I feel absurdly pleased with myself because yesterday Jack and I (along with my friend Abby and her daughter Calliope) went to the zoo and botanical gardens. This doesn't seem like a feat at all, but I think it was my first real mom-baby outing where we decided to go for it, took the subway, and actually made it happen. We've done plenty of driving to visit friends or walks to playgrounds and activities, but we hadn't really had a subway adventure. I didn't know how the whole stroller on the subway thing would be - turns out it was not super fun, but not that big a deal, especially since on the way back someone was kind enough to help me carry the stroller up the stairs - nice! I'm not really used to relying on the random kindness of strangers (as Abby put it) and it's a weird thing to be hanging out at the bottom of the subway stairs, waiting for everyone else to go up in front of you because you know you'll be slow, and maybe secretly thinking/hoping that someone will offer to help. I've been on the other end a thousand times, and I've helped carry some stranger's stroller up my fair of stairs, but it's weird to be the one in need of the help. But I suppose I just need to suck it up and put my most pathetic face on, because carrying a stroller up stairs sucks.
But anyway, I digress. The outing was fun, though Jack slept through most of the zoo. He did wake up long enough for the sea lion feeding, which he was pretty uninterested in, so we went to sit on the grass which he LOVED. I think he would have sat there all day pulling up grass. So there's more guilt for not having a yard for the kid to play in. Sigh.
Abby posted a video of Jack and Calliope "playing" before we went: Jack and Calliope
This is the second girl friend that Jack's entertained and the result is sadly similar. Calliope fended him off with ladylike aplomb, happily.
And here's a couple other pics from yesterday....
| Enjoying(?) the sunshine at the Botanic Gardens. So much in bloom already!! |
| With his new favorite toy...grass. |
