- Calls Truman "Tree-man."
- Has favorite church songs. She loves "Jesus Wants For Me a Sunbeam" (Jesus Wants Me For a Sunbeam) and "Go to the Temple" (I Love to See the Temple).
- Loves going to nursery on Sunday. She calls it "hersery" and looks forward to it. She loves to play with the babies and her friends and do bubbles.
- Says "Can I have a try?" when she wants to taste something you are eating.
- Is a pretty good eater, of the things she likes. Pancakes and scrambled eggs are high on her list of yummy foods. She also likes macaroni and cheese, cheese (American and cheddar), milk, cereal, pretzels, yogurt (only the smooth flavors), biscuits and gravy, and candy. She also likes cheesy rolls and cheese sandwiches (American cheese on bread, sometimes melted). She likes almost no vegetables, although I can get her to eat two or three peas if I force the issue. She particularly does not like green beans or anything green. She will eat applesauce and grapes but no other fruit, and it sometimes takes coercion to get her to eat those. I often say she wouldn't be alive if it weren't for carbs and dairy, especially dairy.
These are from Saturday, January 10, 2015. On Saturdays when we're home, Matt makes his homemade pancakes. These pictures show a typical morning. We had all finished eating and were starting to clear the table. Genevieve started yelling when we tried to clear the leftover pancakes. She grabbed the plate and held onto it while she ate to protect it and keep us from taking it. She can eat an impressive amount of pancakes! When she was finally finished she allowed us to clear the leftovers, although sometimes she finishes all of them!
- Likes to ask me what the colors of stoplights mean. She'll ask me what red means and I'll tell her it means stop. Then she'll ask what yellow means and I'll say it means to slow down and proceed with caution because the light is about to turn red. Then she'll ask what green means. When I tell her that green means go she laugh and say "No it doesn't! Green means race!" I don't know where this came from, but it's become a little game she likes to play. Green always means race.
- Loves her Lamby and cupcake blanket. These are her comfort items.
- Doesn't listen. This is a constant source of pain for Matt and me, and Genevieve too! But the girl has her own agenda and nothing you say, beg, plead, cajole, bribe, or threaten is going to change it. I know this might be a good thing as she gets older, but right now it is maddening.
These are from Thursday, April 2, 2015. Besides being adorable, here is a prime example of something with which Genevieve refuses to comply. When it's time to go somewhere she is supposed to get in the car, get in her carseat, and buckle herself in. This makes it easier for me because then all I have to do is tighten her straps. But will she do this? Nope. Never. On this particular day I came out to the van to find her playing Mommy to the big kids. She was even telling them to be quiet. Very cute, but very naughty.
- Calls Jello "Jell."
- Likes to play with Lalaloopsy dolls. However, she calls them "Lalapoopsy." This used to drive Truman nuts and he would always correct her. But I think it's super cute! Especially since she can't say her "L's" so it sounds like "Wawapoopsy."
- Misses her pacifier. On Wednesday, March 25, 2015, Genevieve lost her last pacifier. Just like the other kids, she handled it very well and still slept and never cried or got upset. But she did miss it. She would talk about her pacifiers and remind me of what happened to them. The purple and pink ones broke (she bit through them) and then the blue one broke. Then she lost the green one because she had it out of her crib. So while she seemed to understand, she did really miss her pacifiers. I actually found the lost one a few days later and just threw it away without her knowing. One day Genevieve found her pacifier clips. I think those were more important to her than the pacifiers were so she started carrying them around. She would smell them and tell us how they smelled good. Then she found a baby doll pacifier and started using that at naps. She'd put the nub in her mouth, drape the ribbon under her nose, and be happy as a clam.
I took these pictures on Saturday, April 4, 2015.
- Is a silly goofball. If she says or does something that makes us laugh she'll remember it and do it or say it over and over again later. She had this joke she told for a long time that we could barely understand, but cracked her up and made us laugh just because it made her laugh. I couldn't really understand the first part, but the punchline went something like, "He said to him mom, 'I want to take a bath!'" This was hysterical to her.
- Will ask Matt to sing her "Whale a Tale" ("A Whale of a Tale"). We have a Disney CD with this song on it and everyone likes it. When Matt's giving her a bath she'll ask him to sing it to her.
- Loves to dress up. Really, really loves to dress up. Genevieve is definitely the girliest of my girls. She talks about the princesses like they are her friends and she loves to wear their dresses. She also loves anything fancy--church clothes, shoes, bracelets, necklaces, sparkly shirts, socks with butterflies on them, bows, etc. But she does love the princesses!
