Wednesday, November 19, 2008

Pumpkin Carving--The final product

After hunching over a pumpkin for an hour or more, squinting and trying not to cut yourself, or your child, this is what you get!  As far as I can remember, no one drew any blood.

Greg and Anna's Masterpiece

Lizzy was tickled with her jack-o-lantern.  It had little insertable eyes for the eye sockets.  She loved that it was cute and happy.


Here is Adam's pumpkin.  

Last, but not least is Ben's.  He really wanted to do something scary.  He was very pleased.
I know I have been a little picture happy, but hey, this is for posterity.  Doesn't it make you want to carve a pumpkin? 
Posted by Picasa

Carving Pumpkins--the Carving stage

Here are the official carving pictures of the official Finch Family Annual Pumpkin Carving Family Home Evening (try saying that 3 times fast! HA!)  

Anna and Greg patiently working

OK, so maybe it looks like Ben did a little bit of stabbing.  Cherrie was so patient with him and just let him saw and saw until he would ask for a little help.  Then she would saw for a quick minute and he would be back at it again.  This was hard work for a 4 year old folks.

Sweet Lizzy posing for the camera.  She also did the lion's share of the carving.


The only picture I got of Adam carving, he had his eyes closed, so Ben got to cheese for me again.  So cute!

Posted by Picasa

October Fun-- Carving Pumpkins--the scooping


One of our favorite traditions for the Halloween season is carving pumpkins.  The new carving kits these days make it so much more fun for us and the kids.  It is way better than just stabbing a poor pumpkin with a steak knife.  This year all the kids, with the exception of Jacob, of course, carved their very own pumpkin!  It worked out perfectly because Greg's mom, Cherrie, and her husband Jim were still here for Family Home Evening (to learn more about Family Home Evening, click here http://www.lds.org/hf/fhe/welcome/0,16785,4210-1,00.html) when we carved them.  Greg worked with Anna, Jim worked with Lizzy, Cherrie was ever patient with Ben, and I helped Adam, after I got Jacob down for the night.  The kids were so proud of themselves.  They scooped, they carved, they triumphed.  It was tons of fun.  Personally, I think this is way more fun than letting them paint their own pumpkin, like we have done in years past.  Here are some scooping pictures.
I think Adam likes getting crazy with the pumpkin goup almost more than any other part.
Ben gingerly scooping out the pumpkin.  Doesn't he have a great cheesy smile?!

Anna, not enjoying the pumpkin guts. Greg's just messing around.


Lizzy and Jim working together.

Once again, I must reveal my true identity.  It is I, the wife and mother.  Give no heed to what blogger says about the matter.
Posted by Picasa

Sunday, November 16, 2008

Even more pumpkin patch

Anna, Ben, Lawson and Lizzy.

Hairy Grandpa and his posse.  Thanks for carrying the baby dad! (Greg carried him through the corn maze, the baby, not my dad).

MMmmmm! Spaghetti.  We added three more children for dinner because I watched my friend, Leah's, kids.  For a while we had the two neighbor boys too.  At one time there were 12 children, age 9 and under in our house!


Thus endeth the pumpkin patch pictures!

Muddy pumpkin patch pictures

Grandma Cherrie and Grandpa Jim. Look at that smile, even in the rain and mud.


The wagon, mired down in the mud.

Handsome Husband.

Ew!! Gross. I had to wash the clothes and clean the shoes.
Posted by Picasa


I am having trouble getting the pictures in my account, so I am using Greg's. It's me Tammy again.

October Fun--Post 1--Pumpking Patch/Corn Maze

Have you missed me? You are about to get overloaded with posts to catch up for the last month. October was a fun and busy month for us. We have really come to love the fun it brings. This year we had two, yes two, sets of grandparents come visit. My dad and his wife Nancy were watching my brothers kids for a week in Iowa City, so we didn't see much of them, but a little. I went up there one day, and then on their way to the airport they stopped to do something fun with us. Greg's mom, and husband Jim, happened to come the day before, also, so we decided to head to the pumpkin patch for some fun. My niece and nephew also came with us. So we had a total of 6 adults and 7 kids (not a bad ratio, really).

