Showing posts with label memories. Show all posts
Showing posts with label memories. Show all posts

Saturday, January 17, 2015

45 Years Later

Cheryl and Diane

Diane and Cheryl

I remember the top picture hanging in our home, straight ahead as you walked in our front door. It's an 11 X 14, and seemed like a very large picture to me. My mom noted on the back that it's either 1960 or 1961 (another reminder to label photos).  In 1960 Cheryl was barely one year old at the beginning of the year, but turned two in December. I would guess the date should be sometime in 1961. I'll have to compare it to other photos taken around that same time.

In the top photo we are wearing dresses that Mom made. Cheryl's was a very pale pink, and mine was orange--about the same color orange that those candy hearts with sayings like "Be Mine" are. They are probably Easter dresses, which further convinces me it's more likely 1961.  My mom curled my hair. I remember pin curls all over my head. It was the only way to get my straight hair to have any curl at all. One time I remarked to Mom that it must have taken a long time to put all those pin curls in both my hair and Cheryl's hair. She just looked at me and said, "hers is all natural curl.I didn't have to do a thing with it."

Flash forward 45 years. The bottom photo is one taken at my daughter Debra's wedding in 2006. Oh my, we have a good time together! 

Thursday, February 14, 2013

Happy Anniversary and Happy Valentines Day

Today is our 33rd wedding anniversary. I'm going to indulge myself and post a few pictures from over the years. And a couple from last year.

We started dating in 1975, got married in 1980, and we're still happiest in each other's company now in 2013. I'm the luckiest girl in the world.
 
1975
1978
Our wedding day. February 14, 1980
1983
1991
mid 1990's

1997
2006
2007
2012

Our whole family, 2012

Ray and Diane and the grands. (AKA the circus)

2012
Sweethearts forever. What more could a girl want?

Monday, December 31, 2012

2012, All Wrapped Up and Tied in a Bow

I tried to think of all the highlights of this year, and I know for a fact I've left out some major ones. So let's just say here are a few highlights of 2012:

4 vacations--Hawaii in March, Southern Utah in June, Seattle in September, and Jackson in October.

It is always best to travel with and go to visit the ones you love in your life.





5 new release movies--7 if you count seeing Hunger Games twice and seeing Les Mis twice (yes, already)

Favorite movie of the year


7 quilts/quilting projects completed--a few more started but not finished yet.

Favorite Quilting


Most work put into, happy with the results


Favorite quilt of the year


17 Baby books/scrapbooks scanned, merged, and published into 7 volumes--two more to publish.

Winner of most valued project of the year (and best kept secret for months)
Only possible because of Audrey's tutelage

I scanned 17 books the size of the two on the right.

49 books read--not a record, but still a lot of books

So many books, so little time
Here are two of my favorite first time reads of this year


Saturday, September 8, 2012

The Beloved Buick

When I was a kid we had a 1965 Buick Sportwagon. Oh, how my mother loved that car. She swore she would never get rid of it. We had that car for a long time. I remember many a cross-country trip taken in it. My mom cried the day my dad turned it in for a newer car. (We kids rejoiced.)

The other day Ray and I were driving and I saw this car: 
It was an Oldsmobile Vista Cruiser, not the Buick Sportwagon, but looks so much like the Buick I thought it was one at first. I was very excited. Those windows on the top were a dead giveaway. Our car was beige, like the one below and had a red interior. It had front and back seatbelts that were dutifully stashed under the seat. After all, if they were out they just got in the way. 
I don't think I've seen a car like that since 1975. It was great to see one again. It brought back a lot of great memories.

Wednesday, July 11, 2012

A Few Reflections on the 80's

Thank heavens my memories of the 80's are what they are: mostly having babies and the early years of raising my children. There is a blessed fog about much of the rest of the 80's.

A couple of weeks ago I found the Game Show Network showing on my TV downstairs. I grew up watching game shows. I love them, and have watched way too many of them over the years. I even was on a game show in the early 80's (I wrote about it here). I can't stand watching the games live now--the commercials are so terrible--so I recorded a few episodes to watch while I'm on the treadmill.

