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Monday, March 18, 2013

Baby Diaries 2.2

Total weight gain/loss: I'd say about 10-11 lbs.  

Maternity clothes?: Pants- 100%, Shirts- Depends on the shirt

Stretch marks?: Nope. 

Sleep: It's not been bad, but it hasn't been great either.  I can't seem to find comfort sleeping on my left side.  I'm continuously waking up on my back and trying to correct my sleep posture.

Best moment this week: Hearing the heartbeat again at a doctors appointment.  140bpm!

Movement: Still too early.

Food cravings: Nope, I continue to eat healthy foods.  I'm watching my sodium intake to help with the blood pressure (which seems to be better) and I've increased my potassium to help cancel out any sodium I am eating.

Gender: I am so anxious to find out.

Labor Signs: Thankfully not.

Belly Button in or out?  Proof that I've been pregnant before.  My belly button is already starting to go flat and by the end of the day stick out.  

What I miss: Picking up Bitsy without thinking first.  I have to move a little slower now or feel the twinge of round ligaments pain (nothing really bad, but definitely different). 

What I am looking forward to: A friend is set to have her baby this week and I can't wait to meet the newest addition!

Until next week, 
I hope you had a Blessed Monday!

Monday, March 11, 2013

Baby Diaries 2.1

Total weight gain/loss: I'd say about 9 lbs.  

Maternity clothes?: Depends from day to day.  I definitely feel more comfortable in maternity pants, but they aren't always necessary.  

Stretch marks?: Nope. 

Sleep: Has been rough the last few nights.  Bud badly sprained his foot and we switched sides of the bed so he could elevate it.  Also, I finally got my body pillow and it works better for me when I am on his side of the bed.  Unfortunately, the switch is taking a few days to get used to.  Also, I'm waiting for a phone call from our neighbor telling me she's gone into labor so I've been a little restless about that.  I took a nap today though and that was glorious.

Best moment this week: 

Movement: Nothing yet.  But my body is sure moving....or loosening up.  I've had some lower back pains and it's all because of these loosening ligaments.  Getting out for walks seems to help, so I'll keep that up.

Food cravings: Nothing specifically. 

Gender: Only a few more weeks until the ultrasound and a couple weeks after that until we know.  We are waiting for Bud's 1/2 marathon to open that envelope.

Labor Signs: Nothing.

Belly Button in or out?  Proof that I've been pregnant before.  My belly button is already starting to go flat and by the end of the day stick out.  

What I miss: I miss getting up super early, I still get up and eat breakfast and have some me time before getting Bitsy up, but it's definitely different now.  I am a bit slower in the mornings.  

What I am looking forward to: Bud & I have a massage that my Dad gifted to us for Christmas.  It's time to use that gift card to work out some of these kinks!

When they say every pregnancy is different they aren't joking.
In the beginning I suffered from a very metallic-y taste in my mouth.
I was glad when that phase passed.
I also had quite a bit more morning sickness this time around.  
Although, I was only physically sick 3 times, it was 2 times more than with Bitsy.
Finally, the worst part was my blood pressure.
At 2 different appointments my blood pressure was very high.  
142/83.
They were concerned and asked if I had a history of high BP.
I never had.
They were still concerned and mentioned things like hypertension and preeclampsia.
These are not things an expectant mother wants to hear.
I had to do a 24 hr urine protein test.
This test involves pee-ing in a jug...every time...for 24 hours.
It's just as glamorous as it sounds :P
Fortunately, the results came back good.
In fact I'm healthy as  can be according to said test.
They will continue to monitor my BP at my appointments.
Other good news is that I recently had a dental appointment.
They took my BP at that appointment (I'm not sure that's something I've experienced at the dentist before), but it was 117/74.
MUCH BETTER than my previous readings at the hospital.
I'm hopeful that some of the dietary changes I've made will help my BP stay in a normal range.
Other than that I'll just put it in God's hands.

That's all for this week.

I hope you had a Blessed Monday!

Friday, March 8, 2013

Be...Secretive (I'm about to share a secret with you!)

I have been apologizing for months now about my lack of blogging.
I have been sporadic in posting.
Somedays I've had full intentions of writing posts for an entire week...
and then I blink and it's time to crawl into bed.
What has happened to me?
The truth is, I've been hiding something.


....
wait for it....
Do you get it?

