Saturday, December 29, 2007

Wee Granny


Today we went for a walk as a family. It was snowy and slushy, not a very pleasant walk. Towards the end of the walk Daniel was walking with me, holding my hand. He was growing tired, and his feet were starting to drag. He kept repeating, “I’m tired Mama, I am really tired.” I told him that even when we are tired we have to keep putting one foot in front of the other, that is the only way to make it home. We continued home, and a lesson was learned. Not by Daniel - but by me. One foot in front of the other . . .

The picture above is of a woman named Mary Murdoch (Wee Granny - her story below). She put one foot in front of the other. My family owes our faith to her, and others. We are her descendants. I am sure she had no idea that in years to come, her posterity would benefit from her courage and faith. She was a pioneer who died before she ever reached Zion, but her final words were, “Tell John (her son) I died with my face towards Zion.” She must have known by going on the journey her chances of survival were slim, but that did not stop her from pressing forward. She wanted to be found faithful in every footstep. If she were to die, she wanted to die on her way to Zion. I hope that I can follow in her footsteps of faith. I want to be found with my face towards Zion in the end of all things. I can sometimes feel the strength of Mary Murdoch, our Wee Granny, when times get tough. I can imagine her cheering for me, saying, “One foot forward Mari, one foot forward.”

The rest is a touch lengthy, but it is a good story . . .

A Portion of a talk given by Brian C. Schmidt at BYU-Idaho:

Sister Virginia Pearce has said:

Most of our lives are not a string of dramatic moments that call for immediate heroism and courage. Most of our lives, rather, consist of daily routines, even monotonous tasks, that wear us down and leave us vulnerable to discouragement . . . This week-after-week walking forward is no small accomplishment. The pioneer steadiness, the plain, old, hard work of it all, their willingness to move inch by inch, step by step toward the promised land inspires me as much as their more obvious acts of courage. It is so difficult to keep believing that we are making progress when we are moving at such a pace-to keep believing in the future when the mileage of the day is so minuscule.

President Howard W. Hunter said, "True greatness ... always requires regular, consistent, small, and sometimes ordinary and mundane steps over a long period of time."

In our world of instant gratification it is sometimes difficult to understand the perseverance required to act in faith. We might think we can take one step in the dark and our prayers will be answered. While it is occasionally the case, I have found more often, that the first step usually opens the way for the next.

As you take those steps towards your future, please remember the legacy of the pioneers to act in faith-day after day, step after step.

Pioneer saints also turned to the Lord. Mary Murray Murdoch, who died on the plains of Nebraska, is just one of thousands examples of pioneer saints who overcame their sufferings through faith in Jesus Christ.

Mary Murdoch was known as "Wee Granny" to her descendents because of her small size; she was -4 feet-7 inches tall and weighed about 90 pounds. A widow, she lost her husband to a mining accident but continued to run the home and raised six of her eight children to maturity in her home in Scotland.

At the age of 67 she joined the church along with four of her children (some of whom were married at that time). In 1852 her son John, his wife, and their two children immigrated to Utah. Four years later he sent for his mother. She loved the gospel and had a deep desire to be with her son and the saints in Zion.

Wee Granny was almost seventy-four years old when she started the 6,000 mile journey to Salt Lake. In the company of the James Steel family she sailed from Liverpool, England to New York. From there they rode a train to the Midwest where the saints were assembling companies to go to Salt Lake. Because oxen and wagons were very expensive church leaders were organizing saints into handcart companies. It was argued that pushing these carts could actually be faster than driving the wagons with slow plodding oxen.

Wee Granny and the Steel Family that accompanied her were assigned to the Martin Handcart Company whose departure was delayed until the end of July. They averaged 13 miles a day pulling their carts over the hills and gullies of the trail. Unfortunately the hastily constructed carts began to break down. Other problems plagued the company. Food was rationed and some immigrants were forced to drink from puddles due to a shortage of water. In the midst of these difficulties Wee Granny walked every mile.

As the company pushed across central Nebraska, the increasing windy and harsh environment began to take its toll on Wee Granny. She trudged as far as she could, but eventually her body gave out near of Chimney Rock, the half way mark of the journey. On October 2, 1856 she died of fatigue and exposure and was buried in a shallow grave on the side of the trail.

Just before her passing, she requested her friends who gathered round her to "Tell John I died with my face towards Zion."
Why was it so important that her son John know that she was facing Zion at her death? For me this sentence symbolizes so much.

In her 74th year and frail condition Wee Granny probably knew the chances of surviving the journey to the Salt Lake Valley were slim. But that earthly destination was not as important as her eternal goal. She was facing Zion. She was turned towards the Lord, Jesus Christ.

