Monday, December 8, 2008
more photos of Sophia's new furniture
Catch-up
Here is Sophia in her "me and Mama for Obama" T-shirt with CNN projecting Obama as the winner in the background. On the back of the T-shirt, it says Mom love Obama in Chinese. We got this at a fundraiser in Beijing.
Josh's sister, Becca visited us from London for Thanksgiving. Sophia was a fan of Goo Goo! They bonded over Cold Stone Creamery.
Here are some of Sophia's cool new giant LEGOS! They are hand-me-downs from friends of ours. Josh built Sophia a robot and she gave it a kiss. Unfortunately, the robot get knocked over easily so Sophia must be gentle with her kisses!
Sophia now says about 20 words, both english and chinese. They include:
1) duck
2) mama
3) baba
4) ball
5) bubble
6) doudou (Gogo, dog)
7) baobao (hold me)
8) xiexie (thank you)
9) bye bye
10) zaijian (bye bye)
11) zuozuo (sit)
12) jiejie (big sister)
13) yeye (grandpa)
14) nainai (milk and grandma depending on tone)
15) jiaojiao (foot)
16) dai (wear)
17) nana (as in Banana)
18) uh-oh
19) dan dan (egg)
20) balloon
Some of her favorite activities are laughing when Josh farts, locating belly buttons, bringing me my donut pajama bottoms and bringing Josh's gorilla slippers to him and standing on them when he walks.
Monday, November 3, 2008
Rumors
Rumor at the satellite location this morning was that all the people getting laid off were in line at the campus so that they could meet with HR. The reality: HR was handing out gift certificates for birthday cakes to all employees who had a birthday in November and any month before if you didn't have a chance to pick up your certificate earlier! So, think twice about believing any rumor you hear in the future!
So it begins...
We webcammed with Josh today and Sophia tried to give Josh his ipod through the computer monitor. It was very cute. Every morning Sophia helps Josh put on his gorilla slippers by bringing them to him and then helping to lift up Josh's feet, then Josh let's her stand on the gorillas and they walk around the living room. Well, today, she brought the slipper to me, since Josh was not around. It was adorable and yet another sign that our little baby is growing up! TOO QUICKLY.
Sunday, November 2, 2008
Super Sophia Halloween!
Trying to get the kids to all look at the camera was tricky. There is actually a very cute little Swedish boy behind the skull!
Even though Sophia was the youngest in the group, she caught on quickly to how this trick-or-treating thing worked!
A parting photo of Super Sophia. Josh is off to Hong Kong today until Thursday. I was able to postpone my trip next week to Chiang Mai, so at least Josh and I will get to see each other for more than 48 hours beginning on Friday!
Monday, October 27, 2008
Scarface
As if that wasn't bad enough, you might be wondering about what happened to her nose and forehead! Well on Sunday morning, Sophia went to the playground in our compound with the ayi. She loves balls and went after one and face planted.
It was not a good weekend for Sophia's face, but she kept her humor and smiled anyway....Lesson for all of us, when you face plant in life, get back up, keep going and smile!
I'm off to Singapore for a few days and plan to fly back on the red eye on Thursday night so I can make it back in time for Halloween. Josh and I made Sophia's costume last night. Stay tuned to see what Sophia will be!
Monday, October 20, 2008
More Firsts
- Met my mom's cousins from her hometown of YangZhou, also home of JiangZeMin. They were touring Beijing. Sophia charmed them of course! The gentleman, who was my grandfather's nephew bears a striking resemblence to him.
- Drew blood in a face plant on our hardwood floors. Sophia was going after a ball, when she slipped and cut her lip on one or more of her 12 teeth! After a 30 second cry and some ice, she was fine.
- Tried to open our bedroom door with keys
- Brushes her hair and ours with a comb
- Tried to use the water cooler
- Makes a salty concoction in a bowl
- Tried to use a toothbrush to brush her teeth
- Tried to put on her socks and shoes when she wants to go outside
- Kisses her dad goodnight when she's ready for bed after reading
Sunday, October 19, 2008
Inspired...
Sophia had a few firsts since the last posting:
1) First bouncy castle experience.
She did actually go into the bouncy"gingerbread house," but I couldn't balance Sophia in one hand, jump, protect Sophia from the jumping 5-7 year olds (whose birthdays we were celebrating) and try to take a photo.