If not, let me see if this helps


So there you have it.
I've been doing my best to Be...Secretive.
They aren't kidding when they say each pregnancy is different.
With Bitsy I was tired during the 1st trimester, but I was rarely nauseous.
I worked and kept the house.
With this Lil' Bit I suffered from morning 'sickness' (nausea) for weeks.  
Sometimes it would linger all day.
I was tired more than ever and when you already have a 1 year old running around you don't get to just take a nap.
Laundry piled up.
Dinner didn't get cooked.
Bud was patient, after all, this was the pregnancy I'd had with Bitsy and he was sympathetic.
But here I am approaching 15 weeks.
I think I did okay not slipping.
We didn't tell family until we got through the 1st trimester, that's our way.
We sent out Valentine's day postcards with this picture on the front:

   The front of the card read:
"There is more love in this photo than you can see..."

And the back said:
"...as our family is growing to four, from three!
Happy Valentine's Day"

We waited patiently for the phone calls to roll in.
Once everyone knew we made it official.
Facebook official that is.
Then I made it Instagram official...so I know many of you learned that way.
It's so nice to have the secret out, but let me say this, having a secret can be fun!
So be secretive from time to time.
Build up the anticipation and enjoy the rewards of surprising people!

We already have plans for how we are going to share the next big secret.....
GENDER!
We are slotted for an ultrasound on April 3rd.
We are going to ask that they put the gender results in an envelope for us.
We will then keep that envelope sealed until the weekend of April 14th.
See, Bud is going to run is 1st 1/2 marathon and I thought it would be neat for him to find out the gender as he crosses the finish line. 
Ya know...kinda like the ultimate motivation!
So the morning of his run, once he leaves our hotel room, I will get to open the envelope and find out the results.
Then I will put them on a giant poster board to hold up as he crosses the finish line!
Eeeek!
I am just hoping I can contain myself and not open that envelope in the 9 days between the ultrasound and 1/2 marathon!

Anyways.
That's really all I have today.
I'll be back Monday with some more Mommy/Baby news.
I have a few other stories to share and I'll have a new 15 week photo!

I hope you all have a Blessed Friday!

P.S. Plan a surprise and be secretive with something this week: a dinner date, a special activity....something!

P.S.S. The blog will be a bit different for a while.
Mondays- Mommy/Baby updates
Tuesdays- Tasty Tuesday (sometimes meals, sometimes sides, sometimes desserts)
Wednesday- What we've been up to
Thursday- Craft Day
Friday- Be...

Not a lot of change, but enough that I'll be able to share baby news on a regular update.




Thursday, February 21, 2013

What We Did....A BIG Purchase!

See...what had happened was...
Isn't that a great way to start a story?
Seriously though, here is the scoop on a purchase that happened about 5 months earlier than planned.