She wanted her posterity to know that in spite of the difficulties of the journey she still believed. What really mattered was her faith in Jesus Christ. She trusted in Him and in his will and in the wisdom of His timing. (End of Talk)

I really enjoyed reading that talk about our Wee Granny. I have been told stories of her faith before, and I never tire of hearing about her. She was just one woman, a woman of great faith. Her legacy continues to this day, and her story continues to be told.

One foot in front of the other - that is what it will take to create a legacy of faith. Perhaps we could even attempt a joyful bounce in our step!!

"Onward, ever onward, as we glory in His name; Forward pressing forward as a triumph song we sing. God our strength will be; press forward ever, called to serve our King!" Hymn 249

Lots of love,
Mari

Thursday, December 27, 2007

Wednesday, December 26, 2007

Happy Will



William enjoyed Christmas too!

Nerf Dart Fun

Here is how we spent the later part of our Christmas. Sam and Dan both got Nerf suction dart shooters for Christmas. Believe it or not - it was way too much fun! We found plenty of targets, and the kids came up with this idea, which worked really great. We even have glow in the dark darts - they are cool! Thanks Santa for such a fun gift! ;-) Guess what the number one target is...?

The Target

Just so you know, this was Daniel's idea - not mine! The kids took turns being the target, they loved it!

Tuesday, December 25, 2007

Merry Christmas!





We had a great Christmas . . . I will write more about it another day!

Lots of love!

Mari

Christmas pics






Christmas Fun






Christmas Game Playing




As many of you know, I am not a huge fan of strategy games. Well, I have changed my mind. As I was watching Charles teach Daniel how to play Lionheart, I was paying attention, I gave it a try, and I LOVE it! It is actually really fun! I even gave the game Risk a try. I lost horribly, but it was fun. We have played game after game together as a family, the kids love it. Anyway, that is what the pictures are . . . fun times!

Sunday, December 23, 2007

A Magical Christmas Moment





Last night we went to see Santa. We were lucky, all we had to do was walk out our front door and two houses down, he was there, just waiting for visitors! It was a beautiful night. The snow was gently falling and Christmas was in the air. We bundled everyone up and off we went to have a chat with the big man himself. He was so happy to have visitors. He hands out big candy canes, bags of animal crackers, and you get to pick out a toy - for free! We will be making Santa a thank you note and some cookies. He is such a generous person. It was such a fun thing to do!

Tuesday, December 18, 2007

Kooky Kids






Here are just a few examples of silly things that the kiddos have said lately ...

1. Sammi was praying the other day and said, "Please bless grandma and grandpa to have a good Christmas even though they are in a hot climate."

2. Another prayer by Sammi, "Please bless that Kary and Ray will be safe from the wolves in their cabin in the woods." Apparently, she thinks their home is in the middle of the deep dark woods in Alaska! ;-)

3. Daniel was saying something that I did not approve of, I asked him, "Where did you hear that?" (classic mother line) he replied with, "I heard it in Japan!" Yes, he was being a smarty-pants, and I was holding back laughter. Where did he learn about Japan???

4. Loud and enthusiastic singing: "Two turtle dumbs, and a partridge in a bear tree!"

5. Daniel's latest thing is growling with his voice. I am not sure how to explain it. He gets SO excited about things and he gets a loud (very loud) and excited sound in his voice. His favorite thing to say is, "WHOA MY GOODNESS!!! and, "THAT"S AWESOME!" When he says it, his whole body is involved - as if he is scoring a touchdown. It cracks me up (most times).

6. This morning they woke up and we had put a few presents under the tree. Daniel stumbled into the room and said, "Is this real? Or am I dreaming?" It was classic. I was glad Charles was still here to hear it. ;-)

There are many more silly quotes. They just crack me up. I find it very difficult to keep a straight face. I see so much of Charles in them, especially in Daniel. I am so glad I married someone with a great sense of humor and the ability to laugh. We are always cracking jokes with each other, and in most situations we are able to find a reason to joke and laugh. Our humor is wearing off on our children (for better or worse) sometimes it is scary to see how unruly we are! However, I would prefer happy, joking children over straight-faced, arms-folded, grumpy ones!! There is a time for reverence and a time for play. Our house (with the exception of perhaps prayer and scripture time) is definitely a play house! If you want serious - do not come here!!

Lots of love!
Mari

Saturday, December 15, 2007


Daniel with Santa

Daniel was very willing to get in line and go talk to Santa. Sammi remained in her seat. It was pretty funny to watch all the kids with Santa - they loved it. He was such a good Santa too! He is our neighbor. ;-) He dresses as Santa and collects canned food for those in need. He was just a great guy, he comes every year. Here is Daniel telling Santa he wants a toy car for Christmas. ;-)

Ward Christmas Party

The ward Chrismas brunch turned out really good. Everyone had a good time. Here are some pictures from the event. They did not turn out the best, my camera is not good at taking pictures in the dark.

