30.5.05
Pre-marital Sex and Sexual promiscuity
This shows i got read the paper today...LoL...
Pre-marital sex...By ITSELF is not a wrong thing...but only under certain conditons.
1)The pre-marital sex is not part of sexual promisuity.(only with the person you're in love with,
if you fall in love easily...well... ...)
2)you know what you're doing(seriously) i.e.implications.
What implications?
Insecurity at an extent.
Pregnancy(guys should also be concerned okay).
Being Gossip fodder.
Attracting sexually promiscuous people.
Scaring away people who have their doubts about sexually promiscuous people(or at least they might think you are one)
Well... for sexual promiscuity in my view is unacceptable and hard to justify.
Its not just no-strings attached fun. WHY?
simple...the issues at hand are:
1)why can you accept such a thing in the 1st place? If sex is not a form of intimacy between real lovers then it would be a physical enjoyment of sorts. For the excitment?
Then that would make you no better then drug abusers. Quick Physical gratification, Disregard for personal dignity, Disregard for the risks involved(need i say AIDS, pregnancy w/0 knowing who is it, burying your conscience(I MUST STRESS if you still keep it with you) for impregnating some girl...
And using such a practise as a kind of emotional crutch? horrible.
Ok..please take notice i compare you with drug users...try to phantom why if you really really don't get my point yet.
Anyway if you say it is to... erm..."test drive" the prospectus partner....well, you're not driving a car. You should really try to respect yourself and know that you're being erm..test-driven also.
I must say again if you put such a physical and not emotional, phyche thing as priority... know that i feel sorry for you.
I have had this thought for some time..."you're not born with a craving for sex..., why be so driven by it now..?" That was for the guys.
okay! enough rambling about that. ^.^
I would like to tell you my life in camp...but its of no interest to me to elaborate... except for really really ReaLLy reaLLY bad bad bad BAd management. Unhappiness. Noisy people who don't understand the situation. People who like to complain. Person who gets influenced by person who likes to complain and make a big FUSS. Wasting of everyone's time...AND of course, waiting for ORD!!! LoL sorry can't help it. >.<
And...take care yeah...don't fall keep falling sick leh... my friends. Must drink WATER like no one's business... EAT FRUITS like no one's business also. Important, such things are to health.
voice pai liao must take care even more okay... if not feeling well still forced to work so hard HOW???
how??
how?
Take mc loh...*Doink*.
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25.5.05
I do not presume...
Ok...before i begin is must say Adela is one of my more lovely friends..lol.
Anyway..recent observations pertaining....some people.
i do not presume that i have the right to judge you. But you have exposed the uglier side of your characters to me(at least to me) and facts i have gathered make me want to do an over-dramatic puke scene.
well...i'm glad i sought solace in solitude(when i booked out at least..heh) before these recent events unfolded and i discovered the truth. i now have a list of facts that will condemn you to a certain end...but you're still my friends, its just that now i fear for you and the mistakes you'll yet make...partially because of your.... ... ... ...overblown ego.
I'm sure you do not regret my absence...but if you *do* read this... know that i have nothing to hide...i'm just protecting your identities and modesty from being stripped of your protective pretences at being nice.
OK that will be all. Well...too bad i have an eye for people's flaws. anyway i'm booking in soon... take care yore.(lol)
And...enjoy your june holidays~! i wanna have a month long hol from NS too..lol...maybe not..cuz can't.
why wouldn't guys stare at a radiant, cheerful young lady like you? lol.. but be careful not to accidentally *zap* them with ya smile o.O..*electrocution..ZzZzZeeeeZezeeeEe*
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23.5.05
Jogging in Yew Tee
lalala...went to jog with XQ at Yew Tee. I'm v.free mah...so i thought why not join her since i'm going to jog anyway.
Quite cool~ spotted this girl around 19yrs one who is running quite fast indeed, she could have clocked easily less than 10.5minutes for 2.4km...but of course i happened not to bring my watch so i wouldn't know. >.<
Shared with XQ some of the ab exercises that guys do so she might incorperate into her own regimen...hmm...should help her to lose weight faster? is she want to lose weight one...so not my fault she might wanna torture herself. 0.o
Now that ATEC is over my immediate plan is that i might want to become vegetarian soon...cause got more energy and focus to work on my diet. hai but need to tell my PC..so might have to wait for a chance.
(Listening to F.I.R's Neverland)
oh yah...saw Ivan today~ but it was quite dark in the evening plus he plum up a bit le so i didn't react to say hi by the time i recognise him...tired from running? excuses -.-''
Got a couple of books on Karma and by Kuan Ch`in master today...shall read them. ^.^
"Kamma is a Pali word meaning action. It is called Karma in Sanskrit. In its general sense Kamma means all good and bad actions. It covers all kinds of intentional actions whether mental, verbal or physical thoughts, words and deeds. In its ultimate sense... ... ..."
You shall practise the good, virtuous things you learn else you wouldn't know whether you have really learnt. -interpreted by Kee`Q from somewhere. =p
MuSiNgS Cerebrated @ |21:12|
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Absence..Not~
oops...some time never post le~.
hmm...i'm fine loh...just survived ATEC. More of survive 4days of no bathing(stinko~! itchy!) and armies of mosquitoes(ZZzzzZzz..ZZzZZZ..ZZZzeeeezZzeeeee)...plus 3 days of rain.
