S the tease

So this is becoming the How S can tease the fuck out of me blog. I mean where is that line between good friends and something more. I hope you all can understand my confusion in this, and from some of the comments left on the last post, you do.

Wednesday, S came in wearing the skin tight work pants that show off the goods really well, so well in fact, that I can clearly make out her thong through them. Along with this she is wearing a tight wife beater style tee shirt that you can see right through to her white bra, maybe she is just dressing more provocatively since being single again after 4 years. She does wear a work shirt over this while working though. She asked me earlier in the day if I had brought a lunch, I told her no. She comes back from her lunch with a salad and some kind of baked chicken dish for the two of us to have. Now I know this is just a really friendly thing for her to do and that is all I took it as, but I'm still confused as to why she does treat me so.

We were talking later in the day about her boy problems, and they are boys by the way, immature and very childish. But she also proceeds to tell me about her lack of a sex life, how long its been without, her fuck buddy not connecting with her, and the lack of joy when he does (she calls it clock watching). I finally told her I don't want to hear this shit, I think she got the hint.

Correction, I hope she got the hint, because if she keeps it up her dog won't be the only one kissing her.

Thursday, S starts showing me how much weight she has lost by pulling her pants out far enough from her waist for me to see clearly down them. Its hard to look away but I do, ya right, too much the gentleman. Friday its check this on my back, is there something there? The shirt comes up to her bra, the pants down to the top of her underwear, WTF.

She just keeps adding to my confusion, but I think I have become that friend that you can tell anything to because I am married and "safe". I told her no one is safe.

As a fellow blogger has told me I would not know if a woman was coming on to me any way. Ha ha. I just want plain English, straight forward responses, no hiding or defecting. Is that so fucking hard to ask?

Not Again!

She did it again. My cute little coworker, that I will just call S from now on, came in today on her day off. Well the weather is great today here in the Boston area, in the high 70's, so you can imagine she was dressed to impress. Skin tight jeans, a shirt that must be a size too small making her chest look twice as large as normally, and her hair and make-up done. I asked her what she was doing here and she says she was bored, just stopped in to do something she forgot Saturday. I can accept the doing something you forgot, but it could have just as easily waited until tomorrow. S then proceeds to hang out with me for a half hour, she says "I have to go" a few times then just hangs out longer.

Now I know I have been over this before and a few of you feel that she is just fucking with me, knowing how to turn guys on and enjoying it, but it just bothers the hell out of me. On one hand she says she wants nothing to do with me in that way, but she acts totally different. The come ons, the sly remarks, they keep coming at me but when I call her on something she quickly deflects by changing the subject or just ignores me. I guess I'm just tired of the mixed signals. She must really get of on turning guys on and being able to just walk away. It would not be so bad if she didn't seem to flaunt it in my face. Can you understand my confusion? I'm not trying to force something to happen between us but I do think it makes it more difficult to deal with her. I really can't stop thinking of all the things I could do with her when she acts like this towards me, it gets harder to think straight.

Oh well, just a little rant on my part...