Ratatouille

Heh heh! Yesterday nite, we went to the big screen again, to catch the girls' 3rd movie, Ratatouille.

The show dont seem to interest my girls much but their mommy was rather captivated by the rat, Remy.

This rat got character man, I love it! The overall movie was nice. Nice pan view of Paris and it's Eiffel Tower. Nice, warm touching story too. Especially Ego's last critics "... not everyone can be a great artist, but a great artist can come from anywhere", very inspiring.

I admire Remy for able to follow his dreams and he's funny when insisted to walk on two legs and refused to eat with his dirty paws and garbage! haha!

Then didnt forget to wash his hand before helping Linguini in the kitchen... his big red puffy nose, neat whisky and big "radar" ears !!! Haha! They way he smell and sprinkle the spices larvishly... all-in-all, he is so cute yet didnt loose his musculine.

Some of my fav scene...

Abella's heart

One night, after dinner, the two girls were having great time, playing catching with their two Ah yi.

Then little Abella came to me, looked & sounded worried...
" mommy... my... here is moving..."

Her hand was placing on the top left of her chest.
Apparently that was her heartbeat.

Me smiling: " my dear, that is your heartbeat. "
I guided her hand to place at my top left chest.
"can you feel it dear? that's mommy's heartbeat..."

She seem amazed but glad that she was normal. Happily she resumed her chasing game.

Gazing at her little back... I wonder if the happy-go-lucky Clara ever aware of that... and I wonder, the earlier Abella realise her heart exist, also imply she will meet the world of reality/cruelty eariler?

Now I wish my girls, not only have a heart of gold, passionate & compassionate, but also a brave & strong heart :)

Heartshape picture, courtesy of DHD Multimedia Gallery

I wish... I wish... I wish for...

If I have Aladdin's magical lamp, probably I'll ask genie to turn back the clock and I will reject to marry that man this time round!

Why? Why not ask genie to change your man into a better person instead?

Huh! Probably even genie will sigh and shake his head... impossiblility...
朽木不可雕 !
(impossible to make a good carve from a rotten bad log)

... ... ... ... ...

Ok... that was just my words of impulse... luckily I used the words "probably". Though he's a bad log, still he float...
But that man's brain circuit is definately haywire!!!

That man thinks taking care of kids and housechores are woman's responsibility and he is very good enough to help around and yet Im not appreciating but keep complaining. I am not calculating and in fact whatever I do for my my girls, is out of my most will. But he forget, Im working too. If I can, I wish I could but many of time, I have a mind but incapably...

I request that man understanding, hoping he can spend more time helping out... and his reply...
"this is your problems already... you must find you own solution then..."

I try not to bother my mum to babysit my girls but whenever it happen that both of us have a schedule...
"put them with your mum then..."
"but mum is tire too... she has another two kids to take care..."
"your mums' two are grown-up... they shdnt need much attention... furthermore is not everytime..."

He never understand the attention require for all ages children and considerate for my mum's age can be quite tiring to take care children. No doubt is not everytime, but he has the habit. I told him, I really dont like the ideal and I have a stronger sense that we shd take care of our own children but not taking advantage of my mother's convienience... and his reply...
"the problem lie on you then... you settle your own problem..."

Sometime it can be quite stressful for me to be alone with the girls. They can get over board and out of hand. I told that man my problem and his reply...
"Who ask you to seng pai?!! Solve your own problem now..."

And what make me "blasted" last night was, for the pass 3 night, he was having some competition, so I have been handling the girls myself... from fetching them home, having dinner till wash-up and tuck in them.

For the first night, I took it as a challenge. Everything went ok. I even did some chores and whipped up a supper waiting for him. Not angry even knowing he was still chating with fren at carpark. When he came back, we manage to chat a bit and he commented "See! Man likes woman to be sweet... today you are very nice."
(In my heart was thinking, his head got problem. He still has the audacity to expect his wife to be sweet when day she had worked 8.5hrs w/o break and night continue at home and he's not helping but having self time!)

The 2nd night was a bit tire for me. Luckily mum came by. Having a person to talk somehow vented a bit. But I really have no mood to appear sweet infront of that man.

Then the 3rd night... Im so demoralise when fetching the girls, he told me he'll go JB with fren to pump oil after the competition! And he came back 2.30am!

Unconditional love

Does my twin fight?

YES!
Not only that, they will screamed & yelled at each other too
-_-

So everynight before they sleep, I'll make them say "good night... sweet dream... & I love you" to each other to round up any woes of the day.

On and off, they will also ask each other "Do you love me huh?", and this morning in the car...

Abe & Clar to each other : "Do u love me huh? Yes! OK!"

then Abe to me : "Mommy, do u love me huh?"
me : "Yes! Of course, my dear."
Abe to further reassured : "Mommy, u love me alot huh?"
me : "Yes...alot alot... very much!"

then the "copy cat" Clara to me : "Mommy, do u like me huh?"
me : "NO! I dont LIKE YOU!" (haha, teasing her)
Clara startle
then I told her : "Mommy dont like you but mommy LOVE YOU! You know, alot alot u know!"
Clara still looks startle but reply : " Ok..."

Two little silly rascal... how wont mommy love you huh? :p

Picasso??

On Tuesday night, after dinner, the girls were self doodling. I saw Abella drew something unusual...

me: " Wow! Abella, what a nice piece of drawing. Can you tell mommmy what is that?"

She pointed to the two bigger swirl... " this is the eye, got two eyes" and the smaller swirl " this is the nose" and the funny shape on the right... "this is the ear" and then very obvious, the long shape on the bottom is the mouth!

HA HA! Her drawing is so hilarious. It made me laughed.

Quickly I wipped out the camera... took some pix of her and hers masterpiece. Then came Clara with her "three flatten circle", wanted me to take pix of her too!

Haha! My two lovely girls... :)

Our First School Uniform

Yesterday was the girls' school photo taking session. It was the first time they wear their school uniform, after 7 months in school... Dont ask me why? The teacher didnt enforce so I dont bother either... haha

I find the uniform a bit funny but the girls' claim that they are so pretty, like princess -_-

Nevertheless, I took photo of them... they are so sweet, no matter what they are wearing :p