The Primary Kids singing . . . that is the whole primary - so small!
Daniel was loving it.
Here is where some of the kids were hiding when Santa came in the room . . . yup, that is Sammi
Here is a picture of the decorations. I cut out hundreds of snowflakes, it was really quite pretty, we also had some nice twinkle lights - it really set the mood.

Thursday, December 13, 2007

Ward Christmas Party

I am getting ready for our ward Christmas party on Saturday. It is going to be a brunch, at 10:00 a.m. Now, this was set in stone, not to be changed - it is tradition! If I could have picked how to do the ward Christmas party, I would have made it in the evening, with lots of desserts being served, rather than breakfast. Oh well, maybe next year! The breakfast is going to be eggs and hash-browns cooked together, and Costco muffins. It should be good. I am going all out with the decorating for it. I have cut out hundreds of snowflakes which will hang from Christmas lights hung across the cultural hall, and all over the place. I love the effect. It will be beautiful! I gathered together about 9 musical numbers, and we are going to have a karaoke machine (with Christmas music) hooked up to a projector on the wall so we can all sing together as a ward (they really loved the karaoke last time). It should be lots of fun. I was going to sing a song, but unfortunately I have a really bad cold (which causes me to cough uncontrollably) I can't stand it! Oh well, I will sing someday! I will take pictures and video and post it after the party! Fun stuff!

Tuesday, December 11, 2007

Favorite Christmas Memories


As I sit by the Christmas tree, it makes me reflect on special years gone by. I have so many wonderful memories of Christmas. I thought I would highlight just a few of them (in no particular order) . . .

1. The Disneyland trip we took with Mom and Dad our first year in Spokane. We drove down the Oregon and California coast, and it was so beautiful. We stayed in great hotels (something I LOVE to do) and we had a blast! Sammi and Daniel were 3 and 1 at the time, and Disneyland was magically decorated for Christmas. I love being with my parents, they know how to have a good time! :-)

2. Our first Christmas in our apartment in Spokane. It was also our first Christmas spent alone as a family. It was so Heavenly. That Christmas was our first live tree, and creating all sorts of traditions that will last through the ages for us. One such tradition is watching the Polar Express on Christmas Eve. We are not aloud to watch it until then. On Christmas eve we watch, drink hot chocolate, and create a magical feeling for all, so we can drift off to dreamland. That year was filled with trains, and every good thing. It was simple, but magic for us.

3. One Christmas night in Anchorage, Alaska, I can remember hearing Santa Claus! You know he lives not too far from there. OK, so it was my older brother in the driveway jingling his keys, trying to trick us. But, I loved it. He also pointed out Rudolf in the sky and said we small children had better go to bed (My brother is 14 years older than me). For some reason, to this day, I still remember that as a highlight of my youth. Now, I do the same thing for my children. ;-)

4. I peeked. Yes, I admit it. Every year I would sneak downstairs in the night to make sure Santa had come. I am so glad I did peek. Those memories for me are priceless. I know that my brother John peeked too. ;-) I also tried to find where the presents were hiding in the house. So, knowing that about myself, and knowing Sammi is more cunning than even I was (she was checking the store receipts that were lying around) we hid the presents at work with Charles. :-)

5. I loved it when my dad would come home from shopping and we were all told to hide our eyes. We would peek (of course) and watch as he would unload garbage bag after garbage bag full of gifts. We all hoped there was one for us!!

6. I just loved Christmas at my parents home. They created an ambiance of Christmas that was so thick - you could literally feel it when you walked into the home. Perhaps it was the eight Christmas trees my mother would set up each year! She was definitely Mrs. Claus when it came to decorating. This year they have a tiny tree and are celebrating Samoan style!

7. Christmas Eve Pajamas - I LOVE them!

8. I have always enjoyed driving around trying to find the best display of Christmas lights. We have found some pretty stellar displays over the years!

9. Spokane was perhaps my favorite place to have Christmas. It was a city made for Christmas. That is where Bing Crosby is from after all! Nestled in amongst all the huge Ponderosa Pines, Spokane was magic! If I could go back there - I would!

10. Charles. I love being with Charles for Christmas. He is like a child. I send him in to pick up one or two more things for the kids, he comes out with ten. He just cannot resist! It is a quality that I love in him. It is a quality that my father has, and I think of him when I go shopping with Charles. Charles was an only child, so being a dad to three children is a dream for him! I am glad to be part of it!

Monday, December 10, 2007

William loves to watch it snow

William was sitting in front of the window just watching the snow fall. He loved it.

Sunday, December 09, 2007

Random Fun

Daniel playing with his friend Isaiah
Our lovely Christmas tree. I wish I could post the way that it smells! Yum!
Here is where Santa will come down on Christmas Eve. We are ready!
Sammi and Daniel frosting homemade sugar cookies, very tasty!
William wishing he could frost cookies too . . . someday!