It is funny how a pregnancy can bring on so many new experiences! Some of which being totally unexpected. It was a shock to me when 3 weeks ago I had a little spotting (it was barely anything really) but I thought I should call the doctor's office just to be safe since we were planning to move the next week. They told me they wanted me to get a stat ultrasound just to make sure that everything was okay. I was fine with that but I kind of waited around for them to tell me to come in all day & then rushed over to the Ahwatukee office when they wanted me to go. It was so fun to see the baby move around on the big flat screen they had & to see that "He/She" had arms & legs and what seemed to be everything that should be there. But they also found that I had a hemorrhage next to my uterus as well:( The doctor wasn't my normal one but he was super nice and told me that it was a pretty common occurrence which made me feel good & that it was really small. But then he said I couldn't lift or exercise, etc & that I had to put my feet up more for the next 2 weeks or it could make me bleed more & I could lose our little person!
Yeah it wasn't the best news since I was packing & leaving for Cali in 1 week. I am kind of a busy body and to lay around when I feel fine was torture, especially when I had to watch everyone else go through my junk and pack everything up for me & unpack everything for me. I did rest because of course I wanted our baby to be okay but I think it was one of the least fun things I have had to go thru in my life. I much rather do things myself or help someone else do it then to have someone do it for me:)
We went to the doctor today (who I don't like & I need to find another one) and he said that everything looks better and that with one more week (which will make it 1 month since they found it) I can pick things back up again! Hurray:) I can't wait to do at least a little cardio & get back into the swing of things since my original dream was to be Mrs. Fit Mom during my pregnancy. Oh well! Life happens & I have learned to be alittle more easy going & maybe that is what I need to continue to learn throughout this pregnancy! At least I am feeling fine, my baby is healthy, I am not sick the entire time & I am not on bedrest. I know I have so much to be grateful for & I know so many women who are complete troopers and go through so much to bring their sweet babies into this life. I am so grateful for all the help that was rendered my family members & the new members of our ward here. Everyone has been so loving & helpful in our move, I don't know how we could have made this move without everyone's support! So thanks again to family & friends, we miss you all so much.
Here is a little pic of our babe a few weeks ago, it's the typical "Alien baby"shot, but I still love it & love being able to almost see it's little face & hands.
It's crazy how much I already love this little guy/girl:)
It's crazy how much I already love this little guy/girl:)
7 comments:
I totally understand being frustrated with not being able to do everything you want to for the baby's sake. I got put on bedrest the final month of my last pregnancy, and it was so hard. My mother basically had to take over my home and do everything that I used to do, including bedtime with me daughter :( I was so happy to be done with it that I didn't even wait to heal from childbirth before I was up and going again. Whatever happens, it's good to keep that little one safe. Good luck!
I am glad everything turned out. I was wondering how you were dong. You guys left while I was out of town, so never sad good bye. Can't wait to see your little belly next time you are in town!!
I'm so glad everything is coming together. I totally understand what you mean about wanting to be Mrs. Fit-Mom... ha ha! That's why I'm working on it now... not doing so great, but working on it. I can't wait to see more of your place and how everything is going. When does Craig start classes? I miss you oh-so-much too. Seriously. It's amazing how different it is w/ everyone moving. I may have cried a little last night just thinking about it. Oh well... love you girlie!
Good thing you had lots of helpers! Anything to keep that babe safe though! Good luck getting settled there in Cali!
Glad everything is ok. Take it easy!
Congratulations!!! So glad that everyone is healthy and ok and that you had lots of help. Best of luck there in California!
Oh, Melissa, you have had your first "real" mother experience. The baby comes first and then you and then your husband. It took me a long hard time to finally accept this. I hope your transission is easier. It is supposed to be that way, but I was stubborn and didn't want to change. I wanted things to just be the way they were...be busy, work out, play, sleep...all on my terms. I am happy to say that I have come full circle now. I don't have any babies, except my 11 yr. old. hehe Good luck.
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