2) Her first overnight trip. We went to the countryside of Beijing with 5 other families and rented a courtyard house. It was an exhausting "relaxing" trip. There were 6 babies and 3 dogs. You can check out the resort at http://www.villageviewresort.com.cn/. It's a nice 45-minute drive for some fresh air and nice scenery.
3) Used her first straw. Our friend just returned back from the US and brought us back a straw sippy cup and Sophia's long sleeved bib. For any parents out there, bumkins makes the best bibs, sleeveless and sleeved. Here's a photo of both at work! (That is German yogurt that Sophia is eating since we don't want any melamine!)
Tuesday, September 30, 2008
Progress
Second area of progress was adding some touches to Sophia's room. Sophia seemed to like the addition. Here are some photos of the progress made
We also cleaned out and organized our closets (We still have not located Mike's black jacket.) We did, however, pull out some pieces that were from Josh's childhood for Sophia to model.
Monday, September 29, 2008
A 5-star birthday celebration....spitting, unfortunately, not optional
Celebrations began on Friday when my colleagues surprised me with a birthday lunch at a new 5-star restaurant called Domus. It is in a renovated courtyard filled with fine, gorgeous Italian furniture. The owners of the restaurant area also the distributors of this furniture. We had a delicious eight course meal in one of the nicely appointed interiors I can recall. We were visiting the restaurant for a look-see for an event to launch one of our new phones in the coming months.
On Saturday, Josh and I went to the spa where I was finally able to use my mother's day spa treatment certificate. I joked that Josh got lucky that he could kill two birds with one stone! We also treated ourselves to a wonderful meal at Daniel Boulud's new restaurant in Beijing, Maison Boulud. You can read more about the restaurant, the location and check out the menu at http://www.maisonboulud.com/. It is located in Legation Quarter, next to Tiananmen Square. The interiors were designed by the same designers as The Gramercy Park Hotel and the actual restaurant is located in the former American Embassy building during the Qin Dynasty in 1903. We were also told Kissinger and Zhou Enlai met secretly in that building. Of course, when we were at the current Ambassador's residence we were also told they met there. Maybe they met in several locations. Anyway, it was a delicious meal, topped off with warm madeline cookies and chocolates at the end of the meal.
Just as I was commenting to Josh that I felt like we were in London and not Beijing, a Chinese couple walked in and started complaining to the staff that they didn't like their table. They spoke very loudly and rudely to the staff and needed explanations on the menu. When they came across the cheese platter option, we overheard the waiter ask the guy if he knew what cheese was! We chuckled at that and enjoyed our meal, until the woman dug deeply in her chest and expelled a loogi that is worthy of any coal miner. Then she proceeded to let the loogi hang out of her mouth and shockingly she had the courtesy of spitting it into a napkin. This happened not once, but four times at that table. It was appalling.
Spitting aside, we had a terrific evening of uninterrupted adult conversation and superb food. We topped off the evening by checking ourselves into the JW Marriott and sleeping in until 7:45 the next morning! Even though we were stuffed silly from Maison Boulud, we managed to enjoy the buffet brunch before heading home to see Sophia. It was her first night where neither of us was with her. Not surprisingly, Sophia survived!
It was the perfect celebration. Thanks to all who sent birthday greetings! Now we start our weeklong National Day holiday. We are sticking around Beijing and have many chores on the list. We'll keep you updated on our progress throughout the week! We are also looking forward to the Palin/Biden debate!
Friday, September 19, 2008
On Bailouts: Chinese and US
- The government is temporarily guaranteeing money market funds so that they don't drop below par value.
- The government is considering buying distressed debt from financial institutions as a way of provident liquidity to the system and shoring up banks' balance sheet.
- The government has banned short selling of securities.
But it sounds suspicously like another government I know.
In China, the government sets the rates of interest for deposits (effectively guaranteeing those deposits).
In China, the government, in effect, buys distressed debt from banks--I work in this industry.
In China, short selling is banned.
In China this week, the government announced plans to buy stakes in large commercial banks as a way of proping them up. In the US, the government took control of AIG.
In China, the central bank raised rates twice and lifted lending caps on loans to small and medium enterprises. In the US, the central bank (the Fed) provided emergency liquidity to the banking system.
The similarities are striking.
Here, some Chinese officials are almost giddy at America's crisis. After all, Hank Paulson and many before him have made it a habit to come to Beijing and ask the Chinese to reform their financial system (along the lines of what the US has).
I'm for limited bailouts. I agree with Freddie and Fannie--they are quasi-government entities. I disagree with AIG and Bear Stearns. They should have been allowed to fail like Lehman.
