Diam adalah pintar (^-*)

Untuk orang yang sedang mengharungi sisa2 dalam pantang seperti I, ber'DIAM' diri di dalam rumah saban hari memang menyeksakan. However, hujung minggu hari tu... ada dua perbuatan "DIAM" yang mendatangkan manfaat dan kegembiraan untuk I .

(1) "DIAM" dalam melakukan kerja2 rumah :-

Di pagi Sabtu yang damai, Incik hubby bangun awal2 pagi dan melakukan kerja2 rumah e.g menyapu lantai, mop lantai, vacuum carpet, basuh baju2 kotor, jemur pakaian basah, kemas barang2 yang bersepah atas lantai, jaga baby Nazhan, mandikan baby Nazhan, dodoikan baby Nazhan tidur .. pendek kata dan panjang kata, semua kerja2 rumah di lakukan oleh incik hubby sampaikan I tak sempat nak buat apa2 melainkan tengok jer .

<-- tengah mop lantai kat dapur


Memang seronok bila sesekali *tipu sangat, padahal dah berkali2x* di beri peluang untuk ber"diam" dari melakukan kerja2 rumah.

(tidurkan baby Nazhan pastu tertidur kepenatan)

(2) "DIAM" dalam meluahkan perasaan

Ada pepatah mengatakan kata-kata itu lebih tajam dari mata pedang. Tersilap memilih kata2 mungkin akan mengguris perasaan sehingga tiada ubat dan plaster di dunia ni mampu mengubatinya *perghhh perumpaan memang dasyat aaar*. Oleh itu, bila perempuan-dalam-pantang-yang-memang-terkenal-dengan-kondisi-emosi-tidak-stabil merajuk bermula dari malam Sabtu, si suami perempuan dalam pantang itu mengambil keputusan untuk ber"diam" dan tidak memujuk dek kerana perasaan geram melanda dirinya dengan telatah kurang matang si isteri.

Si perempuan-dalam-pantang-yang-memang-terkenal-dengan-kondisi-emosi-tidak-stabil *ceh sengaja ulang berkali2x ayat ni , padahal memang hobi seumur hidup ialah merajuk*; juga memilih untuk ber"diam" dari memberitahu si suami tentang sebab2 merajuk maka suasana sunyi menghiasi rumah sehinggalah siang hari.

Tidak tahan dengan kesunyian tersebut, si suami mengambil keputusan untuk membuang rasa 'geram' terhadap si isteri dan menghadiakan jambangan bunga buat isteri tercintanya. Yeay...yippee...tak sia2 I ber"diam", dapat gak jambangan bunga di Ahad yang romantis *alih2 terus romantis sebab dah dapat bunga.. ekekekeke dasar perempuan-dalam-pantang-emosi-tidak-stabil*.




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Terbukti di sini bahawa pepatah "DIAM ADALAH PINTAR" sangat2 bersesuaian dengan tema hujung minggu yang lalu di kediaman kami.

--> Hubby memilih untuk ber'diam' dari memarahi isterinya yang merajuk untuk mengelakkan sifat marah dalam hati nya meledak dan mungkin mencetuskan perbalahan tidak sihat dalam keharmonian rumah tangga kami.

--> I memilih untuk ber'diam' dalam proses tunjuk perasaan dan terbukti taktik itu berkesan . Ye lah, I kan selalu cakap banyak..sort of talking-machine..so bila I diam, incik hubby memang tak boleh tahan tengok I diam sebab dia rasa pelik sangat hik3x. In the end, I dapat bunga sebagai tanda maaf (walaupun dia rasa dia tak buat salah pun ) dan dalam masa yang sama I pun tak mengeluarkan kata2 yang mungkin akan menyakiti hati incik hubby .



Pssssttt: seksa sangat sebenarnya time ber'diam' daripada bercakap tu, so next time kalau merajuk kena cari taktik lain la pulak kot ngeh3x.

Why do you BLOG?

For every single things that happen in this world, there is always a reason on it. Today, I would like to write about the reason "why do I blog? ".

I started blogging on 20 November 2006, a day before my 24th birthday and the platform at the time was using friendster's blog. My first entry in this blogging world is "orang2 hebat" where I wrote about few people that have inspired me into this blogging arena. Of course at the time, the readers were mainly from my friend's list. The topic of my post were mainly based on my opinions regarding some matters that happened to me while staying in Germany & Spain. As I was quiet busy with my study, I only update my blog once a month .

All this changed 360 degree when I come to Japan end of last year and be a full time housewife. I was damn bored stayed at home doing almost nothing except to take care of my expanding belly. Thus, I decided to start writing actively in this blogging world and to go worldwide, I decided to focus all my entries into yatie chomeyl's blog hosted by blogspot.


