We’ve
been taking a close look at the themes of Advent – those of Hope, Peace, and
Joy. The theme of this Fourth Sunday of Advent is Love.
Love
is an interesting word in our language.
We use love to describe deep emotions, as a synonym for like, as a term
of respect, and in a bunch of other ways too numerous to mention. I love my wife. I loved how my three previous bishops handled
business. I loved the pizza we used to
get from a particular restaurant when we were in Montana. I love it when the Dallas Cowboys lose. I love the Episcopal church. I love white chocolate raspberry ice cream
from Tillamook. I love my daughter.
So
we can see that the term “love” is used and meant in vastly different
ways. Sometimes they can be hard to
quantify. Sometimes they can be hard to
order. For instance, would I place a
bowl of white chocolate raspberry ice cream above watching the Cowboys
lose? Those two things are very
different, yet we still use the same term.
But
for this Fourth Sunday of Advent, for this Sunday of Love, we have to look at
love more deeply. The love expressed in
today’s gospel is multifaceted and profound.
First,
we have Joseph, someone who Matthew describes as a righteous man. This means that he lived his faith on a daily
basis – not just when it was convenient or when people were watching. He strove to obey the Law to the best of his
ability. But what made him righteous was
that he understood the difference between the legalistic letter of the law and
the underlying heart of the law.
Legally
he could have had Mary stoned to death for conceiving a child he knew wasn’t
his. But because he loved her, and
because he understood the heart of the law, he chose a more loving option – to
quietly dismiss her. There was a risk in
doing this, though, because he could have been accused of breaking God’s law
and he himself could have been removed or shunned by the religious
authorities. Living life by prioritizing
love over law, however, is scandalous in some people’s eyes, and sometimes also
dangerous. Joseph chose love over
law. He chose the inclusive and
scandalous love of God over the legal interpretations of humans.
In
our eyes quietly dismissing Mary is not very compassionate; but at that time,
and in that place, that was probably the most compassionate and righteous thing
Joseph could do. But it wasn’t
enough. So into this mix God sends the
angel Gabriel to deliver a message basically saying, “Do not be afraid to stay
with her; it’ll be okay.” And he
does. Once again he places love over
law.
Second,
we have the love of God that chose to become Incarnate in the person of Jesus.
My
friend Mtr. Ann Tillman from that other Buffalo, and with whom I do the
Wednesday Night BBQ, sent me a link to a great sermon delivered by the Rev. Dr.
Sam Wells, Vicar of St. Martin’s in the Fields, London, which he preached at
Trinity Church, Boston. In that sermon
he says that there was always going to be a Jesus because there always has been
a Jesus since before the foundation of the world. The Incarnation happens, he says, because God
wants to be with us.
What
Fr. Wells reminds us of is that God chose to be Incarnate, to be with us,
before there was a creation. Which then
means that God’s intention to be Incarnate in the person of Jesus was the
reason for creation. The whole story of
humanity and creation is about God being with us in every aspect of our life –
including being with us through sin and death.
In the Incarnation, in God being present with us through sin, death, and
everything in between, love lives. This
is a self-sacrificial form of love that is almost incomprehensible.
And
third, within the love of the Incarnation is the love that God wants to be with
us. Matthew’s gospel quotes from Isaiah
when he writes that the child shall be called Immanuel, God with us. Again, God with us is almost
incomprehensible.
We
get an idea of it when we choose to be with our partner in sickness and in
health, for richer, for poorer, and in all sorts of other conditions. This is also God’s promise to us – that God
will be with us from birth to death and will never forsake us no matter what
may come. Unlike people whose love grows
cold, or who break the bonds of trust causing love to end, or who are just
plain fickle, God with us means just that – God is with us. Always.
To borrow from the baptismal service, God with us is an indissoluble
bond.
On
this Fourth Sunday of Advent which is focused on Love, we need to look at love
more deeply. The love we are talking
about is more than pizza or white chocolate raspberry ice cream. It’s deeper and stronger than our love of
spouse or children.
The
love of God drives us to place morality over legalism. This love allows, AND REQUIRES,
us to question and disobey morally bankrupt laws and laws designed to hurt
rather than aid.
This
is the love of God that set creation in motion from before time so that God and
humanity could be joined together.
This
is the love that declares God is with us.
At the end of Matthew when Jesus says, “I am with you to the end of the
age,” this isn’t something Jesus throws out to make the disciples feel better. It’s a fulfillment of what God planned from
the very beginning. As my favorite
Christmas carol says, “of the things that are, that have been, and that future
years will see, evermore and evermore.”
This
is the love of this Fourth Sunday of Advent.
This is the love we hope to attain to.
This is the love we hope people will see lives in us.
May
the grace of our Lord Jesus Christ, the love of God, and the fellowship of the
Holy Spirit be with us all evermore and evermore.
Amen.