In 2002 (Prom Photo)
This is how we first got to know you. We got to know you first mainly through hearing about
you from Donnie. You were described as being so heavenly and being a girl that everyone would
want to know. In this prom photo taken in 2002, we finally got to “see” who you are. Through
that photo, we formed our impressions of you. We had mixed feelings coming to get to know
who you were. .On one hand, we were very excited for a brother in our clan - Yong Quan; for
you were one, who had tingled him with anticipation and interest with just this prom photo. He
had shown great interest in the first face to face meeting with you. The other brothers were just
as happy as well, as knowing that you might just add to the number of girls in this clan - a touch
of sugar and spice for them. On the other hand, some of us felt awkward and apprehensive as the
enthusiasm of that excited brother had kinda made some of us skeptical and disapproving of his
overwhelming behaviour. Nevertheless, we all felt that you were a doe-eyed and pleasant gal that
we would get to know and see more in the future.
2003
The wish of Yong Quan wanting to know you came true and he was introduced to you by Donnie. From
there, a special friendship began to unfold. Special moments from the 1st Valentine’s Day and other
outings that you had spent with our brother, you slowly moved on to get to know other members of
our clan. The first member was, of course, the founder of this clan - Ramesh. It was natural as he is the
other “black” half of Yong Quan and the time you spent with these two brothers had helped you to make
the first step towards the start of another wonderful friendship within clan. From then, your lifestyle
began to change too. Through these two guys, you got introduced to the sport of basketball. Evolving
from a girl who did not attempt to play any sports before, you began to know, learn and play basketball.
Basketball was a sport that you slowly began to fall in love with and, just like any other sport that has
that magical touch to bind people of all differences, basketball became the stepping stone for you to
bridge all the differences and join GPU to slowly close the gap and to get to know all of us.
Moreover, in this year, just like yourself, another girlfriend was introduced into GPU by Donnie
and 2003 also marked the year of the blossoming of the sisterhood of Qi and Qin.
2004
The year 2004 spelt a special chapter for ninety-nine percent of GPU members’ lives. For it was
a year marking the start of our adulthood, an embracement of the next phase in our lives. You
were with us for the first time as a member of this clan celebrating the birthdays of Ramesh,
Clarence, Adelene, Donnie, Yong Quan and Shuzhen, just to name a few. And even if you were
unable to make it for the actual celebrations for some, we are appreciative for your “behind the
scenes” efforts in helping out in getting the birthday presents. Through our birthday celebrations,
slowly, besides basketball, you got to know the other members in this clan, their characteristics
and uniqueness that each of them possess. Such as our “Cold Joke King” aka Soo Siong with his
really funny antics that would just tickle the group during our birthday or normal gatherings, and
Weili, (still remember him?) whose presence sadly, was beginning to wane off slowly.
Additionally, you got to play another sport that helped you bond with us even more. From
Snookerium to Pool Fusion, you got to know more of other members such as Huiyi and Guokun
who love this sport—pool. In turn, you grew to become one of the better female players and had
records of even beating some of the guys in the group. Nonetheless, basketball was still the core
activity that continued to bond us together, helping you to get to know Adelene, Jiasian, Shuzhen
and Zenia better and also strengthening your friendship with Serene too. It was a testament of
time for your skills, growth and confidence in basketball. In addition, it was also a year that
we had our clan’s second set of basketball jerseys printed in the bright colour YELLOW! 2004
was also a significant year for the commissioning of Ramesh, Soo Siong and Yong Quan who
celebrated their completion of their officer/commando courses. You were there in those proud
moments of their lives. You also got to know more of one of our canine members of GPU - Toto,
whom we have known for seven to eight years then. You liked her, who wouldn’t? With such a
playful and gentle character, she was a darling in all of our eyes. Lastly, the highlight at the end
of the year was the Christmas celebrations at Clarence’s house, your first event’s celebration
besides birthdays, with us. From there, you got to know who were the Karaoke Queens/King in
our group—Clarence, Huiyi, Serene and Shuzhen. In addition, you got to learn about our black/
white brother pair’s ritual of floor wrestling that can be really amusing and entertaining at times.
What a spectacular year
2004 was!