Meet Kitty.
Named after what the little girl in "Monster's Inc" called Sullivan.
And because this car was covered in all things KSU Wildcats, it seemed appropriate.
 We bought Kitty about 5 years ago after someone T-Boned the side of our Toyota Tacoma.
We used the money from that accident to pay for her.
In fact in all our years of marriage (coming up on 9 here), we've only had car payments for about 1 of them.
Anyways, she fit our needs and treated us well.
We did a lot of maintenance on her, but always said it was better than having car payments that we couldn't afford.
Flash forward to the last month.
Bud called me.
He was in a fender bender.
Going approximately 20 miles an hour, he looked into his rearview mirror and then his head was in the airbag.
The crash investigator said, "You hit the airbag sensor perfectly.  It shouldn't have gone off at that slow of a speed.  I saw a car that flipped 2 or 3 times last week and it's air bags didn't deploy.  PS your vehicle is most likely totalled".
Ugh!
Not in the plans.
The plans were to hold out until June when Bud gets his promotion.
We would then feel comfortable having car payments.
Plans change.
Sure enough the insurance people did their thing and declared her a total loss.
I have to say this couldn't have all happened at a better time though.
We filed our taxes, I love to get money back.
We received a special gift from Bud's Grandpa.
And the insurance company gave us Kitty's value in cash, which as it turns out was more than we had paid for her 5 years ago.
It was time to start our search for a 'new' car.
We had a price range we wanted to stay within, that would allow us to have 40% to put down on the vehicle.
We also had a few things we knew we wanted since this next car was going going to be with us for at least 7 years.
That list of things included: Leather seats (easy clean up with kid(s), I wanted a sunroof, lower than 40K mileage, silver or white, and Bud wanted bluetooth capability).
Here is where I will offer our piece of advice for all of you who are in the market for a vehicle.
DO NOT BE AFRAID TO LOOK OUT OF STATE.
We used Cars.com, USAA (our insurance) has a car buying service, and even eBay will list dealer vehicles.
Let me tell you this was our first vehicle as a married couple, purchased from a dealership.
I've ALWAYS purchased private party.
We searched and had about 3 vans we had our heart set on (PS we also knew we really wanted a Toyota Sienna- better gas mileage than an SUV and in our opinion more comfortable).
Well one van would sell and then we'd find another that would fill it's place.
We talked with sales reps and crunched numbers, but in the end if they couldn't meet our price we walked away.
Finally, a dealership in Palm Beach, Florida passed all our tests.
It was a van we had seen early in the process and kept coming back to.
Ultimately, we opted to fly Bud down to make the purchase and to drive the van home.
This dealership was USAA approved which meant we got an additional $200 off our price and that covered Bud's airfare down there!
All in all we've been asked "WHY didn't you buy locally"?
Our answer: "We saved nearly $2000 going out of state".
I may not clip coupons, I may not always shop the clearance section, but when it comes to big purchases we work hard to stay on budget.
We opted to put my student loan payments on hold until after Bud gets his promotion so that we would be comfortable with our payments now.
In the end our car payments, ugh, are under our target price range and we have a van that we LOVE so much.
2011 Toyota Sienna XLE and she only had 35K on her!
 She passed the BIG test ;) of whether or not Bud & I could both have a Route 44 Sonic beverage up front!
Answer pictured above, YES!
 We got our white van with leather seats, bluetooth, sunroof, a 7 yr/100,000 mile bumper to bumper & power-train warranty and a few other perks we didn't even know existed.
She's going to be with us for awhile.
Through cross country moves, hopefully an expanding family, and so much more.
Another perk:
It's easy to get Bitsy in and out her car seat and none of us are cramped anymore.
It's so easy to get her out and such a smooth ride that this is her after a short ride home from the DMV.
PASSED out.
She was moved to her crib shortly after this, but isn't she lovely just laying there snuggled up with a blankie?

Moral of this story is....utilize the internet to find what you want, don't settle, and KNOW what you want and how much you can get it for before you go to a dealership.  Also, don't be afraid to travel to get what you want.

I hope you have a Blessed Wednesday!

Oh and in case you were wondering we haven't decided fully on a name for our new van, but my Wheel of Fortune loving hubby is leaning towards Vanna White (get it... it's a white van?).  Thank you to my friend Julie for suggesting such a fun name!

Tuesday, February 19, 2013

Baked S'mores

I'm looking over the weather and surveying where all of my friends and family live and I'm seeing a lot of snow.
I mean A LOT!
Our forecast today is a high of 57º, but in Kansas there are predictions of 12-18" of snow!
All that cold weather makes me long for warm summer nights and S'Mores!
Since campfires and stick skewered marshmallows are not quite an option for most I guess we will have to settle for this yummy oven baked S'Mores alternative!
Don't worry, it's almost as good as the real thing!

Here Is What You'll Need:
- 1-1/2 cups marshmallow creme
- 5 to 6 Hershey bars
- 1/4 tsp salt
- 1 tsp baking powder
- 3/4 cup graham cracker crumbs
- 1-1/3 cup flour
-1 tsp vanilla
- 1 large egg
- 1/2 cup sugar
- 1/4 cup brown sugar
- 1/2 cup butter, room temperature

Preheat your oven to 350º and grease a 8x8 baking dish.

In a large bowl, cream the sugar and butter.
Add egg and vanilla and continue mixing until well combined.

In a smaller bowl  mix the flour, graham cracker, baking powder and salt.

Add dry mixture to butter mixture and combine well.
Divide your dough in half.

Take 1st half of dough and press into bottom of baking dish.

Layer your Hershey bars over the dough.

Now spread your marshmallow fluff over the chocolate bars.
This is the hardest part ;) 

Next you'll want to cover the top with the last 1/2 of the dough.
My suggestion is to roll out the dough and lay it over the fluff.
It can be many small pieces or one large.

Bake for 30-35 minutes or until the dough starts to turn golden.
Cool for 30 minutes, cut and enjoy!

Finally I have an after photo for y'all!  

I highly recommend you share this treat.
It's uber sweet.
It's utterly sinful.
It's the perfect substitution for the real thing!

I hope you have a Blessed Tuesday!