I agree with helping people with mortgages, but also ensuring that they don't continue to get into trouble since they know the government will step in (moral hazard).
I'm for free markets, but I'm also for accountability and responsibility for people who run those markets or participate in them. If that requires government intervention, so be it.
And that is all.
Thursday, September 18, 2008
Why I love Starbucks...
Wednesday, September 17, 2008
Global Finance a Shambles?
Like everyone else, I have no idea how this will play out. I'm a retail investor like most of you, and, like most of you, I've been watching the value of my equity decline precipitously over the past nine months. Never gave it much thought, really, except to mutter occasionally and curse my stars.
But this past weekend, we got hit with a much more serious situation.
Our financial system--the one we grew up with, the only one we've known as Americans for the better part of 50 years--seems on the verge of collapse.
Many of our most honored and storied institutions--Merrill Lynch, Lehman Brothers, AIG, Fannie Mae, Freddie Mac, Bear Stearns--are either gone or under government administration. Many others--Washington Mutual, IndyMac, and a dozen other smaller banks--have failed or may do so shortly.
Our famed economists and investors are unsure what tomorrow will bring. Our central bankers are trying everything in their arsenal to calm markets and inject liquidity.
Our politicians seem uncertain how to respond and, worse, it's election season, which means the recriminations will fly around uselessly to try to score political points.
And globally, markets, investors, governments, and pundits are suddenly not sure whether America is really the place to park assets, whether our economic system that supposedly allocates capital most efficiently is the best system, whether we should have more regulation, whether we should just let the market take its course.
So let me take a minute to put these events in perspective--as last as I see it.
First, these financial institutions were not as prudent as they should have been. They engaged in financial innovation (good), syndicated it out by selling these innovative products to other banks and investors (also ok), but then failed to adequately understand or manage the risk inherent in those products (umm...bad). I have no sympathy for the shareholders of these banks and the management teams getting walloped. It's well deserved. (I have some sympathy for regular guys at these banks--my friends among them--who got caught in this once in a lifetime crisis. For most, it has nothing to do with them. And while our 401(k)s take a hit, they are out of a job.)
Second, credit rating agencies have to share some of the blame. They're not going under since they are privately held and small in comparison to the behemoths they rate. Our system relies too heavily on these agencies and they are not accountable to anyone. This has to change.
Third, the carnage on Wall Street reflect to a certain extent the pain being felt in other parts of the economy, notably real estate of course, but also IT and other areas. Largely ignored in the hubbub around Wall Street was HP's announcement that it's laying off 25,000 workers. Ok, part of this is the integration with EDS, but part of it reflects slowing IT spending and weaker corporate earnings. Housing prices have dropped by 10-15% in some parts of the country. The estimated cost for just the housing bust will be about $1 trillion.
Fourth, the crisis is largely a failure of regulation. The federal bailouts and the discussion about Resolution Trust Corporation redux are evidence that Congress and regulators agree that more should have been done ex ante. New government-sponsored accounting and auditing rules were supposed to provide more information to regulators and investors. Nope. The end of Glass-Steagall was supposed to keep the US financial sector competitive. Nope. The myriad financial regulatory agencies were supposed to be minding the shop. Nope.
Now, there is a global crisis of confidence in banks, as one commentator put it. From here in Beijing to Manila to Frankfurt to Tokyo to Johannesburg, Tel Aviv and Dubai, central bankers and finance ministers are working around the clock to calm their markets. So far, no luck.
In 1997, the IMF with the explicit support of the US, bailed out Korea in the face of the Asian Financial Crisis. It's not lost on anyone that Korea Development Bank was the final would-be bidder for Lehman Brothers.
In tomorrow's post: what's coming next and what it means for us.
Monday, September 15, 2008
Visiting Nai Nai in Shanghai
Waiting for our numerous bags in Shanghai. Josh and I rarely checked bags before Sophia arrived! We had two checked bags, one car seat, one stroller and the Ergo Baby Carrier (pictured above)
and a barf bag!
We also got to spend some time with some friends from our days in Shanghai. Our friends hosted a lovely BBQ in their old lane home. Unfortunately, Shanghai was on the receiving end of a Taiwanese typhoon so we were drenched all weekend. Nevertheless, it was wonderful to see old friends and meet new ones. There were 7 children, all girls, except the host, Liam. He was a lucky little boy! We were spoiled with 3 ayis (nannies) at the party so we actually got to have some adult conversation!