All the episodes I've seen were originally recorded in the 80's. Mostly I've watched $25,000 Pyramid, and a few episodes of Password. They are still somewhat intellectually stimulating, but mostly I've been fascinated by observations about other features of the shows--mostly what is revealed about that particular decade. Thirty years later, here's what I think:

  • Fashion.  The 70's bring back fun memories and the 90's make me cringe a little, but the 80's were hideous. Everything was big. The hair was big. The shoulders were big. The collars were big. The ties were enormous. The fabric was all big prints. I'll sum it up this way: nothing was flattering. I remember my dad saying, "the ugly look is in." He was right.
  • Television. What we thought were icons (both actors and shows) have disappeared into oblivion. No one now remembers or references almost anything from that decade. Much like the fashion of the day, that is perhaps a good thing.
  • Jokes. Wow. No one was worried about being politically correct. And no one was safe from being made fun of. I must admit to laughing out loud all by myself at some of the jokes. Too bad we've become so careful. It was just innocent humor, nothing more. 
  • Music. We won't even go there.
Definitely the best things to come out of the 80's were my children. 

Wednesday, May 23, 2012

Sisters 2012 - the Next Generation

My favorite weekend of the year just happened. Sisters weekend for my three daughters and me. It went by much too fast!
Audrey, Diane, Beth, Debra
We gathered from our various corners of the earth (Wendover, Provo, and Seattle) at my house on Thursday night. We stopped on the way home and picked up Cafe Rio for dinner. Mm-mm, delicious!  Then we opened our Sisters Gifts. Traditionally we each bring the same gift for each member of the group. 
Here's the loot for this year: 2012 Caldecott winner A Ball for Daisy by Chris Raschka, 2012 Newbery winner Dead End in Norvelt by Jack Gantos,  Baby Lit Little Miss Austen Pride & Prejudice, Trader Joe's Kitchen Cloth, gift wrap for all seasons--brown paper, twine, and various tags and ribbons, and home made liquid Dove soap. So fun! Oh, and a little zippy strippy bag I made for the girls.

Our gifts
Friday morning Debra had a doctor's appointment bright and early then we had breakfast at the Corner Bakery Cafe. Their hot chocolate is to die for, and breakfast in general was delicious. It was hard to choose what we wanted - everything sounded (and was) so good. 


After breakfast it was home to do projects (photos, sewing, crafts), watch movies (see below), eat favorite foods (french dip sandwiches, hot cheese canapes, Sopa de Lima) and best of all be together. Saturday was more of the same. Sunday we emerged from our cave to go to church. 
Just looking at this picture makes me want to sit and watch it all again right now. Maggie Smith makes me laugh. And I just want to slap Thomas and O'Brian.
 The Happiest Millionaire is an old family favorite of ours. The kids know all the songs, most of the lines, and several dances. It's always fun to see it again.

Beth and Debra had not seen The Help yet, and Beth just finished reading it. What an outstanding movie (and book).
The babies (Andrew and Jonathan) were so easy we hardly even knew they were there.

Andrew. This is about as much trouble as he caused all weekend. None.
This is what we all felt like at the end of the weekend.
Beth broke up the party and left first--Sunday night. She had to be at work Monday morning. Debra left at the crack of dawn Monday morning and Audrey left Monday evening. I was left all alone, missing my girls. 

Thursday, April 19, 2012

Big Girl Books

My mother was a librarian. What a blessing for a child who could never get enough of books. Although I'm sure she was a strong influence in my love of reading, there was no guarantee I would catch the vision just because she was a librarian.

We went to the library regularly and always came home with an armful of books. I distinctly remember the day she said to me, "I think you're ready for the next level of books." She led me to the juvenile fiction area and helped me select a few books. I felt like I'd made the big time!

Then I remember the day she walked over to the shelf with Amelia Elizabeth Walden's books and pulled down To Catch A Spy. She said, "I think you're ready for this now. It's one of my favorites." Could I feel more proud? I don't think so. It became one of my favorites, and now my daughter Audrey loves it too. I just reread it for about the fiftieth time. I finished it with a sigh. So many wonderful memories tied up in that book. 

Here are a few landmark books for me:

Little Women by Louisa May Alcott
What's not to love? When my Beth was in high school, her English teacher mentioned this book. Beth said, "My mom's read that book a hundred times." He replied, "I think that must be an exaggeration." Hmmm, I don't think so. I had the first few lines memorized for a long time. I still know the first sentence by heart:
"Christmas won't be Christmas without any presents", grumbled Jo, lying on the rug.

The first time I read the book I didn't catch on that Beth died. My mom said perhaps I wasn't as ready for that book as she thought. I still remember the panicked feeling of failure when she said that. What if she didn't keep telling me great new books to read? Needless to say, the panic was unfounded.

