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Monday, March 30, 2009
Proactive Parenting Review and Giveaway

I was so thrilled when I was contacted by the people at Proactive Parenting. Proactive Parenting has a series of down loadable seminars that teach a parent effective ways to help your child and help the parent! I was given all of the seminars to try out and loved what I learned. They couldn't have come at a better time.
Here is a breakdown of the seminars that I listened to:
1) Correcting Toddlers- A great introduction on how to effectively discipline a younger toddler, including an alternative to time out.
2) Correcting Preschoolers- Gives another alternative to time out that is age appropriate for the older toddler and works with the developmental level that they are at.
3) Power Struggles, I Already Told You No!- this seminar made me realize the importance of how you are and how you speak to your child create an emotional foundation that your child will pass on to their children. Teaches great ways to correct without getting emotional and losing your temper.
4) Interrupting- This seminar taught me so many ideas on step by step ways to get your child to not interrupt you while you are talking.
5)Siblings, You Always Take His Side- how to show that you don't take sides and how to avoid time out when your children argue. A GREAT way to settle misunderstandings between siblings!
6) Whining, Potty Mouth, We Don't Talk Like That in This House- This was an eye opener on how children imitate their parents. This seminar teaches the Try Again method. (it really worked for me!)
7) Listening, Please Just Listen and Go Do It!- This seminar helps with getting your child to stop running in the house, to stay in bed, and to take care of their messes.
8) Self Control, Are You Allowed to Do That?- Keeping your children safe without lectures, time out, or threats. Uses the Go Nowhere Method and reminds the parent to be proactive vs being reactive.
9) Yelling, The Only Way to Get You To Listen- Makes you realize that yelling does not correct the behavior
10) Quiet, I Need You to Stop Talking for 1 Minute- I really need this seminar as I have two boys who non stop tell me what they are thinking!
I am so thankful for these seminars. They put in perspective of how my children are feeling and thinking as I am trying to correct their behavior. I love that Proactive Parenting uses Cause and Effect approaches to their techniques. I am taking a Lifespan Developmental Psychology class right now and their were perspectives used that I have been learning in my class. For example, Jean Piaget's approach to Cause and Effect and how a child's brain is not developed enough until age 7 to comprehend completely what happens when they behave a certain way. As I have tried implementing these techniques into my parenting and trying to teach my husband as well, I have realized how it is definitely a process and takes a mindful and patient, persist parent to get the results they are looking for.
Proactive Parenting has made me realize that if I really try to think about how my child feels and recognize my feelings in the moment, I am able to be more effective in my parenting. Proactive Parenting teaches the difference between discipline vs punishment and which is better for a child. It also uses "right here, right now" methods so that a child is corrected in the moment which is crucial for the child to learn rather than later.
I highly recommend these seminars to anyone who is looking to better their relationship with their child through a step by step approach to parenting. I sincerely hope that if you are questioning what you should do with how you are parent, that you would give Proactive Parenting a try.
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Not Me Monday

Welcome to Not Me! Monday! This blog carnival was created by MckMama. You can head over to her blog to read what she and everyone else have not been doing this week.
This week you can post your Not Me Monday here
1) I did not pray for baby Stellan ALL week.
2) I did not cry every time I did
3) I did not cry every time I looked at my boys after reading Stellan's updates
4) I did not step in pea in the bathroom the other day
5) I did not watch my sick son run around in circles for a full minute freaking out
only to stop in the middle of the living room naked and pea ALL OVER
6) I did not cry from laughing so hard when he did this
7) I did not become overwhelmed with posting giveaways
8) I did not totally rock an 'A' on my chemistry exam
9) I did not let my sick boy watch a gazillion hours of tv ( I would NEVER do that)
10)I did not watch Twilight 2 x's this week (would have been more but Cody wouldn't let me)
Sunday, March 29, 2009
Eleven Shoes Review and Giveaway

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Giveaway ends April 15th 11:59 pm
Saturday, March 28, 2009
Youcanmakethis.com Giveaway

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Giveaway ends April 14th 11:59 pm
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Ballas Hough Band Part 3

Friday, March 27, 2009
Fill Me In Friday

Before I was married I felt like I had no free time. I worked full time, went to school full time, tried to keep up a social and dating life, and church. How on earth did I do it? Yet I still always managed to find time to relax and center myself. I LOVE to read, and always was able to make reading a priority. I would read every chance I got, no matter how tired I was.
Fast forward to now- I have all the time in the world! Well not really but I do feel like as much as I do in a day I really do nothing. I take care of the boys but my house is still a mess. I have school but it's online and I can spread out my assignments usually. So where does my time go for reading? Blogging is a huge time waster. I love it but a little too much. Then there is shopping. Whenever we have to go to the store it's an all day event since we don't live near a real grocery store. Then there is tv. Too many shows on my DVR to catch up on. So I have decided I need to make room for reading.
I know that is how I truly get to feel relaxed and rejuventated. So today, post on your blog about how you relax, or don't relax but wish you did. I would love to see what makes you happy! Then link your post to Mr. Linky below. Have a great weekend!(photo from flickr)