NS...is just quite routine...hmm.. exciting stories i have to tell you in person then will be funny..heh.
Del...Reynard's gf is it...anyway if you're reading this welcome back~! =)
or izt Adela..i still think you're cool..heh.
Anway JOCE~ how come your blog is only a single page?? maybe got an error somewhere...
oh wait...i know le...cool~
i like f.i.r more and more le...altough a lil loud its damn positive where its coming from..love it.
oh yeah..gonna watch Star Wars Epe III soon~ maybe tues or wednesday~...i'm going to watch it i don't care~~~
"Being nice you see people through the same kind of eyes... people will tend to look like better people then they are. Not that its not good...just take a step back and lean against the cool wall of reality and take another look sometimes, and decide whether they should have such high/low scores."
I realised nowadays i am in a surprisingly calm, serene state. Being attached and then single again for so long has its benefits...or is it because i derive benefits from many kinds of situations as a optimist..heh. I might seem angry or disturbed sometimes but i can let it go quite fast really...i think its cool.
The rain...freshens me up and energises me quite instantly indeed. Only if i'm not at home...but i'm in camp most of the time.. *bleaH*
Oh yeah...learnt that when you bath the Buddha statue you CANNOT pour da water down from the head but only at the shoulders. Interesting Buddhist funfair setup at the Fountain of Wealth.
MuSiNgS Cerebrated @ |00:16|
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8.5.05
Sightings and a Song.
Yesterday i spotted Grace, today morning Monica and evening Sabrina on her boyfriend's bike.
Its quite a contrast the way they all look different while i...i look the same~...lol
Met Liangye today...it was like:
"wah you still look the same!"
yeah..i know that.
Anyway i bought the "voices of love" Cd...there's this song...
~The Blower's Daughter~
And so it is
Just like you said it would be
Most of the time
And so it is
The shorter Story
No love, no glory
No hero in her sky
I can't take my eyes off of you
I can't take my eye off you
I can't take my eyes off of you
I can't take my eyes off you
I can't take my eyes... **
And so it is
Just like you said it should be
We'll bot forget the breeze
Most of the time
And so it is
The colder water
The blower's duaghter
The pupil in denial
**Repeat
Female: Did i say that i loathe you?
Did i say that i want to
Leave it all behind?
**Repeat(but is "can't take my mind off.."
I can't take my mind...
My mind...my mind...
'Til I find somebody new
tata pepz~Bookin' Time.
MuSiNgS Cerebrated @ |20:42|
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7.5.05
wait a second
what i meant is...not that i cannot be excited... i am looking past the exterior of people. or trying to nowadays. Appearance affect me alot less nowadays, unless it implies certain qualities: creativity in dressing, daring to be different...tastefully of course.
well that being said i am still trying to perfect my little art...i got nothing perfect now, except being perfectly single...LOL. (i.e.perfectly loner).
Anyways i still appreciate girls who look so bery delicious. Not in the lusty way u noe..more like appreciating a nice picture. hmmz..
hai..so long nv watch tv..the "Tian Long Ba Bu" female lead is really chinese/cute chio loh...but the show is quite violent..the way the vilians kill is..hmm..*stab stab*
Oh yeah..the Kingdom of Heaven is not *stab staB*..its *slash n splash* but got Orlando Bloom and some thoughtfully inserted dialogue...i give it 3.5/5
Some movies to look out for: Hitch-hikers' Guide to the Galaxy, War of the Worlds, Star Wars Episode III(at the v.least got Natalie Portman...hahah..she got a real interesting choice of movies so far, impressive) Mr. N Mrs Smith(cuz got Angelina Jolie who looks incredibly radiant~ i don't know why...)
And...u work in a gift shop where couples always visit of course will get affected sometimes loh...wat to do u choose one right. hah..u need more bo liao ppl like me who visit alone just to see see look look...Nway 2 thumbs up for going on tv courage. Don't bother with what people who don't know you say lah...u look like person whoz name is sweet and nice loh...i nv doubted it. Definately not funny also. Nway don't bother especially with dumb mala...*ke-hum* shall keep the peace. N...the F word is addictive, don't use it too often. I know cause i used to spew profanity like 20 times a day.
ok...me shall post again...
MuSiNgS Cerebrated @ |21:30|
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1.5.05
I confess.
hah...i've been quite sacarstic normally. Now that there're events in camp that sees to it that my patience be drained to a minimal, you'll get a taste of my acid tongue.
But thats in camp. BUt but..surprisingly a friend of mine said he noticed that but he likes my way of expression.
Maybe i'm just speaking words straight from his mind. But of course he is much more pleasant as a person then i am.
oh yeah...came home from zm and hy's B`day party for a while le. just now in the train with Leo we saw this girl who's really quite pretty....but he is not v.impressed...hmmm... i really question his taste. At some point i caught her looking at me, with big eyes and nice dimples and all.. but i'm not really excited or anything...the blood in my veins is not of a young man as i suspected? hah...i think too much some times... -cool analytic old man-
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