2005
After the hype and plentiful events in 2004, 2005 seemed to be a quieter year in terms of your
presence during our birthday gatherings and basketball, pool or “makan” sessions. Maybe, as
this year was a year of realization about the reality of adulthood that each of us are beginning to
step into, some of our priorities had changed. Being a Singaporean, being busy is the top
characteristic of Singaporeans. Especially being busy with school work where workload was
increasing for some of us who were in Universities which was a new level that required much
more academic effort. In particular, those in NTU were in their graduating year; for you and the
rest of the girls in NUS, you were all going to start the final year in university. Furthermore,
Huiyi went to Shanghai for a year and our clan had a member less to add laughter and fun into
the group. In addition, Guokun and Yong Quan were starting to embark their academic life in
NUS too, having to be embroiled into the trap of busy-ness too. Thus, our bonding basketball
sessions became less frequent as the “busy-ness” slowly engulfed each and every member of the
group. For you, it was unfortunate too that your skin was sensitive to sunlight and couldn’t be
exposed to the sun for quite a period of time. However, 2005 was still filled with memorable
birthday celebrations and a couple of firsts for you and the group itself. You experienced your
first time being at V’illage at China Sqaure for Zenia’s birthday, your first chalet birthday with
Guokun’s big day and definitely yours and the clan’s first time going clubbing together as a big
group of thirteen people at the town club, Rouge during Yong Quan’s birthday! How cool is that?
Our first time, drinking together and playing number games and making the birthday boy drunk!
hee hee…This year was also the year where you started to pick up one of the guy’s favourite past
times besides pool which is DOTA. You became the first gal in the group to embrace a
testosterone charged activity and excelling quite well in it too. Making you bond closer to the
guys in the group too. Though you couldn’t do much day time activities during this year, at least
it was a year with quite amazing night life events!
2006
In this present year of 2006, as a group we have already gone through almost half the year. As
always like the past three years, birthdays were always the occasions that really had the ability to
get people within the clan together. As some of the members started venturing out into the
working life, going through the last lap of University life and also being busy with other stuff.
Even though, GPU has a history of 9 years, it is a group of friends that have been able to stand
together so long because of the many memorable things we have done together and experiences
we share as a group. However, there are still many “firsts” happening to members and to the
group itself. For you personally, it was your first time to try your take in organizing Zenia’s
birthday party. It had also provided you a chance to communicate with her more intimately and
knowing her better in some little ways. GPU also had its first birthday ice cream bought for our
dear Adelene’s birthday. It was indeed a different kind of birthday celebration, having to watch a
movie that premiered on her birthday to commemorate her special 23. And remember the fun
that all of us had taking funny photo shots with “Over the Hedge” card board characters and
floor stickers that made us a spectacle for passers-by. It was also a first for you to celebrate
Huiyi’s birthday after her long absence from the group. Her special day was also a day that as
GPU, we had our first pubbing experience at a Jazz Bar down at Clarke Quay. Compliments to
Chu Yao, a loyal friend with a few words, having been there for us all the time, had generously
treated the whole group to the rounds of drinks. And of course, who could forget the “cork” joke
that our Carlsberg girl blurted out that sparked stitches and aches in the group’s mouths and
stomachs. It was also a first that you could stay out way beyond 11pm and be able to stay with us
all the way to enjoy the pubbing experience together with the group. And of course, the most
recent and memorable birthday experience is yours truly; a first once again, in celebrating your
birthday at a music café. Though, it was not really conducive to have group games and chatting
for every one of us, but for us, we witnessed some of the group’s karaoke queens and you taking
the stage. And that sure takes courage and confidence! The two recent events of your
convocation and farewell gathering with GPU that just passed would be and it would definitely
be memories that we as a group would treasure very much. I guess the saying of “you will only
start to appreciate and miss someone/something after you have lost it” is very much true. But,
we are not saying that we had not appreciated or had not any regard for you before as a friend.
Your journey with us has really only just started and just beginning to slowly forge deeper
relationships with different members of the group. Of course, we are not saying that our
friendship would just end here in Singapore but it definitely is a pity and a whole different
experience all together when you head back to your motherland. However, just like how this
year has not ended, we as GPU want to tell you that your membership in GPU is forever and will
never end. You have earned your place in this clan of ours and we are really appreciative of your
love, ever generous, selfless and giving ways that you have showered upon the group in your
quiet ways. You may seem not to be eminent or boisterous like some other members of the
group, but we know that if we ever need you to hold on to the fort in any circumstance, you
would always be willing and one of the first to do so. Here, we want to say that your friendship
with us is still counting on and that we just want to say … …