The day started out fun enough. We first did a great corn maze with lots of different checkpoints. It was great fun, but then it started raining. It was really starting to come down so we had to leave the maze and hide out in the little store. We still hadn't picked our pumpkins though. We talked it over and most of us decided to brave the rain and still get a pumpkin. Adam and Nancy opted for the drier, warmer car. The rain slowed down a little bit, but we failed to think about the MUD! It was so slippery and deep. It was difficult to walk, let alone pull our wagon with pumpkins in it. We did it though, and everyone had a great attitude about it, even the baby who was carried by my dad in his backpack. It even added to the experience. I think the worst part was cleaning off seven children's shoes when we got home. We came home and had hot chocolate and spaghetti for dinner. It was fun we could do this with grandparents and cousins along.

                                                                       Fun at the Corn Maze.


Lizzy at the Pumpkin Patch

P.S.  This is Tammy, not Greg.
Posted by Picasa

Saturday, October 04, 2008

Birthday pictures

Here are the long awaited birthday pictures.  I hope you enjoy!

For some reason, Ben wanted a snowman cake this year.  I figured it was easy enough that even I could figure it out.  The hat didn't turn out as well as I would have liked, but I think the rest is pretty OK.
Here is Ben trying out one of his birthday gifts.  Doesn't he look like a scientist? Er, maybe a mad scientist.
This was Ben's "big" gift this year. It is a bug vacuum and habitat.  He got a little bug jar from participating in our library's reading program this year that he carried around with him ALL the time.  I accidentally stepped on it and broke it one night while he was sleeping, so I thought it was paramount to replace it with something.  He still hasn't asked what happened to  the jar, phew!
This is the only picture of me on my birthday as the camera ran out of batteries shortly thereafter. Adam is so lovingly making me look good. He is a nine year old after all.



This is the cake that Greg decorated for Jacob. Isn't it fun?



Here Jake is trying to blow out his candle. Isn't he cute? It seems he almost always has a cracker in his hand, and if you say do you want a cracker, he walks immediately to the pantry. He understands so much now!



He didn't really dig into his cake. I think he wasn't very hungry. There was really no need to dress him down to his diaper, he didn't end up getting all that messy.


Thus endeth the birthday pictures!

Posted by Picasa

Wednesday, September 24, 2008

3 for 1--- Birthdays that is

So we have had a lot of birthdays at our house lately. August 20th was Jacob's 1st birthday! I can hardly believe it has been over a year. He started taking steps and walking at 11 months and is now an old pro. It makes him seem so much older. He seems more like a 15 month old than a 12 month old now. He says a few words, ball, boo, more (mo), wee (you know like wee!! this is fun!). He is so much fun and brings so much joy into our home. The kids all love having him too. Now that he can walk he likes to follow them around and they will play with him. He loves to be pushed in the stroller and he stomps his foot when he is excited. He is just so stinkin' cute. We just had our own little family party for him. It was great fun. Oh yes, he is now completely weaned, which makes this mama very happy:)



Next was my birthday. On Sept. 10, I turned the ripe, old age of 33. I am now well into my thirties. It doesn't bother me too much. In fact I feel like I've been married nearly 11 years, I have 5 kids, a great home, I ought to be in my thirites. It is a great place to be. I have thought some about how the Savior was 33 in the last year of his ministry on earth. I think I would like to reread those portions of the Gospels this year. 33 is good.



Greg, very kindly and wonderfully took off half the day of work to be home with me. We just went on a nice walk with the boys along the river and talked. Then we went and got the kids at school and went out for ice cream, and on a whim I wanted to go to a furniture store, so we all went to together (have you ever been to a furniture store with 5 kids? it is quite the experience, we rent ours out, if you are looking to try something new and different; it is actually pretty fun, just a little bit crazy!). Then we went home and Greg made me a nice dinner of mashed potatoes and grilled steak! MMMM! I didn't want a cake, so we had an ice cream pie, Mississippi Mud. It was a good day. I have a good life. I was reminded of that on my birthday. I told Greg, I felt like I should be the one giving everybody else a present. I just feel so grateful for my good husband and children, not to mention other family and friends. Life is good.



