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one who is always prepared, be it when travelling or when doing work, perhaps he was always blamed for parts he should not be responsible for, in the first place? thoughts came, it might be better for him to prepare. you know, just in case? and the habit develops gradually. 

one who is careless, see how others take care of him. you know he's used to it. and the habit develops gradually too. 

when we talk about how the environment can influence our lifestyle, bear in mind. it's the people who matter most. what they do, what they talk about, how they treat us. if it successfully puts pressure on you, you've now affected. 'how people think of you' has successfully shaped you. they succeed in developing pressure in you.