These were taken on Tuesday, April 14, 2015. These are a perfect example of her love to dress up and act goofy. She did something and smacked her forehead. The kids laughed so she kept doing it.
This is from Saturday, August 1, 2015. Our little Elsa is so pretty! Unlike Audrey, Genevieve likes you to call her the name of princess she is dressed up as. She will even correct you and say, "I'm not Genevieve, I'm Elsa!"
- Loves BYU. I don't think she has an understanding of what BYU really is, especially since she mainly just sees Matt watching sports on TV. But she still likes it. She now calls it "B bye U" and the other day she told me "B bye U is on TV."
- Will cry and get her feelings hurt if she is yelled at or told she's naughty or thinks someone is being harsh with her. In this way, she is really very sensitive.
- Thinks you are silly if she tells you she loves you and you don't say "I love you too" back to her. If she says "Mommy, I love you" and I reply "I love you Genevieve," she'll go, "No! You're supposed to say 'I love you toooo!'" You really can't argue with that.
- Is a champion fit thrower. The girl is the queen of tantrums. Anytime. Anywhere. For any reason. And there is absolutely nothing you can do but ride it out. Once she's done, she's a dream. But nothing you do will ever get her to rethink her current course.
This picture was taken on Friday, May 1, 2015, at Audrey's Lego Night at school. She got mad over something, that none of us knew or understood, and flopped down right in the middle of the cafegymatorium. It's a small school and we know a lot of people so we just left her there. She was in sight so I thought it better than to fight her on it. Eventually she got tired and came back to play with our family.
- Got on a kick where every Sunday she would ask Matt to draw her Mad Cat over and over and over again. I'm not exactly sure how it started. I think Matt drew a cat one Sunday and it looked mad to her. So she started asking him to draw it and Mad Cat was born. She'll say "Draw Mad Cat!" If Matt doesn't do it then all kinds of ruckus breaks loose. We have spiral notebooks filled with pictures of Mad Cat.
- Has decided that she doesn't like boys. She likes to listen to girl music and doesn't want anything to do with boy dolls or characters. She tells me she only likes the girls. The other day we read a book that had a pink bear in it. She told me she had a pink bear and went to her toy box and pulled out my old Cheer Bear. I explained to her that Cheer Bear was mine when I was a little girl and I really loved him. She asked me if it was a boy or girl and when I answered that he is a boy, she said, "No boy stuff in my room. He has to go in Truman's room." Then she took my poor bear and dumped him onto Truman's floor. I rescued him and put him back in the toy box, but the girl is serious! Luckily she loves her dad and brothers.
- Thinks her name is sometimes Genevieve and sometimes Evie. One day I called her Evie and she told me it wasn't her name. I explained that her name is Genevieve, but that we call her Evie for short. In her little two year old mind that translated to mean that when she is wearing shorts, her name is Evie, but when she is wearing long pants, her name is Genevieve. It's very funny to see her look down after you address her and hear her say, "My name is not Genevieve. My name is Evie." If you ask her why she'll explain the whole thing to you.
- Fiercely loves her baby brother. She smothers him in kisses, wants to know where he is if she doesn't see him, and talks and sings to him. It is so sweet to see how much she cares for this little brother of hers.
Thursday, June 4, 2015.
Sunday, July 12, 2015.
- Is obsessed with the computer. She is always sitting at it, looking at whatever happens to be on the screen, and pushing buttons and keys. It drives me nuts! Sometimes when I remind her that she isn't supposed to touch the computer she'll say things like, "I have to do my email!"
- Calls washrags, "ash rags."
- Loves her big sister Audrey. Genevieve went through a stage where she would wake up before Audrey in the morning and climb out of her crib and climb into bed with Audrey. It was adorable to walk into their room in the morning and see Genevieve lying next to her big sister. Sometimes Audrey would still be asleep and sometimes she would be awake and they would be talking. Genevieve really does love Audrey and really does look up to her. Now that she is in a toddler bed, Genevieve won't go to sleep until Audrey is in the room. She will sit up and read books until Audrey comes in.
- Knows she is big, but doesn't mind being little when it suits her. If there is something she doesn't want to do she will say, "But I'm little!" She also likes to sit in Rhett's carseat and has tried relaxing in his bouncer and swing.
Wednesday, June 10, 2015.
- Has a sweet little voice. Of all my children her voice comes the closest to a squeaky little girl voice. All of my kids have pretty low voices but Genevieve's is a bit higher. It sounds very sweet when she talks.