Lastly, was our Benner boy's birthday on Sept. 18. He turned 4! My fourth child is 4! He and I are buddies now that the kids are back in school. He missed them a lot at first, but now is thrilled with the arrangement, I think. It sure is apparent in his happy attitude and smiling face. He is so quiet sometimes, and then he will talk your ear off. He just likes to be near me, whatever I am doing. He will help with the dishes or wash the floor (yes I do those things occasionally). He likes to read with me and has his favorite books, including "I Spy" books and Mercer Mayer books.



The Saturday before his birthday we had his cousin Lawson and family over for a little celebration. That is always fun to get together with the Ebberts. I still think it is so cool Ben and Lawson were born on the exact same day. On Ben's birthday, he proudly brought a treat to preschool. Then we got kid's meals at Wendy's for Ben and his friend Holly. Then Ben and Holly, Jacob and I all went to the Family Musuem. It was so much fun to go with Ben and Holly. They are at the perfect age to really enjoy it and it was so different than taking a wide age range of kids. It was so much fun! The fun continued with a spaghetti dinner, snowman cake, and fun presents, including a bug vacuum, which has been a hit.



We love birthdays at our house, and it is a good thing, because they come in bunches!



Sorry folks, you will have to wait for pictures. We are having some Picasa issues. I know, how boring. You'll live. It just means you will have to come back soon to see if I got some up. Happy Wednesday!

Friday, September 05, 2008

Back to school.... 3 weeks ago

Well folks, I am breaking my many months of blog silence. I always want to be very thorough in my posts, which is part of the reason I haven't posted in months; who has time to be thorough?! I finally decided something was better than nothing, so here is my first post in a long while.

I know I am late, but the kids started back to school on August 13. Anna is absolutely loving it. Her teacher is very kind and uses tons of music in the classroom. The first week they had a contest to name the class pets, a frog and a fish. The fish was appropriately named Phelps. The frog received the name Jacob. She has loved having her friend Sarah in her class again this year too. All in all she is doing great. Here she is on her first day:


Lizzy is loving kindergarten too. She has a male kindergarten teacher, which I was a little worried about, but I have really liked him. He is totally organized and seems to be aware of where Lizzy is at academically. Liz has been extra tired but still enjoying school. They have a staggered start over the first three days for kindergartners, so only one third of the class goes over the first three days. Because of this here first day was different than Adam and Anna. Cute Lizzy.

I think Adam is enjoying too, although he will tell you differently. If you ask him if he likes school he will shrug his shoulders and kind of grunt (have we reached this already?). He often complains of being bored , but has liked some of the things his teacher has done already. She had them act out the olympic race where 2 men were disqualified and Adam got to be Usain Bolt, which he thought was pretty cool. They also had to "form" a team of animals and say which animals they would choose and which events they would have them compete in. He is busier than ever with extracurricular activities, so I think school seems boring in comparison.


Ben just had his first day of preschool yesterday. He was pretty shy at first and stuck close to me, but when it was time for me to go in the other room for a mini parent meeting, he did just fine. He keeps asking when he will get to go back, and said he had a great time. I think this will be really good for Ben. He has really missed the kids now that we are back to school. I don't know what I will do with myself when it is just Jacob and I for a few hours a week. This isn't his first day of preschool picture (I admit it, I forgot to take one!) but it is a cute picture of Ben.


We loved the summer and enjoyed having time to spend together. We are getting a little better at the school routine, but we are working out the kinks still. Happy school year kids. We love you! Oh, just because he is cute, here is picture of Jacob. Isn't he sweet?


Sunday, August 31, 2008

Helping Hands in Cedar Rapids

Most of you probably heard in the news what happened in Cedar Rapids Iowa and many other Iowa communities back in June. Because of a very wet spring, there was record flooding in many areas. Cedar Rapids was particularly devastated losing more than four thousand homes to the floods.

The waters have receded and cleanup efforts are underway. It is a mammoth project!

Our church has been organizing large teams of volunteers to help with the work in Cedar Rapids. I had a chance to go with volunteers from our ward on Saturday. About 150 others were also there from the church all across Iowa working on about 28 different houses.