Thursday, March 26, 2009
Ecostore Review and Giveaway

- Baby Moisturizer- My son Ki has had ezema since he was a baby and it is so hard to find a moisturizer that helps him. This stuff is so awesome! It is thick and I don't have to keep reapplying it throughout the day. It also smells heavenly with its Jojoba and Shea nut butters.
- Baby Sleepytime Bath- It contains oil of lavander and makes my whole bathroom smell wonderful. I used this for bath time with the boys before bed and really think it helped calm the boys.
- Antibacterial Citrus Spray Cleaner- This stuff rocks too. My son Ki is sick right now and I have been wiping the table and counters with this to kill the germs. It is a great cleaner and I like how it is natural and antibacterial too. Normally I spray the whole house with Lysol spray and kill our lungs with it. Not any more!
- Laundry Liquid- This stuff smells so good too (do you notice a pattern here?) It's concentrated so you only need to use a little bit and it also works as a stain remover.
- Pure Oxygen Whitener- I saved the best for last. This was my favorite to try. I had a pile of whites I was getting ready to thow away. I soaked them in this whitener and had the best results! My clothes were soooooo white! They are no chemicals and works just as good as bleach. I will never buy bleach again! I told you I would be talking about my laundry.
I am so smitten with Ecostore USA. They have so many other products to try that are a great replacement to all the chemicals that might be in our home. Now you can also find them at Meijer stores. I wish I didn't live in the middle of nowhere so that I could go to the store and buy them, but at least I can still order online! Guess what the fabulous people at Ecostore USA are going to do? They are giving one lucky winner the entire set that I received! How awesome is that? So here is what you do: Go to their site and leave me a comment telling me about a product you would like to try.
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Giveaway ends April 12th 11:59 pm
Abella Galleries Necklace Review and Giveaway

Elizabeth Rowland was inspired to start Abella Galleries when she was traveling in Beijing. The beautiful turquoise and white stone jewelry is just a taste of what's to come. Elizabeth is also planning on expanding with colored freshwater pearls, sterling silver designs, as well as elegant bridal jewelry by working with other designers.
I love the necklace I was sent because it is so unique and different then the rest of my jewelry. I usually buy my jewelry from Walmart and Target and only of it's on clearance. Now I love cheap jewelry but I hate how shortly it lasts me. Most of the time the metal changes colors, or breaks. I love that this necklace is high quality. I can tell the materials are going to last for a really long time. It looks great with a beautiful white blouse or even can dress up a regular white cotton tee and a pair of jeans. Another great thing is that you can pick between an 18 inch or 35 inch length necklace. They look great pairing the different lengths and styles together.
Thanks to the very generous Elizabeth, you can win a necklace from Abella Galleries of your choice! I know! So cool!
To enter please visit Abella Galleries and tell me which necklace you would choose.
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Giveaway ends April 9th 11:59 pm PLEASE REMEMBER TO INCLUDE YOUR EMAIL if it is not in your profile.

Ballas Hough Band Part 2
What I didn'tr realize is that the band wrote most of the songs! I always like that. The first song on the cd, "Do It For You" was actually co-written by the new American Idol judge Kara DioGuardi. I was surprised that the songs are actually good- as everyone else has been saying "who knew they could sing and dance?"

Tuesday, March 24, 2009
Sweet Wee Bairn Giveaway

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Giveaway ends April 5th at 11:59 pm
More Winners
Look What I Am Totally Going To Win!

IMPORTANT: If you head over could you please, please, please sign up for the Dad Blogs? If you do please let me know so I can get extra entries. If I win I will buy you something pretty ( I promise)!
Some Random Things
- A great homemaking website thefamilyhomestead.com this site has alot of things to offer but I just included a link to the healthy recipes. One cool thing I read was to soak your brown rice in yogurt to get your family to eat it....
- My niece Sunni, saw this site on the news promotionalcodes.com it has tons of codes for online as well as printable coupons for groceries.
- Here is where I buy bulk organic food storage from time to time azurestandard.com
- Over at Keeper of the Home she shares a great idea called Quiet Time Bins. I am def. going to be making these to occupy Ki during his quiet time in his room while his brother sleeps. By the way- I love this blog!
- My friend started a blog about all things positive. Anything that is good in the world can be found here. If you wanna check it out or share anything good go here http://lifesjustlovely.wordpress.com/
- Lastly, on a more serious not, if you are the praying type, could you please go to my charming kids and pray for her family and most importantly her son. Her four month old son is in very critical condition from a heart problem. You can read about it here.
Do you have any cool sites or blogs to share? Leave me a comment if you want to.....
Sunday, March 22, 2009
Wild Dill Winner
Here are your random numbers:166
Timestamp: 2009-03-23 05:45:40 UTC
I will be drawing for the Fairytale Brownies this week- it is just taking me awhile to go through all the entries! Note to self: If you ever want to start your own business- think brownies!

