Goals...

Ryan and I gave eachother our goals last night and so I thought that I would share my pain with all of you....

So...I actually got three from Ryan. He gave me two and I said one of them didn't count because he thought he would be the better person and put one of mine as "taking time for myself." Okay that is all nice and everything, but totally against the rules. Not to mention the fact that it makes me look insensitive that I didn't think to do anything like that. I just wrote out my 2 goals for him and didn't look back. :)

So here is what Ryan would like me to work on...

1. Keep the kitchen, bathroom and bedroom clean.
2. Be more patient and understanding and don't read into every little thing that is said.

Now those of you who really know me are not going to be too shocked by these. I definately struggle with the housecleaning. I try, but obviously not hard enough. :) and the patience thing is a given. There is a little bit more to #2, but I can't divulge that info on this blog. (don't worry Marie...I will tell you.) :)

We decided that we could be mature adults about this and not get offended by what we were given. I think that we both took it very well....But if you see Ryan in the next couple of days....just act like you don't notice the black eye!

New Year's Resolutions

I know that it is almost the middle of January, but I had yet to make any real new year's resolutions. you know...other than the never ending WEIGHTLOSS one. ( my friends, that's a given, I'm not in denial) :) Anyways, I wanted to choose something that would be really helpful to me and my family. I had read somewhere that a couple had decided to choose new year's goals for eachother and I was intrigued by this idea.

Ryan and I talked about it last night and decided that it might be kinda interesting and fun. So, we have today to decide on 2 things that we would like for the other one to work on this year...and no one can get offended. (this will be the hard part because, honestly, I don't really have anything to work on) wink, wink. :)

So wish us luck...
we might be divorced by tomorrow! :)
just jokes people, just jokes