This is the group from my ward. We were assigned the home of an elderly man named John (the one not wearing the yellow "Mormon Helping Hands" t-shirt) . John said that he was only given two hours warning to evacuate his home before the water arrived. The flood filled the basement and main level to within a foot of the ceiling, completely destroying everything in the home. Nothing had been done in the home since the flood and our job was to remove and demolish everything, leaving only the frame of the house and the exterior siding.

The hardest part of the whole day was seeing and hearing the pain that John was feeling as his house was literally torn apart. He is a retired 23 year military veteran who just last fall suffered a stroke, leaving him partially disabled. Although he still was able to work with us on his home, he spent most of the time wandering around with a somewhat blank look on his face, moaning and crying, and sorting through his former treasures hoping to find anything that he could salvage. The end result was almost nothing. I was filled with grief as I witnessed the shear magnitude of his loss. It was heartbreaking.



The first part of the project was removing the furnishings from the main level and beginning the demolition of the walls. This is a picture of some of the teenage young men from our ward early in the project tearing plaster from the walls. They loved this part! How often do you get to take a crowbar and sledgehammer to a wall?

I fortunately did not have to help with the freezer full of rotten food and floodwater. I did however, find the washing machine still full of laundry along with that filthy brown two month stagnant river water and got my first soaking while helping to move it outside to dump.



I was the first one to venture into the basement and ended up spending most of the day down there. This is a picture of one section of the basement where a portion of the wall had collapsed creating a mudslide of cinder blocks, mud, and John's possessions. After seeing that, I began to question whether we should be in the house at all and wonder whether in the end the house will have to be bulldozed anyway.



When I first went down, it was impossible to even step from the stairs into the basement. It was completely dark. We had only two weak battery powered electric lanterns to work with. The flash photograph shows much more detail than we ever saw. I had no idea what it really looked like until I saw the pictures.

We organized a bucket brigade to begin making headway in the basement - passing up item after item until we had cleared enough space around the stairs to begin working. We found under the piles of debris a thick layer of very wet and slippery mud covering the whole floor.

Most of the day for me was spent carrying things out of the basement and scooping out bucketful after bucketful of that nasty mud. Any storage container that managed to remain upright was still completely filled with river water. I had many soakings trying to move those containers and ended the day completely wet and caked with mud.



As precarious as the situation was, miraculously no one was seriously injured. Rusty nails were everywhere, and sledgehammers and crowbars flying. At one point a huge section of ceiling came crashing down on two of our youth, but they shook it off, showing no signs of injury or slowing down. So far no one has developed any illness, though I'm sure there was disease everywhere in that home. We really felt that because of the service we were doing, that we were being watched over.



By the end of the day, we had cleared out a mammoth pile of debris. This is all of John's possessions and most of his home - all completely destroyed in a matter of hours. It was so sad.



Here's the finished product in the basement. Still a nice slippery layer of mud, but a big improvement over the start of the day.



Upstairs, most of the walls and a good portion of the ceilings were taken out by the end of the day. Everyone put in a very full very exhausting day.



I was very impressed with the youth that came with our group. They all worked hard all day long with very little rest or slowing down. We accomplished a lot of good for John and he and his family showed a tremendous amount of gratitude for the work we had done.

It was a very hard day - physically exhausting (I'm am SOOO sore today) and emotionally difficult. But in other ways, it was one of the most rewarding days I have had in a very long time.

I came home with a deeper sense of gratitude for what I have and a stronger realization that life is not about what we possess in our homes. Those things could be washed away in an instant leaving us with only the person that we are and the faith that we have and the relationships that we have built. Why do we spend so much time chasing the material things? "Lay not up for yourselves treasures upon earth, where moth and rust doth corrupt, and where thieves break through and steal: But lay up for yourselves treasures in heaven, where neither moth nor rust doth corrupt, and where thieves do not break through nor steal"

One house down ... Three thousand nine hundred and ninety-nine to go. We expect to be going back often.

You can see all of our pictures here: http://picasaweb.google.com/finchgregory/2008August30BettendorfWardCedarRapidsCleanup