- Has lots of energy and runs and bounces all over the place. She kind of reminds me of Tigger.
- Loves, loves, loves Frozen and Anna and Elsa. Her Anna and Elsa dolls are her babies and she plays with them and carries them around. She loves all things Frozen, except the boys, and gets so excited whenever she sees her beloved princesses.
- Loves books! She loves to read and be read to. As always, this makes me so happy! Lately she is into Pinkalicious, Fancy Nancy, Maisy books, her Princess and the Popstar book (Barbie), and her Disney Princess Look and Find books. She likes just about everything though.
Here she is reading Rhett a cookbook on Tuesday, September 22, 2015.
Sunday, August 9, 2015, I saw her baby Elsa like this. I asked Genevieve what was happening and she said Elsa wanted to read a book. So cute!
- Loves to play with baby dolls! Genevieve really likes to play with dolls and animals. She talks to them, carries them around, feeds them, puts them to bed, and talks to me about them. It's very cute and very sweet and she takes good care of her babies.
- When she puts her babies to bed she'll tell me, "Shhh. My babies are sleeping."
- Knows her full name. Knows Audrey's and Truman's too. She says Matt's name is "Daddy Matt Ho-wee-yoke" (she always says Holyoak that way) and mine is "Mommy Blonde Holyoak." She used to say Rhett's name was "Rhett Rhettini Holyoak" but now she says it is "Rhett Harris-tini Holyoak."
- Gets mad when Truman tells her her dolls aren't babies. She always refers to them as babies, but Truman is a literal kid and will correct her and say they aren't babies. She gets so mad at him.
Matt swaddled up Anna and Elsa for her and she loved it! Wednesday, August 5, 2015.
- Has two favorite colors--pink and purple. Big surprise.
- Likes to do hair. She will sit behind me when we're reading scriptures or when I'm on the computer and brush and put clips in my hair.
- Is very loud for a person with such a sweet little voice. Sometimes I tell Matt that she's our own little Dora. She just screams everything. Maybe it's because she is competing with the big kids and trying to be heard. Or maybe it's because her voice is a little smaller than the others. But she is loud, loud, loud. She will get in Rhett's face and just scream, "I love you baby! You are cute!" She isn't trying to be mean, but it is so loud!
- Talks to Rhett through clenched teeth just like Audrey used to do with Truman. She does it when she's telling him how cute he is and how much she loves him. Just like Audrey.
- Loves princesses! Genevieve loves to play with her princesses. I love that she loves this. Every day she'll ask, "Can I play princesses?" I'll tell her she can and she'll get out her Little People castle, celebration (garden tea party), Ariel's grotto, and all the vehicles to transport them from the box in the hall to the living room. She'll sit and play them by herself for a long time. It's so cute to hear her talking to them and making up stories.
Thursday, July 2, 2015.
Wednesday, August 12, 2015.
- Because she loves to play princesses so much, she takes to heart the things they say. Her little castle talks when you put the princesses in certain spots. Several of the princesses talk about dreams coming true. Genevieve has incorporated this into her prayers. She'll say, "Bless our dreams come true", or "Bless us to have dreams." It's very sweet.
- Went through a phase where she had to say her prayers by herself. We'd always end up prompting her, but she would get mad at us.
- Also went through a phase, around the end of 2014 and beginning of 2015, where she had to say every prayer. She would get very mad and pout if anyone else said a prayer.
- Started praying for Matt's mom last fall when she got sick and never stopped. She still says, "Bless Grammy and bless her doctors," in every prayer she says. When my dad broke his arm she added in, "Bless Grandpa's arm to feel better."
- Has started liking to color. It's very cute to see the sweet little drawings she makes and the pretty pictures she colors. She got a Sophia Color Wonder book for Easter and she likes that one a lot. She'll say, "Can I color Sophia?" Most of the time she colors everything purple.
Wednesday, August 12, 2015.
Genevieve is our little firecracker girl. She is the child who stretches us and challenges us the most as parents. Often, Matt and I just look at each other with resignation on our faces when it comes to Genevieve because we truly don't know what to do with this girl. But we love her more than anything. She is the sweetest little girl and is loving and caring. She will give you hugs and kisses and tell you she loves you for no reason at all. And when she looks up at you with those big brown eyes, it's impossible to be frustrated with her.
Our Genevieve certainly has a mind of her own and an iron will. She also has a tender heart and loving soul. We are so glad to have this sweet girl in our family. I count her as a blessing every day and can't imagine what we would do without her. We love her so much!