Flor Review

Ballas Hough Band Part 1

As I mentioned before I have had the wonderful opportunity to review the debut album of the Ballas Hough Band. In case you haven't heard about them, they are the dancers from Dancing with the Stars- Derek Hough and Mark Ballas. They formed a band and just released their album. Their style is a type of pop, but every song is so unique and different it's hard to put it in a specific category. I really liked the cd the more and more I listened to it. I especially put it on everyday to get me motivated to clean, since it's so energizing! The boys love to dance to it too.
Below is just a sample of the many great songs that are on the cd. I will be sharing more about the cd later in the week!

Friday, March 20, 2009
Fill Me In Friday

Tickle Me Plant Giveaway

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Giveaway ends April 1st 11:59 pm
5 Minutes for Mom Ultimate Blog Party 2009

It's my birthday! The big 26. What a great way to celebrate then with a blog party? Well I didn't plan it that way but it's a great excuse to brag about my birthday! If you are visiting from the party- WELCOME! I hope you stick around and check out my giveaways. If you like what you see, follow me! If you REALLY want to leave me a comment- I would love to get to know you better.
In April I will be launching a new design for my blog along with giveaways so be sure to come back and enter to win.
Here are the prizes I want to win from the party:
#58 Kitchen Aid Mixer by Moms Who Think
lucky number 7 the Ergo Baby Carrier from A Giveaway Addicted Mommy
#39 the Perpetual Birthday Calendar, lunch tin and 10 cards by Ordinarily Extraordinary
#103 Surprise box of goodies from Monkey's Momma
INTL 19 $130 Sponsor spot from Tip Junkie

Thursday, March 19, 2009
Winners

Wednesday, March 18, 2009
Lilash Review and Giveaway!

"Used daily LiLash will grow the appearance of the longest, fullest lashes you have ever had. Guaranteed. Applied daily as a liquid eyeliner you will notice LiLash begin to change your lashes in several weeks. Wait 4-6 weeks and watch your lashes transform right before your eyes. LiLash is the world's most powerful and fastest-acting eyelash conditioner. Our no-salt, nonirritating formula is just one more benefit that sets LiLash apart. LiLash is a favorite of eyelash extension wearers who notice better support and less lash breakage."
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Giveaway ends March 30th at 11:59pm
Tuesday, March 17, 2009
Food Blogs
Stephanie's Kitchen
Super Healthy Kids
Delightful Delicacies
Vanilla Sugar
Recipe Girl
Do you have any favorite cooking or baking sites?

Monday, March 16, 2009
Holy Hannah!

Sunday, March 15, 2009
Shelf Reliance Giveaway

I have slowly but surely been working on food storage. I have also slowly but surely been creating a mess in my pantry. I love being organized but you wouldn't know it by looking at my house! I was so thankful when Shelf Reliance sent me their Cansolidator to try out. It is perfect for my canned food. It was easy for a impatient person like me to put together and didn't take that long at all. It can hold up to 40 cans and can be adjusted to fit any size can you have.
I love that Shelf Reliance has everything you need for food storage and how to keep it organized.
They have a pay as you go plan ( kinda like Netflix) to make buying food storage easier and not as overwhelming. Isn't that cool?
The cansolidator is a great way to keep your canned goods organized and the instructions were super simple. If you would like to win one then listen up- this one is different.
Please go to their site and tell me something you would like to try from Shelf Reliance, and leave your email address. PLEASE NOTE: When you enter this giveaway you will automatically be signed up for the Shelf Reliance newsletter.
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Giveaway ends March 27th 11:59 pm
Edited Note: You must have your email address in your profile or your comment or your entry will be deleted! Sorry but I can't contact you if you win or add you to the Shelf Reliance newsletter. Thanks!

Friday, March 13, 2009
Fill Me In Friday
When I receive products it really cuts my costs down on purchasing things that I need or want. Most of the time if I need something I will wait as long as possible and pray that the right company will come along and let me try their product. So there you have it- that's my favorite way right now to save money.
So what's yours? If you want to join in just do a post on your blog and add the link to Mr. Linky. If you need help let me know. I'm excited to see what you come up with!

Winners!
The Complete Laundry System winner is Krystal from Our Happy Family. Please email me your shipping info and I will get them sent out. Thank you for all who entered- there are more giveaways to come and one that ends tomorrow so go to my sidebar and enter if you haven't yet. Have a great weekend everyone!

Wednesday, March 11, 2009
Green Pea Designs Giveaway


If you would like to win your own pouch (thanks to the very generous people at Green Pea Designs), please go to Green Pea Designs site and tell me which style you would like.
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Giveaway ends March 23rd 11:59 pm

Swaddle Designs

Well now I am prepared for whenever I have another baby. Swaddle Designs has the cutest and convenient swaddling blankets. They are a lot larger than the average blanket- 42"x42". They are 100% organic and even have step by step directions on how to swaddle sewn into the blanket! I really like the designs of the blankets and the softness of the flannel. Since they are so large they are perfect for using as a cover up when nursing, for a stroller blanket, and for tummy time. These make great baby shower presents. Swaddle Designs has other products as well so check them out!
Swaddle Designs is offering my readers a 10% discount! Just click here and enter code MadeinUSA.