Through my writing, I can share all the activities that I've done here with my families back in Malaysia. I usually wrote about the places that we've been visiting here in Japan under the label : "Travel and Living". By writing it also, I introduce some of interesting spot to visit in Japan .

Along with the writing also, I learn to share about my feelings. Doesn't matter if it deals about my families, friends, life, marriage or anything. I shared my opinion and thoughts with others and I learn about other's perspective after reading the comments that the readers has left. Though some people might find it inappropriate to talk about 'sensitive' issues, I choose to write about it because only through writing it out..I managed to let go the negative feelings off from my head as I've been doing on my post under the label :"meroyan time".

I am also using my blog as a platform to join as many contests that I could to grab the prizes and giveaway organized by other bloggers. So far, I've won three prizes from the contests that I've been joining and I'll always tries to enter as many contest that I could.

Later on, I blog about my pregnancy and all the great experiences that I've encounter while carrying my babies. I've been very lucky because lots of blogger mums out there is kind enough to share their experiences with me regarding this pregnancy issues that I've put under the label :"pregnancy & me".

And for now, being a mommy, I love writing about my baby as I wanted to treasure this memorable period in my life and I wish to share it with other moms. Each time I'm having problems or questions or any hesitation about parenthood thingy, I'll just write it in my blog under the label :"baby SN" and woooshhh....lots of blogger moms out there come out with a piece of advice and wisdom words for me and I really appreciate it .

This addiction to blogging activity has helped me a lot to kill my boredom, to get rid of any negative feelings in my head, to seek for advice from others, to share about my ups and down of staying in foreign country and most importantly is to seek new friend all around the world everyday. As days passes by, I gain more and more friends eventhough I just sit down in front of my laptop. As I hardly met new people everyday, I am very delighted to have my Malaysian friends around me in this blog.

Psssssttt: ~That's my story of "Why Do I Blog? " as part of my attempt to win the Bloggivessary Contest organized by Reita Kana. If you think your story is also interesting, write it down and send your link to her blog as well..good luck~.

OKINOKIYO Giveaway

Pin pin pon pon here I come .... As for today's entry, I'm going to join another giveaway *dasar pompuan dalam pantang yang giler join contest* muahahahaha. This time, it's OKINOKIYO Giveaway!. Wanna know what I can win by joining this giveaway?

I should win this bag because :

I'm going to match it with my casual outfit and wear it with proud as the bag impose a stylish, fashionable, chic and trendy design. Plus, this bag is custom made which means that it is uniquely design with elegant fabric that cant be found at anywhere else except at Okinokiyo!.

Psssttt: more and more entry about contest will come later...chill out gurlzs~.

Gugu Gaga Yatie Chomeyl

Last nite, hubby and I watched Gugu Gaga Erra; i.e a brand new reality TV show about Erra Fazira's life upon becoming a mother to a cute little Engku Aleesya. For the 23/06/09 episode, it shows the right way to massage your baby thus hubby has tried it last night on baby Nazhan before we go to sleep. It seems like baby Nazhan enjoy it so much that he didn't cry at all, amboi3x..kecik2 dah dapat massage treatment yer hehehe.

For other mum & dad out there, who would like to perform the massage on your baby, here's the video on how to do it :-

Today 26/06/09, my baby SN has turn 1 month...yeay yippeeee....cepat sangat masa berlalu, tak sedar dah sebulan I've become a mommy to this cute sweet little handsome adorable charming hero prince *perghhh...puji melambung2..mestilah mommy puji anak sendiri ye tak, nak suruh saper lagi puji ..kui3x*.

(yeaay..I'm already 1 month..yippeee)

(takder celebration ke on my 1st month birthday?)

I really enjoy this 1 month even though it means that I don't really get enough sleeps at night especially if baby SN dah tidur banyak masa daytime, sebelah malam memang dia akan berjaga je lah .

(sleepy face)


(with his sleeping mate, teddy-frog-SL)

I don't mind to changed his diapers even though there are times when baby Nazhan will kencing or sometimes berak on my hand .

I savor each special session of breastfeeding him though if it means that I have to feed baby SN every single hour. It has surely created a special bond between us....plus, it helps me to lose my weight and I'm loving it .

(muka puas hati sebab dah kenyang hehe)

I favor the time that the three of us spent together at night and during the weekends as it is the only time that incik hubby can be with us .

(daddy dah balik ker tuh?)

I value each and every single second of becoming a mother to Shafiq Nazhan..and I'll always love you till the end of my life! .

As pictures tells a thousand story, I hope you guys has enjoy the collection of lovely captivating and the most appealing photos of Shafiq Nazhan during his one month old.

(bye fellas! see you next time)

Pssstt: Malam tadi Nazhan tidur sekejap je, I pon hairan kenapa. Is it because of he had a lot of sleep during the day or he can feel the earthquake yang mommy & daddy lansung tak realize . I realize about it pon after reading syamim's and t-qah's entry about the earthquake huhu.