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How to learn from your rivals
From the course: Personal Effectiveness Tips
How to learn from your rivals
- Hopefully, you love everyone you work with, but occasionally, let's face it, you might have a rival. We all know obsessing about a rival at work isn't healthy. But thinking about your rivals in the right way can actually be a spur to growth. Here's how. First, one of reasons we often develop rivals is they're similar enough to us in some ways that we compare ourselves. You don't often see 23-year old assistants having a 63-year old rival at the office. It's just not a relevant comparison. But if someone is like you in many ways, you notice and are sometimes bothered by the differences. That insight can be a useful clue for you, because it can point to areas where you're weak and they have a skill that you grudgingly admire. If they keep getting lauded for their public speaking and you resent it, maybe that's actually a sign that you should double down on your own presentation skills and should take a class or join Toastmasters. Second, if you watch yourself carefully, you can often…
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What to do when people don’t support your next career move3m 31s
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How to stay motivated when things are slow at the office2m 49s
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How to establish expertise inside your company2m 54s
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How to know when it’s OK to ignore feedback3m 20s
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Getting people to listen to you when you’re not seen as an expert2m 45s
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Stop people from wasting your time3m 5s
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How to score a meeting with almost anyone2m 44s
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Embracing gratitude at work3m 11s
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Getting the right people to notice your ideas3m
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How to avoid being underestimated3m 12s
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How to learn from your rivals2m 30s
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How to avoid coming off as too passionate2m 53s
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How to positively respond to criticism3m 1s
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