Saturday, July 4, 2009

MY DAD

Just a few short words in remembrance of my Dad. I am at my moms so I have no pictures with me of him but just have to express my love for him and I feel very blessed to have been here with him the last few weeks of his life. It has certainly been a roller coaster ride, starting the 10 of June. When my mom called and told me Dad was in the hospital again I had a very uneasy feeling. She told me he was going in for a procedure (ERCP) to find out why his liver count was up. I felt I needed to be there so I planned to go up for a few days. I arrived in SLC at 2:00 and the my sister called and said they were taking him in early. I headed for the hospital. All went well with the procedure. Later that day they needed to do a cat scan by this time my dad was totally drained of energy, his heart stopped and they administered CPR on him. Not a fun thing to watch my mom and I were in the room at the time. Well from that point on it has been the up and down of a roller coaster. He would have a day that would give us hope that things would be fine and then there would be a few days that we didn't think that he would make it through the night. We brought him home on July 3rd at 3:00 and he past away at 4:00, he knew he was home, that is where he wanted to be and I think at that point he gave up the fight. It was a very peaceful passing, I am so glad that I was here to say my last good bye's to my Dad he is a wonderful man and going to be missed by many friends and most of all many family members. I love you Dad!!!

6 comments:

*ShaRisE* said...

the news didnt ruin my trip mom. i new it would happen soon.. and it wasnt easy but im so happy he is not in pain anymore!! Ill miss him very much and his nuckle sandwiches and him always saying that i was taken his tootsie rolls! :) i love him tons! and cant wait to see him again!

Josh & Leslie Warner said...

I am really sorry for your loss. If their is any thing I can do let me know. You and your family always have such a positive spirit even in the roughest of times. I love you all and my thoughts are with you.

Shellie said...

I'm so glad you got to be there with him, and with your Mom these last few weeks. I saw the obituary in the paper this morning - it was very nice. I hope the funeral goes well on Wednesday. I know you'll have special help getting through it all .

Des said...

love ya mom.

The Isoms said...

He will be missed! I will miss his, "knock it off" what a great grandpa he was! I too can't wait to see him again!

Shellie said...

Pauline-
the comment above was actually from my mom. I'm really sorry to hear about your dad. :( I hope you are doing okay. I'm sure this is a hard time for you. I know that you find comfort in knowing that he's in a good place. We love you guys and we are sorry you have to go through this.
Shellie