Let her decide if she wants you, its her life, what position are you in to decide for her? Its okay if she doesnt like you, you can just admire her from afar, or even talk to her or help her as a friend. Its better to be friends than be strangers. If she decides to be with you, cherish her. DO NOT stop her from doing things she enjoy/like. Give her some space, let her play with her friends, do not keep sticking to her, she will back come to you in the end. Make her happy every time you are with her. Cherish the time with her. Get to know her more, like the things she like, the way she does things.You will soon know whats the best gift to give her on occasions. Do not rush through things with her, she may not be able to accept you that fast, give her time, you will soon know that your wait is worth it. Comfort her, when shes down/depressed/etc. Lend her your shoulder, when she needs it. Embrace her, when she feels unsafe. Do not get her into trouble. Doesnt mean that you love her, you have to do certain things with her, thats not true. There are many ways of expressing your love for her.

" ....the mess to clean after a party
because it means I have been surrounded by friends.

....the taxes I pay
because it means that I'm employed.

....the clothes that fit a little too snug
because it means I have enough to eat.

....my shadow who watches me work
because it means I am out in the sunshine.

....a lawn that needs mowing,
windows that need cleaning
and gutters that need fixing
because it means I have a home.

....the spot I find at the far end of the parking lot
because it means I am capable of walking.

....all the complaining I hear about our government
because it means we have freedom of speech.

....my huge heating bill
because it means I am warm.

...the lady behind me in church who sings off key
because it means that I can hear.

....the piles of laundry and ironing
because it means my loved ones are nearby.

....weariness and aching muscles at the end of the day
because it means I have been productive.

....the alarm that goes off in the early morning hours
because it means that I'm alive.

....the friends and family I can share this message with
to remind us all what is important in life."