After being offline for most of the weekend, I caught up on some news. If you haven't had a chance to read the recent NY Times ops-ed, "Blizzard of Lies," "Governor Palin's Worldview," "Making America Stupid," by Thomas Friedman, "Bering Straight Talk," by Maureen Dowd and many others posted on my Facebook page, I highly recommend that you do. They shed light on the reckless nature in which McCain has chosen his VP candidate. It also shows the very ugly side of politics. While I never supported McCain for President, I did respect him for his service to our country. However, after reading more about Palin, I sincerely doubt his judgement and his intergrity.
Alright, off to bed before the princess awakes at dawn or earlier....
Friday, September 12, 2008
A busy week of friends going and coming.
I had a business trip to Singapore Mon-Wed. I got to fly business class on the reconfigured 777 on Singapore Air, the best airline around! I think Josh, Sophia and I could have all fit on the seat. It was by far the widest seat I have ever been in on an airplane and the huge piece of succulent baked cod I got for dinner made it a wonderful trip. Meanwhile, Josh and Sophia held down the fort. Sophia took this job so seriously, she decided to wake her dad up at 4:30 Tuesday morning. Since she's still a bit boob-addicted, she was not in a good mood, since her drug of choice (me) was in Singapore. Josh was only able to calm her by driving around Beijing. Thank goodness we got our Chinese driver's licenses. I got home at midnight on Wed./Thursday. My head hit the pillow at 1 AM and Sophia decided to greet me at 1:30 AM. Unfortunately, she had her first fever and was not a happy camper, so the three of us had some good family bonding! Fortunately, she's doing much better now, except a snotty nose and a horrible mosquito bite on her eyelid which is making it droopy. I'll try to get a photo, although, that is also getting better.
Thursday was another busy day. I had a friend from my Claremont days and another from my White House days in town visiting, so we had them over for dinner along with another couple who live in Beijing. It was a wonderful evening of new and old friends. Another friend from the White House was also in town, so Josh and I got to lunch with her today. Beijing definitely is the place to be!
Today is the start of the mid-autumn festival holiday weekend. The year's largest and brightest moon will be making its showing this weekend sometime. We are hoping to have clear skies so we can witness this. Tradition calls for eating mooncakes and spending time with family. My grandmother is visiting my aunt and uncle in Shanghai so we are off to Shanghai in the morning to visit them.
We'll share those adventures with you later.
Sunday, September 7, 2008
Sophia's First Birthday
This year flew by. I don't think any of us realizes the importance of savoring every moment with your children until you have your own. We can't believe that the tiny little infant we brought home just one year ago, is now this amazing little person that reacts, inspires, giggles, entertains and can bring so much joy into our lives. We are so grateful for our little blessing, Sophia.
Thank you to all our friends and family for helping us get through the first year. We couldn't have done it without your love.
Thursday, September 4, 2008
On Joe Lieberman
We interrupt this blog to bring you a brief rant on Joe Lieberman.
I watched Lieberman's speech at the RNC yesterday and it made me furious with him. It's not that he's wrong about John McCain. Lieberman correctly pointed out that McCain has reached across party lines during his time in the Senate; that he has, on occasion, broken ranks with the Republican establishment--including President Bush; that he served his country with honor. None of that is in dispute, and Lieberman should not be taken to task for pointing it out.
Where Lieberman is wrong is to claim that McCain is the candidate of change and the candidate who can get the most done for Americans who are suffering due to high costs of health care, declining wages (in real terms), rising unemployment, a broken education system, and a soaring budget deficit. He doesn't believe that. He can't believe that.
What he may believe is that McCain is the better choice for Iraq, the better choice for securing access to sources of foreign and domestic oil and protecting big business (and, therefore, of trickle-down economics), and, of course, securing the status quo for long-serving Senators like Lieberman himself. (Note: he would be wrong about believing any of these things, but he can be forgiven for being so misguided.)
But if that's what he believes, and he feels strongly, he should stand up and say that. Don't dare claim that McCain is the candidate of change, the candidate of national unity, the candidate of energy independence, the candidate of economic recovery or of reconciliation with allies and engagement with adversaries.
McCain is the candidate of the status quo: of big oil, of ruinous economic policies, of misguided foreign ventures, of another four years.
I'm disappointed in Lieberman not because he supports McCain or because he crossed party lines. I'm disappointed because he got up at the RNC and misled the American people about why he supports McCain.
And that is inexcusable.