I currently own eight editions of this book. Like I said, what's not to love?


Gone With the Wind by Margaret Mitchell
Sigh. This book was long, meaty, and engrossing. I loved it from the first page. (Scarlett off to the barbecue at Twelve Oaks.) My initial knowledge of the Civil War came from this book. I read my grandmother's copy. I have that copy now. It's a first edition, one she gave to my grandfather for Christmas. I know that from the inscription. I will tell you that my mother was not happy when my grandmother gave the book to me and not to my mother. You can read about my experience reading Gone With the Wind while the first Americans were walking on the moon here


Jubilee Trail by Gwen Bristow
Another book that I remember my mom pulling off the shelf and telling me she thought I'd like it. I was a little put off by the title. (Good thing the copy I read didn't have this cover--it would have put me off too. This is a true case of don't judge a book by its cover.) An epic book. Great story, great characters, fascinating story. Oh, I love it so! It was out of print for a long time. This Christmas I found it back in print and bought myself a copy. I never met a book by Gwen Bristow I didn't love, and I devoured every one I could lay my hands on.



Monday, March 12, 2012

Sisters 2012

Jennifer, Sally, Ann, Diane, Amy
Orva, Mom, Elna
I just arrived home from my Sisters weekend, and like I told Orva, I'm so tired my head feels like a big pumpkin ready to fall right off my weak little neck. 

The Linford sisters and sisters-in-law and my mother-in-law get together the second week-end in March every year. Thursday evening until Monday morning. We've been doing it since 1991, and we love it. Only nursing babies are allowed, so we have a wonderful weekend just to spend time with one another. There are nine of us when everyone comes, which is usually. This year one could not come. We missed her.

Way back when we first started getting together for our Sisters weekend, Amy began our tradition of what we call party favors. We each bring a gift for everyone. We bring the same gift for everyone, and it is so fun. This year Sally gave us a Turbie-twist, a computer cleaning cloth, a chamois for cleaning, fun reading glasses, and some wonderful bamboo clothes pins. Jennifer gave each of us a ruffly scarf and a book mark that says, "Keep calm and read on." I gave a necklace with forget-me-nots on it, and a digital copy of the Nat King Cole Christmas Album with the Children's Chorus that my husband and four of his siblings sang on. Elna gave us each a small white "pocket" to put in our temple dress pocket to hold mints, or tissues. She also gave us each a necklace that says, "Keep calm and carry on." Ray's mom gave us each a scarf with kanji that says, "No success can compensate for failure in the home," and a pretty purse that she bought when she was in Cambodia. Amy gave us a glass nail file, a Christmas card game that her friend made, and some great hair product. Ann gave us the recipe and makings for home-made laundry detergent. All we have to do is mix it with the correct amount of water and we're ready to go. Orva made corn bags for us. They're bags filled with corn that we can heat up and use as a bed warmer, or put on aching muscles, etc. Altogether we had a wonderful collection of party favors. 

This year we stayed at Ray's parents, and Dad came to my house and spent the weekend with Ray. We all brought projects to work on, and we transformed Mom's lovely living room into a production line. It was delightful to all be gathered in one room, working on fun things, and talking and chatting from early morning to late at night (hence the current pumpkin feeling).

We took time out on Saturday afternoon to have lunch with our daughters who are local and/or are attending BYU. So fun!

I'm home now, and already anticipating the next time we can all get together.

Party Favors

Lunch at Brick Oven. Front row, l-r: Sally, baby David, Elna, Mom, Orva, Beth, Diane, Debra
Back row, l-r: Amy, Nancy, Jennifer, Annie, Christine, Ann, Elna, Charlotte, Jane, Laura, baby Eloise
Outside Brick Oven: l-r: Jane, Jennifer, Anne, Laura, baby Elouise, Orva, Elna, Elna, Annie, Chirstine, baby Housley, Diane, Amy, Debra, Mom, Charlotte, Beth

Dinner time - oh, we had good food! Clockwise from left: Orva, Elna, Amy, Ann, Diane, Sally, Jennifer, Mom

Project beginnings
Me sewing. 

Sally at the computer, scanning photos

Jennifer, sewing

Orva, cutting fabric

Amy, ironing

Elna and Ann, cutting and counting
Mom, the great organizer

Elna, Amy, Orva, Ann, Mom with the results of four days of cutting fabric from old dresses our daughters wore.