ASSUME = Making an ASS out of U & ME

I'm exhausted. I don't even have enough time to sleep, let alone time to entertain boliao people.

If you have issues about me, confront me and clarify. Seriously I don't know what's going on. What have I said? It could have been unintentional or an act of oblivion.

Or are you feeling guilty over something?

Don't assume. Assumptions cause misunderstandings and misperceptions. Like how you mistook about the incident at CT's chalet last year. It will probably remain unresolved if we hadn't ironed it out in the first place.

Anyways, you can continue to perceive in your own ways. This is not the first time such friction is happening.

I'm drained. I have other better things to deal with.

Friends Who Read My Mind?

When your friend insists on taking action on something, that you really hope to happen (even though you profusely refuse and try to stop your friend) but have no guts to act on it, then you know you have a good friend who can read your mind/thoughts.

Or perhaps, my friend is just still excited about his new acquisition hence doesn't mind all the hassle.

I choose to believe the former.

I'm lucky to have good friends. Not one, but two such friends, based on last night's incident (which I choose not to elaborate further).

People say, the happenings at the start of a brand new year, will determine how the rest of the year will turn out. From the first day of 2006, I've encountered happy incidents

• I've been (sorta) promoted, with a significant pay increment
• I've been meeting certain person/s whom I've been looking forward to meet.

2006 is a good year for me. I have a good boss. I have a well-paying job. I have good friends.

There's just ONE more wish yet to realise.....

我说。他说。

我問他，你是不是 GAY﹖
..... 他，搖頭了。

我再問，你確定嗎？如果真的是，你可以告訴我。我是很開通的。
..... 他又搖頭說，我真的不是﹗

我問他，那為什麼他們沒聽你說你交過女朋友﹖
..... 我跟他們不常談心事啊﹗我沒跟他們說﹐並不代表我沒有過女朋友。

(过了一会儿.....)

他說，他事業還沒起步，要先以事業為重，暂时不去想其他的。
..... 我，點頭了。

我說，对啊，你是男生，有的是时间，不需着急，先赚钱吧。
..... 他，點頭了。

(饭后.....)

我和他道别了。我转身，步伐微慢。心，有点儿沉重。

Pre-Christmas Syndrome Part 1

Damn! Why are SO many of my friends going away this Christmas? One is going to Vietnam, another to Hong Kong, another to Bangkok, another to Taiwan, another to China, and the list goes on...

Damn damn damn damn damn......

In the past, I used to be over-booked, having to rush from one venue to another, meeting different groups of people.

This year, looks like it's gonna be a QUIET Christmas.

I hate it. Christmas is my favourite festive season! I CANNOT stay at home! I repeat... I CANNOT STAY AT HOME!

This Rush...

I cannot contain my excitement. About tonight. Not because I’m going to the Gala Premiere of Harry Potter and The Goblet of Fire.

In fact, I’ve been feeling excited the past week. Some events have made me look forward to attending them. I can’t say in details. For there are certain few individuals who may read this blog and who will know what I’m talking about. They can’t know..... as yet.

It’s been a while since I felt this rush of thrill. I simply have to get it out... somewhere... somehow...

And hence this post.

穿什么好？

明晚就是新加坡金曲奖了。我还没想好要穿什么！救命啊！

:"(

Phobia...

Steff said I have commitment phobia... I think think think think think... I think it's kinda true...

我憧憬，但不渴望。

Guilty Of Not Blogging

I'm guilty. Guilty of being too lazy to update my blog regularly. And letting those, who constantly check out this site, down.

What's the real deal with blogging anyway? Why do people blog? To inform others about your everyday life? Even to strangers? Why would random bloggers who chance upon your site be interested to know?

My command of English is not superb. I'm not funny with words. I don't have that exciting a life. I don't have freebies to giveaway online. What reason/s do I have, to blog?

I'm becoming cynical.

男人 vs 女人﹖

畢業旅行那年﹐我們一夥人去了香港和台灣。就在台北﹐我們正乘坐在小巴裡﹐朋友甲(女)突然冒出這樣一道問題﹕

“如果有來世﹐你們想做男人還是女人﹖”

大夥楞住了五秒。之後﹐就捧腹大笑起來。有些乘客也拋了異樣的眼光過來。

朋友乙(男)回答說﹕“除非我會是個大美女﹐否則我還是選擇做回男人。我承認﹐我們男人是屬於視覺系的﹐特別是在女生這方面。一個丑的女生﹐不管她人再怎麼好﹐男生還是不會心動。但是一個丑的男生﹐還是可以憑他的真誠和毅力﹐取得佳人芳心。”

贊﹗

DK & Visor

A Little Something To Think About -- Why is Dasmond Koh ALWAYS wearing a visor everytime I see him?!?!

LKY's Tears

August 09, 1965 -- The day when Singapore gained independence. We broke away from Malaysia and became a Republican island. Kudos to Mr Lee Kuan Yew for his magical foresight.

But, why did Mr K.Y. Lee cry that fateful day? Were they tears of joy... or tears of sadness?

Discoveries made in Batam

April 09, 2005 (Saturday, Sunny) -- Was in Batam today for 7 hours. It almost didn't feel like I was away in another country! The ferry ride was under an hour!

3 things I discovered during my short stay there:

1. Batam is able to receive ONE and only one Singapore radio station... and believe it or not... it's Dong Li 88.3! Loud and clear! Boy, am I impressed or what?!
2. The local housing structures reminded me of Lego - colourful! Very cartoony. Cute!
3. Batam Mall, the supposedly largest shopping mall, is smaller than Mustafa Centre!

What would life of a shopaholic like me be if I were to stay there long-term?